Have you ever loved two people at the same time? Of course you can. But can you take it out without breaking your heart? That’s Hard by Rachel Madison
Have you ever found yourself falling in love with someone when you are already in a committed relationship?
Have you ever loved two people at the same time?
If you have, you’re not alone.
Although it may offend your partner or appear immoral. But falling in love with two people is as simple as that. with falling in love with one person
It’s no different, and it really shouldn’t be.
After all Love is an emotion that can be experienced when the symptoms are right.
you like someone very much You find them attractive and sexually excited to be with them. Clap your hands! you fall in love
now you meet someone else You find them sexually attractive and excited to be with them and clap again! You fell in love with someone new again![Read: How to know if you are in love]
Do you love two people?
It’s nonsense to assume that you can’t fall in love with two people.
Many teenagers and couples in committed relationships feel threatened when they find themselves in love with two people.
Relax. You don’t love your partner less just because you find yourself falling in love with someone new.
I remember experiencing conflicting feelings a few years ago while I was dating my girlfriend. (The present is the past!) He had to go on a research trip for a year and a half. And there I was alone and waiting for him to come back. And by chance, I met another guy that I really liked. and he likes me too
a month later I fell in love with the new man I met. But I still love my girlfriend the same. So I’m confused and fanciful. I fell in love with two people and I’m glad that two people who loved me responded!
But I never thought I fell in love with two people. I only know that I’m cheating on both of them. I felt like a sly sly who lured single men to her bed. During that time in my life I can’t accept that one can fall in love with two people at the same time. it seems wrong
But looking back I didn’t do anything wrong It could happen to anyone.
Can a person fall in love with two people at the same time?
The answer is simple, yes you can.
But the bigger question is do you want
Falling in love with two people and hugging them close to your chest isn’t as easy as it sounds. meanwhile Love is not and is never a once in a lifetime experience. You fall in love with different people in different ways. and sometimes You will feel romantic excitement with two people at the same time.
Falling in love with someone is inevitable, though. But it’s still in your control to pursue or let it go. If you really want You can avoid falling in love with a second person by simply taking a step back and stopping flirting conversations and sneaky dating. Feelings of love and lust may last for a while and fade. And the best part is that it won’t emotionally confuse and torment you. [Read: Is it limerence?]
How can we fall in love with two people?
As mentioned earlier Falling in love is not a unique emotion that never repeats. but as said It’s not easy to fall in love with two people at the same time.
Falling in love with someone is always easier when you fall in love with your current lover lately. When you are in two different stages of love The emotions you encounter will not conflict with each other. And it’s two unique experiences that come together at once. [Read: Stages of love for men]
You might be in love with your partner passionately for the first few months. But mature love is different from the fiery love you experience at the start of a relationship. So when you experience the same fiery obsession with other people. It will be easy to experience both stages of love at once.
Don’t compare your lover
Most people who fall in love with a new person begin to compare the new flame with the old one. And almost always, they think the new lover is sexier. have more love and care more But is that true?
Remember that your passion for sex may go away as the years go by. But true love grows into a happy relationship. On the other hand, a new lover may excite you and remind you of the early years of love you had, but you need to realize that the thrills of your last secret relationship will make you happy. This new one will only last a few months or a few years, so if you have to compare your partner. Instead, compare them for compatibility rather than obsession. After all There are always ways to bring back sex, even in older relationships. [Read: Is it true love or is it just lust?]
Two love problems
As a society, we are not ready to fall in love with two people at the same time. And that’s the biggest problem. You might really love someone. that is not your lover But it is often seen as an adultery. It’s not a love that blooms
So the best way to deal with the problem of having two lovers is to walk away from one person. It’s hard, but it’s still the best solution.
But if you want to have two lovers and can’t figure out who to part with. Here’s what you need to think about and try to fix.
#Will your partner accept it?
If you want to love two people at the same time You must inform your partner. Do you think your partner will have the emotional maturity and strength to accept your choice? [Read: Are you ready for an open relationship?]
#envy in love
You might try to balance your love life with two lovers. And make sure you pay equal attention to both lovers. But can you be sure that your partner won’t feel jealous of the other person? [Read: How to deal with a jealous boyfriend]
#Does your partner want a partner?
let’s face You have two lovers And you get double the fun all the time. What would you do if your partner wanted equality and tried to have sex with someone else just to satisfy his bruised ego?
When you share a bed with two couples It is not morally acceptable. Can you deal with that?
I have a friend who immigrated from a small community. In Tibet immigrants to the United States, where polygamy was practiced. (A woman has multiple husbands.) She has two fathers and does not know who her biological father is, and because she receives equal parental love from both men. She had no intention of knowing who her real father was. Although such love patterns are generally accepted without any psychological impact in some situations. But it can lead to confusing relationships in other cases over the long term.
What to do when you love two people?
The answer is subjective, but simple. Do what you feel is right. It couldn’t be easier. in most cases The best way to deal with falling in love with two people is to break away from one relationship and live happily with the other.
And if it’s just a minor interest we’re talking about, maybe you don’t need to confuse your emotions. being crushed comes and goes And even if it becomes serious You always have the option to walk away from your prospective partner if you want.
Ask me and I’ll tell you one thing. love is complicated And it’s easier to love someone. Whoever you choose Pick two and you double your complexity. So if you really have no choice Try not to fall in love with two people at the same time![Quiz: Would you cheat on your partner?]
Do you fall in love with two people at the same time? How do you deal with it? Or what will its effect be? Share your story here.