We all get caught up in friendly and flirtatious issues from time to time. It’s important to understand the differences and avoid embarrassment.
Some of us are just nice people, okay? Just because I’m friendly doesn’t mean I’m interested in friends. Quit being crazy. I’ve been fighting this problem every day of my life. I’m actually a lovely person. I like to say compliments like confetti. But that doesn’t mean I’m flirting. Friendly vs flirty. It’s time to learn the red difference.
Who can relate? Seriously, thank goodness I’m not on the dating scene anymore because this always kills me. It didn’t help that I didn’t really know how to flirt. in fact Flirting with someone is a complete miss. I don’t know how I ever got to my friend. It definitely didn’t pass my flirting skills.
Flirting happens when you intend to go on a date or have a sexual relationship with someone. If you’re just friendly Show that you are interested in the person and are looking for friendship or acquaintance with this person. Often the lines are blurred. but for clarity We’ll leave it that way [Read: These crystal clear signs tell you when a guy is flirting with you]
Know the Difference: Friendly vs Flirtatious
It can be incredibly difficult to differentiate between friendliness and flirting when someone is truly nice. As someone suffering from this I’ll make it easy for you
#1 Is it just you? If this person compliments you or just feels good about you. Consider that he is really flirting with you. If they are good to everyone Show that they are incredibly flirtatious with everything. which is possible Or are they just interested in you? [Read: How to know if your friend likes you more than they let on]
#2 How do they respond to your flirting? Try flirting with them. See how they react to flirting! If they seem interested in you Well, chances are they’re really interested in you. Don’t doubt them if they seem closed because of your flirting. Show that they are just friendly… ah. [Read: 10 clearly noticeable signs of body language attraction]
#3 they are showing Is it their “friendliness”? The biggest way to differentiate between friendliness and flirting is through action. Are they trying to get close to you or perhaps touching your shoulder or hand when talking to you? Because this is a big sign of flirting. If they don’t get close to you They might even be friendly.
#4 Eye contact is important. i don’t know about you But when I try to flirt with someone I made sure I made eye contact with him. I have this theory that you can fall in love with someone just by looking into his eyes. I know I’m a no-nonsense romantic. But I swear there’s something to do If they make eye contact with you Show that they are flirting with you. not just friendly
#5 They want to know more about you. They’re not just telling you that you have cool tattoos. but also asked about the story behind them. They want to know more about you and your life. It’s not just the surface. If they ask deep questions, they are flirting with you.
#6 Non-verbal cues that mean they’re flirting. Body language is everything, guys! Are they mocking their lips or smiling at you? Maybe they really do and just wink at you from across the room. Pay attention to the little things because that’s how you’ll differentiate between flirting and friendliness. [Read: 13 lusty signs of attraction that can be noticed by everyone]
#7 Single and ready to mingle They noted that it was not binding. Whether they come out and say it or inadvertently speaking They want you to know that they are single. Why? DUH because they care about you. they are flirting
#8 They point out all your interests. How much attention do you need? all of it. Seriously, though, if they’re flirting with you, they’ll value you a lot. They will make you feel special. Maybe they can take you to a more private place because they really want to focus on what you have to say. without being disturbed
#9 kid Just like when we were in elementary school. If someone mocks you show that he likes you At least to some degree—if they playfully mock you. This is also an indicator that they are flirting with you. not just friendly
Maybe they made a joke about what happened last weekend. or the stories you tell them whatever it is They will playfully tease you if they flirt with you. [Read: Fun ways to wink and learn to be a total tease]
#10 Constantly showing interest? If they actively find you at a party or ask their mutual friends about you. It is possible that they are interested in you and that they are flirting. Maybe they saw you at a party and you talked all night. But you wonder if he’s flirting with you or if they’re just being kind. If they ask your friends about you after work Show that they are flirting. Surprise!
#11 Ask you to hangout. Sure, friends hang out, right? But this is what If they start a conversation with you just to invite you out. Show that they might actually be flirting with you.
It also depends on the context of Hangouts, you know? Is this a big party or a one-on-one date? If they want to spend time with you in an intimate setting, Hello, they are flirting with you. [Read: These clues will tell you if you crush isn’t into you]
#12 Flirty vs being friendly over text. Emojis are a key indicator in determining the difference between friendly and flirtatious people. Are they sending you a lot of emojis? In general, this can be an important indicator of friendliness. Because it means they are putting MORE in your conversation rather than just the surface.[Read: How to decode colorful heart emojis and use them correctly]
It’s not black and white to identify the difference between friendly and flirtatious. But this list will help you. If you have any suggestions or stories please Tweet me, I love to chat!