Is the man of your dreams too emotionally distant for you to take one more glance? Here’s how to make him fall in love with you.
After playing brain games for a year You can no longer control your emotions. So you decided to reveal your feelings to the charming prince. You expect a grand gesture after the great revelation, because all along, you thought, “He was too embarrassed to make the first move,” but then… he leaned closer to you and kissed your forehead. Your forehead!
he stammered But you can tell that he likes you very much. But he wasn’t ready for a relationship. Because he’s still dealing with an ugly breakup. He wants to focus on his career. or he wants to find a way to achieve world peace He said you should slow things down and enjoy being together first.
What do you do?
NS. Make him fall in love with you to speed things up.
NS. Wait for him to be ready.
c. run away
Because you are reading this feature. I guess your choice is A, I won’t raise my eyebrows. Because there are many relationships that begin this way. Every case is different. And if you believe in the guy you’re dating You shouldn’t feel bad about your decision. [Read: 5 clear giveaways of an emotionally unavailable man]
But before embarking on the pursuit of an emotionally unstable man, You have to make sure you are willing to invest in something that could lead to nothingness. If you hear a loud “come on!” in your head now Get ready to rumble Here are some sneaky ways to make your moody guy fall in love with you and open up to you based on your mood.
stage 1 after confession
This phase usually begins immediately after you have had a “talk” ?? Or the moment you realize that you want to take care of it yourself, are you still a “cool girl”? with the patience that my mother taught me 2- Year of using the potty
#1 be his friend What if “excuses” ?? He gave you because he couldn’t act, actually an excuse? What if he had to go through a really hard time? Lost scores, suspended from work, or a family member’s death? If these things happen to you Of course, you’re probably obsessed with thinking about starting a relationship.
If you really care about this guy was friends with him Be there when he needs someone to talk to. Or give him a box of his favorite cookies when he’s recording the show for a presentation. This will let him see who you are and how you are in a relationship. If he is facing serious Do your best to avoid putting pressure on people who aren’t in a relationship.
#2 don’t chase him Let him chase you instead. Men still love to chase. If you’re ready to accept his invitation too. or worse If you’re always an innovator, slow down. You don’t want to be an active beaver in a relationship. Trust me, being the one who’s always on the chase will tire you out and make you feel less attractive.
Because you already know he wants to slow things down and you decide you’re okay with it. Wait for him to start doing things. Whether it’s dating, chat, email, or texting, it’s hard I know. Are you afraid that if you stop communicating? Will he completely forget you? If you are still within range 1 Chances are he’s wondering why you stopped texting him. And this will make you more attractive to him. Follow his pace, no matter how slow. In fact, slow down your pace. [Read: Whoa there! 8 signs you’re coming on way too strong]
#3 busy Try to keep yourself busy with other activities. So that you don’t have to try to text him again. This also applies to married men or couples. If you’re married to a guy who likes to play video games more than spend time with you. Maybe it would help if you were busy instead of complaining to him about his passion for video games.
Think about an activity you really want to do and do it, whether it’s snowboarding or joining a book club. Your moody guy will soon notice how responsible you are for your life. And they may begin to fear that you will enjoy life so much without him that he will lose you. Seeing a woman doing her own thing is very attractive.
#4 unfold. What if the reason he doesn’t open up to you or he’s afraid to be in a relationship with you is because you didn’t open up to him? tell him a secret Tell him about your fears. And tell him about your craziest dreams.
Sharing secrets builds intimacy. And that’s what we’re aiming for, right? and look at the sign If he listens carefully to what you have to say and shares his secret. show that you have hope If he has zero enthusiasm when you reveal what’s important about yourself. That’s a sign that he doesn’t get along with you, or that you both have to work really hard to get the connection you want.
Phase Two: Assessment Phase
A year has passed since you talked. And you have done all of the above. All old problems and excuses have been solved. Now you’re tired of not having your relationship. But you still hope that one day he will make everything official. This is your time to evaluate him. his feelings for you and your feelings for him
#5 date another guy If a year has passed since he said “Wait for me to prepare first” ?? and you are still in the same place Maybe it’s time to go on a date with another guy. I have a guy friend who only makes it official when he sees a woman hanging out with another man. He said he couldn’t bear to see her with anyone else. This was a rather stealthy move. but wait If a year has passed You should find out if he is ready or not.
If dating other men doesn’t make him jealous, you get a red flag. Instead, ask him about your relationship. It’s time to ask yourself if you really want to be with this guy. Jealousy doesn’t mean he loves you. But it might make him move faster. Especially if he really loves you. and just wait for the right time [Read: Why you should be dating more than one guy at once]
#6 Surprise him with the word “no”?? If you used to be the right woman Surprise him by denying what he expects you to say yes to. It could be a dinner date or a luxurious vacation. This might make him wonder why you’re rejecting it. And this could be dangerous for him.
The feeling he gets when you show him you’re not him anymore will drive him crazy. It would make him reconsider all the irrelevance and might make him move this time. Because he realized that he wanted a relationship with emotional commitment.
#7 Go AWOL The phrase, “Disappearing makes the heart swell” ?? It’s a cliché for a reason: it’s true. go on vacation without informing him or just not communicating for a period of time *Should be longer than a week* and see what happens.
I know this is a ridiculous game. but necessary in your case I’ll repeat myself: “You don’t know what you got until it’s gone”?? again the truth but when you do it Use that time to really enjoy being alone. And don’t do it just so you can lure a guy into a relationship with you. [Read: Flirting like crazy and then going completely cold]
Phase Three: Build or Destroy
you are in range 3 Once you’ve done all of the above. But the emotional connection has yet to emerge. He kept a secret He’s also hot and cold. and he is not ready at this point You have lost all your patience, energy, and hope. And you begin to question whether he is worthy or not.
#8 Talk again and focus on yourself this time. Tell him everything you want to tell him. It’s time to reduce caution and stop playing mind games. Honestly tell him how you feel about him. How do you feel about the long wait? what you sincerely want And what you can’t bear anymore Set a deadline this time too. If he really loves you He will not let you suffer any more.[Read: 8 things you shouldn’t do to get a guy to like you]
If your moody man is still emotional after you’ve done all of the above. It’s time to run as fast as you can. You’ve wasted a lot of time with him. And you shouldn’t waste any more time.