Spend more time with your cats than people? We all have those moments. But if social life is not conducive It’s time to find friends.
There was a period of about four months that I didn’t leave the house. My best friend has her first boyfriend. I quarreled with another friend So I said die I spent the whole winter lying in front of the fireplace watching the news with my parents. I won’t lie. I absolutely love this time from everyone. I went to school, went to work, stayed at home—no continuous social life cycle for four months.
15 Ways To Improve Your No-Social Life For A Good Time
Sometimes you need this time for yourself. Maybe you feel the need to be alone and that’s okay. It’s time for you to try to get out of this no-social cycle of life.
I think I’m having a good time. In some way I was. However, I started to distance myself from my friends. more and more This is a time when you’re alone is a little worrisome, so if you notice that you don’t have a social life. It’s time to find life for yourself.
Because sometimes you need a friend more than your cat.
#1 What is social life? before I ended up in this Are you really lacking in social life? I’m not saying that what you feel isn’t real, but nowadays, with all this social media. Many people feel that social life is just social life. If they were surrounded by three hundred “friends”
If you only have two or three friends that you hang out with regularly? show that you have a social life Don’t get bogged down by the scams you see on social media. [Read: Why social media makes you feel really insecure]
#2 Why do you lack social life? There are a few reasons why you may not have a social life. Social life is not caused by loneliness or shyness. You may experience one of these two emotions that you should overcome.
Loneliness stems from feelings your body creates when you lose social connections. Shyness is the fear of social criticism. Try to look inside yourself to understand the feelings you are experiencing.
#3 People may want to hang out with you. If you suffer from loneliness and shyness You have to understand that people around you want to hang out with you. There are seven billion people in the world, trust me, someone wants to hang out with you.
Now, whether you want to hang out with them is a different question. You may be interpreting other people negatively. rather than being positive [Read: 30 ways to overcome feelings of loneliness]
#4 You have to pay attention to this. You have to make your social life important. especially if you don’t have You need a lot of time to connect and maintain those relationships.
Most of my friends are from high school. It’s not that I don’t have any friends from university. But I can’t take the time to maintain these new relationships. Now don’t leave school to go to the club every weekend. Instead, prioritize the amount of time per week meeting friends. [Read: How to make friends after college – 15 ways to make it effortless]
#5 accept the invitation I’m terrible at this, in fact I’m a big flak. I know what I am. I’m not a good person, but I want to stay at home. secondary documentary with my dog But that won’t make you friends, let me tell you.
Instead of watching Netflix, you have to go out. So when someone asks you out, say yes, you don’t have to say yes all the time. But the more you say yes and go The better your social life, the better.
#6 don’t be afraid of rejection You may be afraid to invite other people to hang out because you are afraid of rejection. Everyone is afraid of rejection. I’ve been rejected many times, however, not because they don’t want to hang out with you. But other people are busy with school, work, boyfriend/girlfriend, if you don’t ask other people to hang out. You will end up at home alone. You won’t lose anything.
#7 you have to talk You don’t have to talk all the time. But what you’re talking about requires some content. Conversation is what makes relationships grow and develop. in the beginning You don’t need a deep conversation. Your goal is to get used to talking to new people. and build relationships [Read: Good friends are like stars – How to build long lasting friendships]
#8 You don’t have to talk to people you don’t want. Now push yourself to talk to people. But what if you don’t want to spend time and energy with people you really don’t want to talk to? don’t do that It’s hard enough for you to talk to new people. So don’t be the burden of talking to people you don’t care about.
#9 Find people with similar interests The best way to improve your social life is to surround yourself with people who share your interests. All you have to do is join groups and activities that really interest you. That way, you’ll be surrounded by people who like what you do. which means You share something in common that pushes you one step ahead of the group.
#10 Keep it positive. Look, making friends isn’t easy. When I moved to a new city I had a hard time in the first few months. I was depressed. I panicked. I think I will be alone
However, I am online and join some social groups. Which then pushed me to meet these people in person. Now, some of these people I meet online are my closest friends. [Read: How to make real friends outside of your social networks]
#11 Don’t be afraid to go online. The internet is a magical place that offers you so many opportunities. As I said above I made a lot of friends online. I also have friends from Tinder, whatever the website, Facebook, Tinder, Couchsurfing. Take advantage by building relationships.
#12 I know you are excited but keep calm. You must be excited to make new friends. Don’t look too enthusiastic. I know you need friends, but the “oh my god, hello, let’s be friends” atmosphere makes people uncomfortable. even though excited But remember that people This wants to take with you So don’t be afraid or worried. [Read: How to be likeable – 15 easy ways to make anyone fall in love with you]
#13 Open your mind. When you try to build a social life You need to be open-minded to the people you meet. I mean, you don’t have a social life, so to be honest, you shouldn’t judge other people.
You will meet many people. You don’t have to be friends with all of them. But you have to see the advantages in them. Then you look at the differences and see if this is what you want in your life.
#14 Be consistent. If you eventually get a few friendships You have to keep them growing. This means you take care of them, I know. It seems like a lot of work. But friendship is work, I mean the benefits outweigh the disadvantages. But you will have to fix it. hang out with them listen to their problems Help them—you know. the basics[Read: 12 quick tips to add more people to your social circle]
#15 Don’t be afraid to open up. If you just met this person You don’t have to tell them your deepest and darkest secrets. Just open your heart to others eventually. This is the only way your friendship will move from a shallow relationship to a deeper one. Of course, you will do this when you feel comfortable and when the time is right.
[Read: 15 ways to make new friends as an adult]Now that you know how to switch your life from a lifeless society to a full calendar. you have to act It won’t be easy Especially if you’ve been alone for a while. But just go slow and have fun!
