If you and your partner are looking to broaden your sexual horizons. Get that hand ready to slap your ass because it’s a time of discipline at home.
Maybe you just want to know what it is, or you might consider incorporating family discipline into your relationship. This used to be a taboo topic, but has recently become more mainstream with movies like Fifty Shades of Graywhich is more of a BDSM but has a similar vibe.
Domestic discipline for beginners
So if Christian sex Gray and Anastasia Steele make you feel anxious and anxious. Why not try practicing discipline at home? You have to throw away the idea that “Hitting is a bad thing” and open your mind to this lifestyle.
Because there’s more to it than you think.
#1 What is domestic discipline? basically Discipline in the home is the relationship between two consenting partners. where one party surrenders and the other prevails. Surrender was punished and rewarded by superiors based on their behavior. That’s what it is all about. However, it’s more complicated than that. [Read: Spanking women – How and when to spank a bad, bad girl]
#2 know what you need. Your best friend is in a disciplined family relationship. And now you want to give it a try. But what if you try and you don’t like it? Don’t go on just because you have a weird competitive spirit.
You have to make sure you want to do this because of you. No one else, so before you sit down with your partner Instead, sit down to yourself and really think about it.
#3 Make sure it’s consent. You can’t just walk up to your partner and start slapping them when they do something that can’t make you mad. That’s called domestic violence. People are very different.
So sit down with your partner and explain to them what discipline in the home is. and you are interested in giving it a try Don’t pressure them on anything. Let them feel on their own. [Read: BDSM tips and tricks for curious first timers]
#4 ready to answer many questions They obviously want to know what the discipline in the country is and how it works, so be prepared to answer any questions they have. Because they will have those questions, prepare some YouTube clips and show you an example of how it works. [Read: 10 fiery hot reasons you should date someone with a fetish]
#5 Make a list of strict rules. If you don’t create any rules, they are generally free for everyone. And we don’t want that. When your partner is ready to try You must create strict rules that cannot be violated.
These rules help maintain the framework of the relationship and also help guide you and your partner, especially in the beginning. You can change the rules at any time. but must change between the two of you you are not the president
#6 Don’t be in a hurry If your partner agrees You might want to start right away. Don’t. If you’re in a rush. You might miss important steps and overlook rules that need to be checked.
in the beginning You and your partner will try to figure out how it works and what works best for you. Don’t worry, you’ll have plenty of time to get spanked or spanked. [Read: Top 50 kinky ideas for a really sexy relationship]
#7 The punishment must be explained You can’t punish people without telling them what they did wrong. I mean, it doesn’t work that way in every aspect of life, so why is it in family disciplinary relationships?
Every punishment must explain the reason for the surrender. When you have your partner bend at the knees with the pants reaching the ankles. You have to tell them why.
#8 never punished when angry This is the most important rule to remember for both subordinates and superiors.
If you are really angry Don’t punish your partner, as a human being, it’s normal to feel angry. I mean, you are human. However, you cannot be angry when punishing. So before punishment Remove yourself and make sure you are in the collected state before taking any penalties. [Read: The craziest kinky sex stories from Reddit that’ll make you go “oh!”]
#9 Don’t forget about rewards. Here we are only talking about punishment. But you forgot about the reward. Rewarding is a very big country discipline. That’s what encourages positive behavior. You don’t have to buy them a car. Just say thank you or cook them dinner.
The point is to encourage positive behavior and show appreciation. Now, don’t overdo it with rewards. You don’t have to reward every well done
#10 First hit. Listen, if you thought the first spanking wouldn’t be awkward. so it will be I mean how could it not be? It’s the first time you and your partner try it out. You should expect a wide range of emotions. Feeling of pressure, understanding, love, relief
It’s important that the two of you talk about your own emotions and feelings. You want to see how your partner feels about the experience. [Read: Naughty is nice – The couples’ guide to erotic spanking]
#11 The key to spanking So you know you have a few options for slapping. You can use your hands, a wooden spoon, a comb, a ping-pong paddle, or a paddle. You just have to try the tools that are most suitable for you and your partner. Some let bruises, while others easily slip away. So you’ll have to buy stuff.
#12 The spanking method. I know you might think that there is some science on this. But that’s not the case. you can hit the knee leaning on the armrest of the sofa Or kneel on furniture. Really, no matter where you two come to terms and how to slap. that’s what you will do Don’t worry it will be correct. Just do what feels best for the two of you.[Read: From red room to real word: BDSM in your boudoir]
Now you know about family discipline. If you are still in doubt Sit down with your partner and talk about it. Who knows where that road will take you?