He’s not ready for a relationship, but he likes me. I mean, what are you going to do with that? instead of waiting for him Here’s what you need to do.
I think it’s safe to say that almost everyone has heard a guy say he’s not ready for a relationship, but he likes me. Yawn. It’s time for them to come up with a better approach, right?
Sometimes we like guys who don’t like us. Or he likes us but we don’t care about him. We are obviously emotional creatures. It’s going to get complicated in the love department. If you’ve ever had a guy tell you that he has feelings for you but isn’t ready to commit. Take a moment to step back and consider that it really is. so what happened
Ok! I’m not ready to have a boyfriend but I like you
Maybe you haven’t been in a relationship recently. In this case, I can understand why he wasn’t ready to take anything serious. But if you’ve known each other for a while Decide if it’s worth seeing him or not.[Read: The sure signs your guy is a commitment phobe]
We only have so much time in this world. *Don’t sound sad* And it’s important not to waste time on people who aren’t invested in the relationship. It’s time to figure out why and what you need to do about it.
Women like to think men are simple. you just feed them show love to them and you are ready to go but it’s complicated don’t fool yourself If he doesn’t commit to you There are two obvious reasons why.
#1 He is not above his past. Yawn! correct i said it He still hasn’t broken up with his ex. Sure, he might tell you that he’s broken up with her. But of course he will tell you so. If he tells you the truth You probably won’t meet face to face If he’s not above his ex. He would not want to invest more in this relationship. [Read: The secret signs your guy is not over his ex]
#2 someone else Double Hugh! This became a Spanish drama. I know this stinger But if he doesn’t want to be serious with you Maybe someone else was obsessed with him.
It certainly wouldn’t have been fair to him if that was the case. The only way you can know is by his actions and your instincts. [Read: The gut-wrenching signs your boyfriend is into someone else]
#3 He was happy with the situation. Why is he so invested in relationships when he gets everything he wants now minus the commitment? He enjoys the situation you have and he doesn’t want to adjust. His friends, work and hobbies are still more important than you. And he doesn’t want to change that.
#4 commitment phobe Some guys can’t take anything serious. I remember I used to date a guy who couldn’t even have dinner. Okay, he can, but if I talk to him about his future plans. He must be tired. I’m not kidding This man of yours may have a serious case of fear of commitment, and if he does, run the other way.
#5 you are not that person Ah, this man has always been a bummer. But if a man doesn’t commit to you Show that you are not the only one for him. if a man really Like you, he won’t give you that sentence. “I’m not ready” with you, he will hold you back and won’t let go. if he didn’t do that Show that he is not the right person for you. [Read: 15 signs you’re being used by a guy and it’s time to ditch him]
Here are some common reasons why men are not committed to relationships. When you know the reason You might be wondering what to do. Good question.
What to do when he’s not ready for a boyfriend but he likes you?
you figured it out why He doesn’t want to commit to you. Now the question is how do you do it? Look, it’s a good idea to leave him. But I know it won’t happen. At least not now Here are some other methods. in dealing with the situation
#1 Leave him. Okay, I have to say it again because it’s important. If a guy doesn’t meet you halfway You have to let him go. This is yours The life and happiness we’re talking about, yes, it might get worse a few months later. But then you’ll find people who really want to be with you. And you will forget everything about this guy. He’s not worth your time. [Read: This is how to know when it’s time to break up]
#2 clear with your feelings He can’t read your mind. Maybe he’s just scared or unsure of how you feel. It’s important that you put your cards on the table and make sure he understands what’s going on in your head. Then you two can come to a conclusion. Together? Are you friends? something must happen
#3 accept the relationship for what it is He might not change and that’s okay. But now it’s your turn to look at the relationship. Ask yourself if this is what you really need. Do you want a comfortable relationship with him? Does it make you happy? if so You have to accept the relationship for what it is. If you don’t like it, walk away.
#4 create boundaries If you’re deciding to stay with him *don’t*, you need to set boundaries. What you will accept and what you will not accept Since he was willing to take this matter seriously. So lying on top of him might not be a good idea. You have to make sure you keep yourself safe and unscathed. [Read: 13 reasons why a guy could be acting distant and strange]
#5 make him invest in you Listen, it’s what you can do, but I recommend it. You shouldn’t push someone into a situation they don’t want. If you want to make him invest in you He had to do that on his own.
Of course, you can make him do things for you that will make him invest in you. such as changing a car tire or helping to assemble furniture because he is devoted to the relationship It will affect him unconsciously. [Read: Tired of chasing him? Here’s how to make him want you]
#6 Understand that he may not be the right person for you. I know you don’t want to hear about it. But he might not be that person. You might think he is But wait, if he thought, he wouldn’t do this. It’s okay if the guy you like doesn’t become that person.
#7 spend little time with him when we like someone We always try to spend more time with them. But if you want him to bond with you more You have to do the opposite The distance makes the heart happy You don’t have to disappear But limit the amount of time you spend with him. It will give him a chance to miss you. [Read: Hidden signs we ignore when we’re in a one-sided relationship]
#8 walk away. To be honest, this is the easiest and best thing you can do. Yes, you can plan and plan. But you’re really wasting your time. Eventually, you’ll find that he’s not the right person for you. And all this hard work will be wasted. So go out while you’re at the front and find someone worthy of your love.[Read: He likes you but doesn’t want a relationship? How to deal with it]
And what are you going to do? I know it’s hard to hear that he’s not ready for a relationship. but he likes me from a man you are worth more Do not wait for any man!