Having a hard time winning over someone who doesn’t love you the way you love them? Find a way to let your loved one go by hating him.
One-sided love is truly the most painful love of your life.
It’s insulting, insulting, and very painful. It makes you wonder why love exists.
[Read: Understanding one-sided unrequited love better]I’ve been there too
How to leave your loved ones
I remember the time when I loved this woman a few years ago.
She likes me too.
We haven’t gotten to know each other yet because of a bit of fuss. But we make every effort to let the world know about our love when the time comes.
She went on vacation for a few weeks and ended up escaping with another man.
When she told me about it I was really angry and upset.
But you think I’m irrational
“Listen, I’m not your boyfriend. and you are just my friend You really don’t have the right to tell me. How am I supposed to live my life?” She yelled at me when I was upset with her.
There were many angry words exchanged in that conversation. and that’s it She never called me back. Even when she came home from vacation
I tried calling her and emailing her to no avail. You just ignore me like I don’t exist [Read: Why does love hurt so much when it goes bad?]
About a week after she returned from vacation, she answered my call
She said many things. And all I can do is listen to her with a broken heart in hand.
That was the last time we talked.
Overcome someone who will never love you again.
Being heartbroken is painful. And it hurts so much more when you feel helpless. Ever felt that the harder you try The more your loved ones run away from you? It’s like squeezing a grain of sand in the palm of your hand.
It’s not about men to cry. But it hurt so much that my life stopped. I was bitter, angry and helpless. I just don’t know what I have to do. Should I just be friends again and pretend nothing happened between us? I can’t do that It must be too painful I have to let you go
Sometimes you just have to let go if you want to keep going. And the easiest way to do this is to replace all your love for someone with hate. Not the safest way But it will definitely help you.
Letting the One You Love Hate Him
If you’ve tried everything and it’s still hard to beat the one you love. Maybe hate is the only option.
[Read: Ways to fall out of love when you see no future]#1 got the answer This is important But it’s not always easy. Find out why people This doesn’t like you anymore. Or find out why they stopped liking you. Finding answers will give your mind the rest it needs. even if it hurts But if you can’t find the answer, don’t make your own assumptions. Think of it as something it shouldn’t be and let it go.
#2 accept the lost cause Don’t live in denial Admit it, you’ll never get this person. You’ve lost. Sometimes we can’t win at all. and you will have to accept it as well as dealing with addictions. You have to admit that there is a problem before trying to overcome it.
#3 have self respect Love makes the self-respect you have. And even though it looks cute when you both love each other But it’s not so sweet when it comes to one-sided love. Stop looking for lost love And don’t put a stupid love song on youtube. [Read: Signs the one you love is thinking of you too]
You may feel like you’re venting your thoughts. But your crush might think you’re an annoying, lifeless pest. Have self-respect and respect for this person’s space. Sometimes, what you do will never change how other people feel about you.
#4 keep your memories Remember that your heart was torn in two by this person. If you want to release your loved one by hating him. You have to keep those bad memories if you have self-respect. You should feel insulted whenever you think of the way this person treats you. [Read: What should you do with old love letters?]
#5 avoid this person almost always Your crush might start avoiding you. After all, they don’t care about you. But even if this person does not avoid you and decides to pretend that nothing has happened. Lets start avoiding them. How can you act like a friend when you have feelings for someone clearly? If you do not avoid this person you will feel worse It’s not easy to avoid the one you love. But you have no other choice here.
#6 Avoid hearing any news. Do not contact this person. whether online or offline If you have regular friends, avoid them too. Avoid checking their Facebook page every evening. Unless you want to be a loser for life. The person you like doesn’t care about you. How long will you keep them on the altar like a loser?
#7 keep yourself busy The person you love this much won’t even miss you. You mean nothing to them. Admit it. You are the only one complaining about your lost love. This person you like has forgotten you. You miss that person a hundred times a day. And it’s possible that your crush might not even think of you once a week. How does it make you feel? Don’t you think you have to move on? [Read: How to kiss a friend accidentally and get away with it]
Do anything else, as long as you can meet other people who appreciate what you are.
#8 So angry Get bitter. Get loco hate this person for the way they treat you. Don’t feel pity or weakness. Instead of feeling angry and hurt How can the person you care so much about treat you like you’re dirty and walk all over you? This person doesn’t even have a heart?
#9 Listen to hate songs. Youtube is full of hate playlists. Pick a song you like and blow it into your ears. Let each song you play remind you of how busy you are right now because your crush treats you. Force yourself to overcome all negative emotions.
and after listening to the entire playlist of angry songs Always listen to happy music that makes you feel good about yourself. Then step out of the house like nothing happened and meet someone new! [Read: Why are rebound relationships the best thing to have?]
#10 Every time you close your eyes. Every time this person comes into your mind Force yourself to look only at the negative side of him. Remember that they laugh at you or treat you like a child when you plead with you. Sometimes it may be easier to replace the love you have with hate or anger than trying to win over your love for someone. [Read: 10 types of love you’ll experience in your life]
After all, hate is just as powerful as love, as long as you know how to replace love with hate. You will surely know how to win over the people you love.
But let the hate you create be temporary. Turn your love into hate And finally when you feel stronger to turn hatred into indifference It gets easier because you don’t really hate the person you like. You just feel bitter and alone right now. [Read: The right way to love again after a breakup]
By turning your love into hate You can overcome the despair and overwhelming love you have for someone. And learn how to let your loved one go along and when you feel ready. You will learn to be indifferent as well.
