Picture your partner having sex with someone else. How do you feel? excited? upset? If it’s in the past, you might be interested in the cuckold fantasies.
Gender is an ever-changing subject. It seems that every month there is a new word that we have to learn its meaning! This is the only good thing. Because it means that we are all more open and adventurous when it comes to exploring our blind spots and fantasies. Have you ever heard the saying Is it a ‘cuckold fantasy’?
If you have and are not sure what it is. or just want to learn more Show that you’ve come to the right place!
Cuckolding is something you often hear from Shakespeare and Chaucer’s “ye olde English,” but what does that really mean?
Now it’s different from what it meant in the old days. Back in those days, it was mentioned about the infidelity of a man’s wife.
In the old days, calling a man a cuckold would lead to quarrels. Stabbing here and there and dueling resulted in few casualties. Being cuckold is the pinnacle of shame for men. That’s why you see those cast-iron chastity belts in medieval museums. [Read: Ultimate how-to guide for cuckold humiliation]
But we are no longer in Shakespeare’s era.
Fortunately, that’s true!
Although the term ‘cuckold’ basically means that you are the husband of an adulterous wife. but actually the word ‘Cuckold’ has turned into a sex fantasies that many people love right now!
Although infidelity is something that people feel offended about. But you might be surprised to hear that some couples, especially husbands, are content with their wives’ unfaithful relationships.
Some even upgraded it to a lifestyle. [Read: 11 most common fetishes, plus 5 super weird ones!]
The unthinkable is creeping into the mainstream. Of course, when you indulge in these types of sexual fantasies. Both parties will be aware and there is no actual cheating. It is a role play and full consent from all parties.
You wouldn’t be surprised to see internet forums about cuckold fantasies and about birds, cuckqueans. This is a term that refers to a woman whose husband has sex with other people and she quite likes it. Want to know more about Cuckold and if your wife enjoys watching you have sex with another woman.? Try it, maybe you both like watching each other have sex with each other.
You’ll also find hotwifing clubs *like sex with husbands* with millions of members. Look for places to share experiences and find other men to taste their partners. [Read: 7 extremely weird, but really popular sexual fetishes]
Cuckolding as a fetish
Let us quickly explain the dynamics of sex fetishes. To give you a little more insight into all the cuckold fantasies.
When it comes to amulets You have something non-sexual in yourself. It could be an inanimate object. *Think leather clothing, stockings, shoes, etc.* Harmful or even mundane activities *such as peeing, shaving, or taking a shower* or something that is deteriorating and painful
A person who gets sexual satisfaction from seeing or experiencing these things can be said to have a sexual fetish for that object or action.
If you have sex fantasies You enjoy seeing or thinking about your wife having sex with another man. It makes you wonder what kind of happiness a man can have in things that tend to spark jealousy, heartbreak and, in some cases, anger.
However, that’s how imagination works. We all have different things. And there’s no point trying to understand it. If it’s not for you [Read: The beta cuck: The real meaning & what it means to be a sexual cuck]
What’s in it for men?
Masochist satisfaction from the shame and degradation of seeing your wife cheat on you.
What’s in it for the wife?
In addition to having sex with your other men or your husband’s choice. You also get sadistic pleasure from your husband’s domination.
You are having sex with another guy in front of him. and the extrovert likes to have sex with the audience. [Read: Does your wife want to sleep with another man?]
How does the cuckold fantasy work in practice?
If the cuckold fantasy seems interesting to you. Here are some things you need to know to jump into the world of sex.
1How does cuckolding or hotwifing happen?
Cuckolding involves at least three people, however, it’s not threesomes or orgy. in group sex or three All parties have sex at the same time.
In adultery, men are often outside observers and do not take part in the action. He only watches from a distance as a man or a group of men having sex with his wife.
in most cases man just sitting on the sofa Sipping whiskey as he watches his wife try a whole body of sex with another man.
A wife may let her husband listen to her moaning and obscene talk. Or she could verbally curse him, saying that her current partner is having better sex than her husband. It really depends on what you like. And how much does the husband want to be insulted? *For some men Sexual stigma is more open than real sex* [Read: Threesome rules – 20 things to know before you even consider doing it]
2. How do people engage in cuckold fantasies?
Some couples admit that their fetish started out as pure infidelity. Imagine: A man finds his wife having sex with another man. he faced her and instead of running rampant He told her that he liked what she did and that they should do it again. including him next time
The rest of the cuckolds admitted that they were curious and had sampled it once at a party. They liked it too much to stop.
3. Know the conditions
There is a name for each person in a cuckold fantasy scenario.
cock – Husbands who watch their wives have sex with other men
Hotwife – A dilapidated and dirty wife
bull – A man who has sex with his wife is a third person.
4. How do couples choose a third person?
Infidelity is consensual infidelity. That is the main thing to remember – with consent.
In some cases, the husband actually chooses who his wife sleeps with. other couples Set your own rules for comfort and enjoyment.
Some wives choose their own partners. Some people choose from online communities. And some even request services from sex workers who specialize in fetishes. It really depends on what fits your cuckold fantasies. [Read: The complete guide on how to start swinging with your partner]
5. The main cuckold and the bigger “members”
As mentioned earlier Cuckolds have attracted sexually curious couples to form their own communities. As a result, sex with husbands and wives creates a new market for sex workers that cater to popular tastes. say
Hot cuckolds and wives have their reunions which have the same theme as swing parties or orgy.
A common and popular topic of cuckolding that you can find online is finding men with larger penises to have sex with their wives.
In this section, the husband/girlfriend plays a sad man who watches his wife have sex with a man of wealth. This situation is very popular in the cuckolding community. [Read: Why are men so obsessed with their penis size?]
