Staying above your man can be uncomfortable or tiring at times. Read these 18 sexy tips to feel more comfortable and sexier when you’re a woman on top by Kayla Kissinger.
Read the introduction at How to ride a guy to look sexy Before you use these tips and things to know.
Ultimately, you need to understand what’s going on in a guy’s mind when you’re on top. And learn the best positions you can use when you’re the girl on top.
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Before using these instructions, keep in mind
You might feel awkward or uncomfortable about the way you think you look when you’re bouncing off your guy. But your man will find you sexier than ever in a woman who controls the top.
[Read: Top 10 male sexual fantasies]when you are above You are in control of sex. So don’t think for yourself.
You have to make your guy feel like he’s involved. And that’s the only way to enjoy great sex when you’re sitting on top of him.
Things to know when you’re on top
when you are on top There are some precautions to keep in mind and some things you need to know to make sex more enjoyable for both of you. Use these must-knows to learn more about sexy girls in the highest positions.
#1 it’s really tiring Sitting on your guy and hitting him or grinding in circles around his members isn’t as easy as it sounds. it’s really tiring You’re not sleeping here doing missionary. You are jumping up and down all the time. And that involves a lot of your biggest muscles, like the ones in your legs.
Periodically place your hands on the man’s side or on his chest. So that you don’t have to put pressure on your legs. You will feel stronger and have better fun with girls in the top position. [Read: 50 kinky ideas for a sexy relationship]
#2 Hair tie. In the movie, watching a woman ride her boyfriend looks sexy. Especially when she flicks her hair from side to side with her hands. But in real life it’s not that easy. When you sweat in bed Your hair will stick to your face and annoy you.
Untied hair can also distract your girlfriend. Every time you lean in to kiss him. He’ll have to deal with your big bangs that hit his face and tickle him. avoid all that Just tie your hair and focus on sex instead.
#3 don’t go too fast It might seem exciting to bounce off him so quickly. But you will get tired very quickly. and most importantly You will ruin the sex
Come to think of it, great sex is all about rhythm and movement. You both need to feel together to enjoy sex. If you move too aggressively Your man lying down will not be able to keep up with you. And he will feel out of the game because he will not feel involved. [Read: 10 ways to please your man in bed and everywhere else]
#4 Foreplay when you’re on top when you want to go upstairs Have him lie on his back and caress him all over. He will enjoy the attention because he doesn’t have to do much here. Blow or kiss him all over his body and turn it on. and when he is fully ready to penetrate Take your time before sitting on him. Otherwise, he may lose his erection.
when your man lies down He can’t pat himself or control your movements. And the unpredictability can cause him to lose his erection. It takes time to migrate synchronization when you are on top. and before that Your erection before drilling will require magic to keep him. [Read: 20 ways to keep an erection up for longer]
#5 He’s not as strong as you think. Actually, your male members are really sensitive. It had no bones even though he had bones. when you are above him Most of your weight will be around his member, re-moving or adjusting your position from time to time. But don’t sit too hard on him. or move in the opposite direction immediately without warning You might end up dazzling him there if you don’t make it easy!
#6 Let him know you want to be on top. As soon as you both feel emotional Both of you will have preconceived ideas about what will happen next. almost always A man assumes he will be on top and prepares his mind.
But if you intend to go north Let him know how horny you are. And you want to lead and be above him. By doing this you won’t let him down because he knows what will happen. [Read: The seven sexiest types of sex you can ever have!]
#7 read his signal The person above has an important role in evaluating sex and trying to improve. They control how sex goes and how it ends. So when you use a woman at the top You can enjoy controlling your man. but at the same time You have to read his signs so that both of you can climax together.
If he seems distracted or in pain Slow down and see what you’re doing. Maybe you’re moving too aggressively and burning him on his inner thigh, or if he suddenly grabs you. Stop moving your pelvis for a moment to see if he can’t take it any longer. and most importantly If his members start shaking in you when you’re on top. He might be struggling to stop himself from exploding. So slow down and help him regain control of himself. Or build yourself to the top together.
