Everyone knows that cheating will ruin any relationship. but for those who want more confidence Here are some valid reasons to remain faithful by Danielle Anne Suleik.
I’ve always wondered why people decide to cheat on their amazing partner. When their boyfriends and girlfriends become donkeys I’m not surprised anymore When I discovered that the shocking majority of people I knew ended up cheating. So I decided to find out why.
I will ask them They will respond with vague explanations of how their relationship has progressed. In the end, the guilt fell on their partner. when they realized it was their own fault. The fault was still on their partner. After I discovered the similarities between reasoning I turned to the internet.
Obviously, the reasons I hear aren’t necessarily the most legit form. The real reason lies in something people can’t immediately accept: they want more. They need more love They want more romance. they want more money They want more sex
Admitting you’re offended seems to be some form of surrender to most people. It’s like they’re too scared to admit that they have insecurity and socially unacceptable needs. So when people have common reasons why they are unfaithful. That might be a lie.
Why write a poem about the deepest impulses of man when I claim to be one of those who can resist the urge to cheat? The honest truth is that I will not cheat because I have been cheated.
Why was cheated persuaded not to cheat?
before anything else I would like to tell a story about how I was cheated. I was in a long distance relationship with a guy I thought was my boyfriend. Not knowing where he was all the time allowed him to sneak away with another woman — or two. He did it. I found out. I got hurt. It’s over. [Read: 9 simple ways to know if you’re dating a cheater]
I can try to get my revenge one way or another. But no one wins and only one loses – me, what did I do? It takes some time But I learned to let go By the time I was forced to decide whether to cheat on the new man I saw, I declined. [Read: Should you ever forgive a cheating partner?]
It comes easily when the pain of my being cheated back on collapses. I would not wish that to anyone. And I would have preferred it if people like me didn’t think I was morally corrupt enough to do so.
Will I still cheat if it doesn’t happen?
I can’t deny ‘Cause I don’t know what my mind will be if it doesn’t happen Justice and innate righteousness cannot prevent a person from cheating. There are many factors that can change a person’s thoughts and values. As long as they live and experience things every day.
Why do people cheat?
to understand what can convince people to cheat Let’s understand why people cheat in the first place.
#1 sex. Studies have shown that no matter how happy or sad the interpersonal is, most people *more men than women* cheat because they don’t have enough sex or have the sex they’ve always wanted. Cheating occurs when they lose the opportunity to ask their partner to experiment or the frequency of sex is reduced to almost nothing. [Read: 15 reasons people get bored in their relationships]
#2 Romantic. This is the biggest complaint for women. They end up cheating because the love in their relationship is nonexistent. This happens when two people get used to the idea of committing and failing in more efforts than they were when they first met. [Read: What you need to know about emotional cheating]
#3 communication. due to misunderstandings about work, money, family and other issues A couple may fail to discuss what’s really wrong. with their relationship when this happens Dissatisfaction arises internally and appears when a person exhibits a behavior. Cheating is not the goal It’s just a tool readily available to express a person’s displeasure.
#4 biology. female hormones They will betray your true feelings and make you do things you will regret later. The sad thing is that you want to do those things in the first place. That’s why it’s harder to control your actions when you’re sensitive and hot people are naked in front of you.
#5 intoxication If you think that blaming alcohol is an excuse, you are wrong. The real sin is that you allow yourself to be drunk enough. Your restraint is broken in the process. you love your partner But that’s not on your mind when you lose.[Read: 10 simple reasons why men cheat on their partners] [Read: 25 honest reasons women cheat on their partners]
It’s not that complicated. Not everyone will cheat. But there are still people who insist on doing so. to prevent myself from cheating You have to think why it’s not a good idea. For me, it’s pretty simple because I know what happens to people who have been cheated.
why i never cheat
Besides knowing that your loved one is seeing or sleeping with someone else, it hurts like hell. I also had to think about why I wasn’t cheating in spite of it. that I never cheated on So what else is keeping me from cheating?
#1 to know that he will be caught If I ever cheated and was unlucky enough to get caught I imagine different situations to be in accordance with the disclosure I might be humiliated by revenge. My stable partner could become mad and hurt me or my lover. I could be jailed if I was in a country that was deemed illegal. There are many possibilities But one thing that prevented me from doing it was imagining the faces of my loved ones when they found out that I had betrayed them. [Read: 18 sneaky ways to catch a cheating partner]
#2 my opinion about myself Some people are strong enough to deny the fact that cheating doesn’t bother them. On the other hand, I consider myself so humble that it makes it hard for me to feel good about myself. Will I be the bad guy because I cheat? in my opinion yes And that’s the most important thing – what I think about myself.
#3 people around you. Cheating can be a secret. But history has proven that not all secrets can be hidden. Sooner or later you will tell someone. Your lover will tell someone It will end up in a chain reaction of great proportions that can damage your reputation, your career and your overall standing in your community.
#4 moral meaning It is something that is not acceptable in society. Cheating is a bad thing because, in theory, you’re giving someone’s rights over your love. you are hurting someone even if they don’t know Ask yourself: Is that what you really want to do?
#5 emptiness. Cheating is never rewarded. climax and climax fake excuses for love They’re not real unless you admit to yourself that you want it to be more than a relationship. Before you decide to give love to others Make sure the people you’re with know you’re giving up and are ready to experience new things with other people.
I like to wake up every day. knowing that some of my hardest things had nothing to do with cheating on my loved ones. I feel comfortable knowing that I am the best person I can be in a relationship. Although it didn’t work in the end.[Read: Should you worry about the choices you make in your life?]
Saying that I’ll never be unfaithful sounds like a privilege, but right now, I know in my heart that it’s not something I can do. If anything happens in the future that might change your mind, I’ll let you know. I’ll even tell you why I did it. In the meantime, do not hold your breath.