If there was one rule we all know The worst thing you can do is have a crush on your coworker and break up. But it’s easier said than done.
Secretly liking a coworker is one of the most underrated things in the workplace. But how do you stop liking the person you work with? You see them more often than you see your family or partner.
Therefore, secretly liking a coworker is not a shame. I have many jobs and most of them made me fall in love with certain men. Which is normal. I mean, first of all, job sucks. I need something to motivate me to get out of bed for this job.
and second Secretly liking a coworker has added pathetic drama to my life. which was the only thing that motivated me at that time.
How to cope when you secretly like a coworker
The important thing is what you do with it. Will you try to move them? Or will you keep this your dirty little secret? [Read: Workplace romance? 15 ways to tell if your coworker likes you back]
It’s exciting to pursue office love or just enjoy a little interest while it lasts. But often, office breakups cause an unpleasant side effect of office gossip. low performance And worst of all, the working atmosphere is unbearable if everything ends badly.
So if your crush is your crush, this one is what you want to win. You just have to learn how to beat them. because you finished this drama Here’s how to stop liking a coworker. [Bustle.com: How to know if you have a real crush on a workplace colleague]
#1 Find out why you like them. You have to figure out why you like them. It could be that you’re just bored with your life right now and find that this is something that adds color to your life. I don’t know what the reason is but i know you do Now you have to be honest with yourself. That is, if you really want to forget the person you like.
#2 Stop talking about this to your coworkers. Listen, if I know something Gossip spreads like wildfire throughout the office. You can bet your life that others will find it.
I mean it’s boring. So this is entertainment for everyone to sit and watch as they count the hours until they can go home. But this also means there is a high chance your boss will find out too. [Read: 9 quick ways to find out if your crush isn’t into you]
#3 Minimize spending time with them outside of work. It’s nice to hang out with coworkers. But if you spend all your free time with them Maybe it’s time for you to break up and hang out with other people. the person you don’t like
You want to eliminate the extra time you spend with them and keep it to a minimum. You should only see them when you have a valid reason for viewing the job. At least until you leave them.
#4 Look at your relationship with your partner *if you have one* Is there something in your personal relationship? That is, if you are already with someone. That made you lost? The first thing you should do is look at that.
Maybe you have some problems in your relationship that you need to pay attention to right now if you’re just bored at work and need some entertainment. and you are single That’s different. [Read: How to handle an office crush while you’re in a relationship]
#5 Focus on hobbies outside of work. when you leave work There will be times when all you will do is miss them. what they said to you that day what they wear Who are they talking to, you know, idiot that we wasted our time?
But what if your evening is full of activity? Show that you’re not giving yourself the opportunity to sit and ponder over the drama you’ve created in your head.
#6 Distract yourself. If you are at work You should focus on your work instead of immersing yourself in it from across the room. I know you wouldn’t want to work more than you are. But keeping yourself busy with work This gives you less time to think or talk to them.
Keep your mind busy with other things. If you don’t want to work, surf the web, but stay away from their social media. [Read: Love or career – How to make the right choice?]
#7 Set personal boundaries in the workplace. If you meet this person every day, defeating them will be difficult. All you have to do is set personal boundaries.
If you usually eat lunch with them, stop if you take a coffee break to talk to them. You may be able to find someone else to talk to. Basically, you need to wean from that person. Having a crush on someone is an addiction, so consider this your therapy.
#8 Talk to your friends about it. especially friends outside of work i mean It’s okay to talk to someone from work. But if the words spread You may have problems before anything. will start
Your friend will give the outsider the best opinion about what happened to you and your crush. From there, you can figure out what to do – chase or walk away. [Read: 15 guaranteed ways to get your crush to like you back in no time]
#9 Know the consequences. If you are debating whether you should move your crush or not. You have to look at what you risk. at the same time I know a lot of people who meet their soul mates at work.
All you have to do is assess whether this is a real one-night stand deal. Because if you’re going to put your job in the line of work it’s more worth it
#10 Give yourself some time. It’s like, trust me, I know how long it takes to beat them. It took me six years to win over my high school crush. I mean, I wasn’t obsessed with him. But I never really missed him.
until I saw how much dick he was. but the point is This is not an overnight change. It may take months or even years to beat a person. this fully Since you work with them, it will be difficult.[Read: What you really need to do when you like a friend or a coworker – The complete guide]
Now that you know what you need to do to cleanse yourself of secretly liking your coworkers, do it! Of course, it’s not easy. But you’ll feel better without haunting you at work.