6. The cuckolding fetish is like an S&M mood.
S&M *or sadomasochism* is a classic sex fetish. where people enjoy harassment and/or suffer pain This is the talisman that releases the whip. furry handcuffs and verbal abuse
This amulet needs two people. Sadists bring pain. The masochists gladly accepted and pleaded for pain. Both sides enjoyed what happened.
The dynamics of happiness are quite similar. First, you have a guy who watches his wife have sex with another man in front of him. The man rejoiced in pain when he heard his wife’s groan in another man’s arms.
in this situation This man is a masochist who takes the punishment of his sadistic wife. Instead of the physical pain of S&M, this guy reveled in the mental pain of being cheated on. That’s the whole crux of the cuckold fantasies. [Read: The sexy swinging lifestyle and how to make it work for you]
Peeping is the act of spying on the personal activities of people because of the pleasure it brings.
Adultery has the same frequency as voyeurism. Because you have a man who does not engage in sexual activity. But just look It’s like watching porn. But live and show your wife a star. [Read: Sexual voyeurism and the horny rush it gives you]
8. Cuckolding has a sense of expressiveness.
while the husband plays the voyeur Wife plays an exhibitionist. when putting yourself in a wife’s situation You can imagine all the overwhelming power you have over a cuckold husband. As he watched you groan, crush, and make love to strangers irresistibly.
at the same time You can get pleasure from having sex with a live audience. And it will definitely push you to the acting level. [Read: Sexy exhibitionism – How to get naked in public]
How to imagine a cuckold for yourself
If you’re reading this and thinking, “Um, I want to try,” there are some very important things you need to know.
You need to know how to safely train a cuckold, how to find the third wheel in your imagination. And how do you make sure it makes you both happy? not sadness Here are some practical tips and advice to get you started in a cuckold fantasy world.
1. Have an honest conversation with your partner.
If your partner never talks about trying something far “outside” when it comes to fantasies. You may feel embarrassed or unsure of how to approach it.
The point is, they probably didn’t talk about it because they felt the same way. Healthy relationships require communication on everything, including sex. [Read: The top 50 kinky sex ideas worth trying and discussing with your partner]
Sit down and talk to your partner about the facts you’re curious about having an affair. See how they feel about it and explore their imaginations together.
The online realm is a great place to learn more. And you can work together whatever you want to try.
Of course, if your partner isn’t ready to be a hotwife or take part in the cuckold world. You only have to let the imagination in your mind. [Read: 14 tips to get your partner to open up about sex]
2. Pick your boundaries together
Exploring the cuckold fantasies means that your relationship should be strengthened, as a result, not ruined. The best way to protect your relationship is to set boundaries. These are hard lines that you don’t want to cross.
For example, your wife kissing another man might be a red line for you. For her, she may not want men to look down on her. Both parties must listen to their boundaries and implement them in order to be effective.
3. Sex with another man should only take place with the permission of the cuckold.
This particular imagination depends on one thing – consent. Yes, cheating takes place. but is consent to cheat
Wife’s time *or in crazy situations, men* have sex with other people without their partner’s consent. It’s past the ideal point. And it’s serious infidelity. Don’t confuse the two. This is not an open relationship. [Read: Who cheats more, men or women? How to have a cheat-free romance]
4. move slowly and communicate continuously
After trying adultery for the first time Talk to your partner openly and honestly about how you both feel. Is it everything you expected or felt differently? Is it something you want to try again or are you done?
It’s important to be fully open and honest with your partner if you want this to work.
There may be things your partner does that you feel weird or not fun about. Maybe there are some things you do that they don’t enjoy. Rolling these out can help you avoid trouble as your cuckold fantasies run. [Read: How to fantasize about someone else and discuss it while having sex with your partner]
5. Find the right third person for your cuckold fantasies.
The best way to find a third person is through a cuckold online community.
You can invite other people you know into your imagination. but in most cases That just adds a world of confusion and complexity to the problem.
Finding the Right Partner usually online You are choosing someone who has experience with extramarital affairs and is opting in for the same reasons you would like to try. [Read: The threesome invite: How to ask someone to join you in bed]
Talk to them in advance and let them know your boundaries. If you feel it’s not right Instead, politely decline and keep searching. This is something you should do together and it’s a decision you both need to be comfortable with. It could be that you choose the man you want your wife to have sex with. but even so She had to agree first.
Whoever makes the final decision on role-playing You both have to enjoy it in the real world.
6. Remember – safety first!
There are some safety issues you need to keep in mind before you choose the third wheel in your cuckold fantasy. First of all, don’t provide any personal details. whether online or in person
Second, meet people in public first and get to know them. If you or your wife feel that they are wrong but can’t explain much. Listen to your instincts and pass on this opportunity.
Ultimately, sex safety is key. In addition to setting your boundaries You must ensure that you are protected from STIs and pregnancy as a couple. Don’t let this be an opportunity or let it be forgotten in the excitement of the imagination you live in. [Read: How to have safe sex in every single way it is possible to]
If the cuckold fantasies appeal to you. Be sure to move slowly. and keep the communication line open We all have our own imaginations and fantasies.
Some we keep to ourselves and some we try to express.
Maybe you can try cuckolding again and decide it’s not for you. That’s fine, at least you’ve tried. However, it might be something you really need to get involved with. and find that it makes you feel sexually satisfied[Read: Cuckolding fetish and 15 other common and super weird fetishes worth knowing about]
Cuckold fantasies are an acquired taste. It may or may not be for you. But the fact that some people find it satisfying tells you whether all you have to do is give it a try or not. “What does your boat float?”