#8 movement You can scroll vertically up and down when you are on top. You can go fast and fast. or slower and deeper or you can move around His members slowly circled. Indulge in any movement as long as it feels good.
But don’t skip too fast during the movement. Allow enough time for your partner to relate to your movements and he can move in the opposite direction and connect better with you. This will ensure that sex will improve. [Read: 10 fun sex games to play with your boyfriend and turn him on]
10 ways to make a girl in the top position look sexier
Now you know how to have sex properly. Here are 10 sexy tips for looking sexier and seducing your guy into having better sex.
#1 play with your hair Gently loosen your hair and play carelessly with your fingers when your man looks at you. You can pretend to be invisible by turning away from him if you’re feeling awkward. It will definitely motivate him to become more active just by watching you enjoy yourself.
#2 Cup your breasts All men love watching a woman play with her breasts. as you bounce off him Instead, put your hand on your chest and move it to the side of your body. You can also use his hand and place it on your chest as you caress your body around him. [Read: Why do guys like breasts like crazy?]
#3 increase in the oral cavity when you are on the hill Stop occasionally and slide down to his knees. and bent down to lick his organs It will change your man a lot. Just watch you lick him when he gets wet near his members.
You can take his member away during sex and move his hips closer to his face. so he can do something with you as well. [Read: How to make him go down on you without a push]
#4 occupy him If you are on top You will know that you are in control. But don’t even think about doing anything with it. Treat him like you’re controlling him. order him to do something or yell at him It will make you feel more powerful and sexier. And your man will feel more aroused to be possessed by you at the same time.
#5 enjoy his body What does your guy do with your body when he’s on top? do the same thing with his body. To be above all is to remove restraint and a feeling of control. Lick his nipples, nibble on his ears, grab his ass as you straddle him. and do other things that make you feel good. Your guy might be surprised and upset when he sees a new side of you.
#6 Dirty talk. Don’t just bounce up and down all the way. You will tire yourself out or the constant distractions will tire both of you. Get close to him and open your mouth to something sexy in his ear, whispering some dirt that will drive both of you crazy. and during the heat of the day Let your imagination run wild and dirty. [Read: How to talk dirty to a guy and sound really sexy]
#7 control him lean towards him Take his hand and push it behind his head or over his head. Take his hand and ride him harder. If you want to increase the level of sexiness to a higher level. Instead, tie his hands to the bed posts or even handcuff him or tie his hands with a scarf, all the little things that will make him feel even more helpless. This will make everything look sexier.
#8 get rough When you have wild and passionate sex Obviously you will feel more horny than any other day. Touch his chest with his fingernails and watch him moan happily. Bite him and leave traces of love around him. him or just cover his eyes with a blindfold and let him fumble around. your body when you are violent with him from above [Read: 30 sexy ways to spice up your sex life]
#9 express yourself Getting to the top is losing your restraint and feeling more confident in yourself. as you press the pelvis against the pelvis Lean back and stretch your body. You will be able to reveal them all. And you’ll look sexier too. And your guy will have a hard time getting his hands off his body when you show it off. [Read: How to feel sexy and desirable all the time]
#10 Let him hug you. Staying on top and moving proactively against him for more than a few minutes can exhaust you. to avoid feeling weak, fatigued and emotionally draining Give your man some control from time to time.
Take both of his hands and place them at your waist as you move up and down on him. and press his hands firmly against your body so that he is guided to lift you up and down with your own momentum. This will make it easier to exercise your sex life and make him feel involved. and by doing this Both of you can actually live longer and have more fun with the girl in the top position.
[Read: 30 dirty and sexy truth or dare questions for couples]A woman in the top position can be sexy and a fun thing for both of you. Use these tips to ride him. And don’t forget to feel empowered and confident. and give your people the most intense driving experience ever!