We are all called “friends” when I mean friends. I don’t mean that you have been friendzoned friends.
as a woman I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been friendzoned and friendzoned. Really countless, but the problem is when I’m dating someone. I didn’t think so It’s just that I feel sexually attracted to them and that’s it. But when I’m friendzoning, oh you bet I call it friendzoning.
There was no way I could admit that he didn’t want me. But he must have a hidden agenda. which I’m not saying is impossible. but not likely
13 Ways to Quit Being Friends
If you’ve been friendzoned, there could be two reasons. Maybe she doesn’t really feel sexually attracted to you. Or at least not enough to take you to the next level. It could be that they are worried about ruining your friendship. Or they just want unconditional sex. which for you They knew that wouldn’t be the case.
The point is, there’s a reason they don’t have sex with you, so you have to go fishing around. and find out why Once you know the cause, act accordingly. We’ve all been in it and we all want to get out of it. [Read: 18 clear signs you’re in a girl’s friend zone]
#1 retreat. No one likes someone who takes care of them all day and night. I mean, of course, no one would deny it. But no one wants to have sex with someone who does that. You came out as needy and hopeless. So back away, turn back the way.
If you rush with a combination of despair That won’t get you anywhere. I have a guy friend who is like this. Even if he wanted something But I kept him so deep in the friend zone that he never came out. [Read: People pleaser? 20 signs you’re in the friend zone because you’re one]
#2 Change the way you act around her. If you’re very passive and let her decide everything. you have to change that I’m not saying that men are responsible for everything. But if this is what you want, progress towards a sexual relationship. to express yourself
You don’t have to act like a fool. But don’t be shy about expressing your opinion and disagreeing with her. That adds a touch of spiciness to your conversation, because we, women, don’t like to say we’re wrong.
#3 don’t always be there As a friend, you need support. But don’t make yourself the one who’s always ready. when she wants something She knows you’ll do it for her. Now, the god she considers you trustworthy. However, you don’t want to be her maid.
That’s a thin line that you should be aware of. You can be there for her. But if she asks you to go dry cleaning put your feet down She wouldn’t ask her newfound boyfriend to do that.
#4 Change the way you talk to her If you’re going to compliment her Add a little more sex appeal to your style, so instead of saying “pretty shirt,” say “You look so sexy in that shirt.”
Don’t ask her where she bought it or what it’s made of. You don’t care, we all know that. So keep it short and to the point. [Read: The complete guide to flirt and seduce a girl – The friend way]
#5 Don’t let her treat you like her boyfriend. If you’re dating and paying for her movie tickets, stop it. You’re not her boyfriend. And I know you wanna be But acting like you aren’t a bad move.
Now she doesn’t have to do anything for you. And she will still be receiving treatment for her girlfriend. It’s not fair And if you do this Consider whether she is a good person or not.
#6 Make her see some competition for you. If she’s the only woman she knows who hangs out with you. She didn’t see any competition.
But what if you have a few more women that you hang out with? And you, too, are pretty mysterious about them. That will arouse her interest. Who are these girls? Are they more attractive than me? Do they want him? These are all questions we ask ourselves when we hear about other female friends. [Read: How to make a girl jealous and leave her begging for your attention]
#7 invite her on a date If you see yourself entering the friend zone Stop inviting her on a date. That’s the best way to show her that you’re not interested in being friends with her.
She will understand where you stand and she will take it or let it go. The great thing about this is that you avoid all this nonsense if you do this pretty quickly in a relationship. [Read: How to ask a girl out over text: 7 steps to an instant yes]
#8 Show that you are not interested in being friends with her. If you want to quit being friendzoned, decide what you want. Do you want to maintain friendships? Because if she tells you that she doesn’t see this as anything other than friendship, you have two options: accept it or cut the friendship.
If you don’t want to be friends with her You have to make it clear that you are not interested in being friends with her. But don’t cut her off without explanation. She should know the reason why you can’t be her friend.
#9 Don’t pity yourself because you’re in the friend zone. I see this all the time Those in the friend zone always make this sad face. It was as if they were chosen to be in the friend zone.
Listen, you decide if you want to be friends or not. If not, then stop talking to her or just accept who they are and be friends with her. You decide how you want to live your life. and believe me Your frown isn’t sexy. If there’s anything she sees as a sign that you’re a bad girl. [Read: Naughty ways to get out of the friend zone in no time]
#10 More mysterious. It’s not easy especially when you really like her. But try to be more mysterious. She doesn’t need to know all the details about your family life or the woman in your face.
Let her become curious and in this way You’ll be more attractive because you’re not giving her everything.
#11 Let her miss you. If you’re always by her side When will she have time to be alone when she has to miss you? We don’t miss you when you’re on our side. But when you’re not there That’s when we start to look at our emotions.
Give her some time to miss you. Don’t always text or call her, trust me, soon she’ll be texting and calling you. Why? because she misses you
#12 Stop kissing her ass figuratively. seriously stop kissing her ass i mean if you really do You’re probably not reading this. So I hope you know I’m talking metaphorically. Kissing her ass doesn’t make her like you any more.
In fact, she probably used you because you literally did everything she said. Don’t get to the point where you become her bitch. It’s unhealthy and doesn’t give you equality. [Read: 15 signs she’s just leading you on and taking you nowhere]
#13 Don’t be her problem solver. She calls you for every problem she has in life. And you’re her shoulder to cry on. Now, if you’re dating, she’ll see you as a problem solver, which is fine, that’s part of a good relationship. However, in this case, you don’t want to be the person she calls when she has. only problem You know what I mean?[Read: 11 sneaky ways to seduce a friend and get her to have sex with you]
Now that you know how to get out of the friendzone, figure out why you’re in it. This way, you can use these tools appropriately to try and survive.