You’ll be surprised how many introverts might end up in the last place you expect to find them: at bars and nightclubs.
as an introvert The thought of going out into a room full of people you don’t know, loud music, drunkenness and lack of personal space may sound like your worst nightmare. I’m an introvert and used to dislike bars and clubs They prefer something more casual, like a cocktail lounge or a house party.
I know you can still have good times and success with girls. in an environment that can stimulate adrenaline and alcohol You just have to do it differently from the way extroverts do.
You don’t want to bounce around. Talk to dozens of people you don’t know. Shout out to songs you might not even like.
for beginners You have to place the deck of cards as you like. You’re not going to be the funky, cheerful person who is the center of attention and makes everyone laugh. However, you still want to meet a girl and propose. in this situation All you have to do is increase your strengths and not try to compete with people who are naturally open-minded for being the life and soul of the party.
Women tend to be attracted to men in more ways than one. Although everyone seems to like a fun and friendly guy. But they weren’t always romantically drawn to him. They might find him fun and entertaining. But there was really no desire to know him better.
Introverts are naturally stronger and quieter. You don’t need to talk to people much. dance if you don’t want to or meet a lot of people
If you are in good shape Having good fashion and posture – generally good looking – many women will be interested in you. From there it’s just a case of taking action with the girl you like and not letting the opportunity pass you by.
Introvert vs. Shy
There’s a difference between introverted and shy. If you’re shy, you’ll need to get out of your comfort zone and learn how to feel more comfortable talking to or approaching someone. It’s a shame to have to do this. If you are not comfortable approaching women or even in a bar or club You have to overcome this in your own way.
On the other hand, introverts don’t have to be shy. He just doesn’t have a shallow conversation. or a loud and noisy center of attention But he wants a deeper relationship that he only maintains with a handful of people. He assesses everyone and tries to infer whether there are people who have his social power. if that’s you Show that you have come to the right place.
How can an introvert meet a girl while at a party?
Here are a few tips to help introverts meet at bars and nightclubs.
#1 in good shape, good posture First impression and if you look good women will notice Being slim and muscular makes you feel comfortable. thus increasing the chances that women will be more interested in you. While good posture shows confidence and gives you an aura that makes you stand out.
You can easily stand out at the end of the bar and have women around you. Wait for you to approach them when your body language expresses sex appeal and confidence. [Read: 25 things about a man that make him instantly attractive to women]
#2 Dress well. The second part of looking good is dressing well. when i say good I don’t mean to dress smart. Plus, dress in a unique style that makes you stand out. Maybe you can wear interesting accessories or bright colors. Maybe you wear a suit when most people wear jeans and blazers. You may be wearing a vague band shirt in the hope that a woman with similar musical trends will come to you.
when you are in good shape You can wear anything and take it off. Avoid tacky logos and childish clothing. The intention is to draw attention to yourself with your looks. more than your actions Finally achieve the same thing a cheerful man does with his high energy: to make women notice you and check you out. [Read: 10 ways you can stand out from the crowd]
#3 Stay comfortable in your environment. Whether it’s chatting with your friends or walking around the club on your own. Do what you like and are comfortable. Don’t feel like you have to be in your friend’s pocket all the time. If they want to dance and you don’t want to do your own thing for a while.
If you look awkward or uncomfortable Girls will think you are boring or weird. You have to be happy in yourself and around others in this environment without disappointing you. You don’t need to talk to anyone. if you don’t want personally I spend more time watching people than talking to people.
#4 Understand the signs of a woman. Guys are pretty straight forward and we tend to say and do what we set our minds to. Women are much more sensitive. And usually they won’t come to you or come to talk to you blatantly. Although it happens more than when they are drunk. [Read: 8 clear cues a girl gives away if she wants you to make a move]
Women will repeatedly glance at you, make eye contact, swipe past you when there is space that shouldn’t be. And just being around you, they might be standing next to you at the bar to order a drink. Although there was still a lot of empty space along the bar. These are subtle signs that you must learn to recognize.
If you’re not sure, assume she’s flirting with you and approaching her anyway. over time You will learn to instinctively feel that she is really flirting with you. Or did she accidentally meet you? [Read: The types of women you can expect to meet at a bar]
#5 Make eye contact. This is the easiest way to let a girl know you’re interested in her without even talking to her if she makes eye contact, smiles, or looks away and giggles. Then quickly turned around and looked. she might like you
Making eye contact requires a certain level of confidence and comfort. So keep practicing until you’re comfortable doing so. That way, you’ll know if a girl might already like you. So you won’t waste your energy talking to girls who aren’t interested in you.
#5 don’t be afraid of rejection You want to increase your chances by making eye contact and seeing if she responds or flirts with you in other ways. Even if you do this Sometimes you still get rejected for a variety of reasons. Usually, it’s not because you’re ugly or scary. So don’t worry about it!
It happens. It doesn’t hurt you. you don’t know her and she doesn’t know you She might be drunk And you’ll never see her again. If you are affected by her rejection You may want to try to build your self-esteem before focusing on meeting women. [Read: How to approach any woman and make her like you even before you talk to her]
#6 manage your mood You can’t let negativity let you down. in the same way You don’t want to be stuck with off-the-beaten-path conversations or other activities that limit your social energy.
You really have to manage your emotions. And make sure you have a good mindset. If you don’t have a good time I guarantee that no one will want to talk to you. Don’t be afraid to find time to relax. chill with friends Or even go outside for some fresh air and quiet time.
#7 When the opportunity comes, grab it. This is the biggest mistake many men make. They finally mustered up the courage to talk to the girl they liked and she was open to the method. But he was too shy to proceed.
Sometimes she takes the lead and moves things along, but this is quite rare. and you are really lucky But you need to be comfortable adding interactions away from more intimate and intimate conversations. [Read: The clueless guy’s guide to using pick up lines and making it work]
If she talks to you more 2 The minute, smiles, laughs, or touches you anyhow. She likes you. Take things to the next level. Tease her, touch her back and be confident. Take her for a drink, sit down, or dance if you want to relieve tension. It can be difficult to stay two feet apart while chatting as you try to find a partner. So change your position as an excuse for relative repositioning.
Like if you want to take her home. You have to be confident and take her where you want her to go. Take your hand and say “Let’s get out of here” ?? or something similar She’ll tell you if she’s uncomfortable with it. But if she follows you It will be a green light – go full speed!
[Read: 30 foolproof pickup lines and 10 you should never ever use]Bars and nightclubs are great places to meet introverts like you. This is because you tend to be more attuned to the environment and people you are with. You can use the power of awareness to guide the game to your favor.
