Stuck on being friends with benefits and feel like you have enough? Here’s how you can turn the situation in your favor and make him want to take it seriously.
Friends with benefit arrangements are often mutually beneficial situations for both parties to have unconditional sex and a stress-free way to enjoy the opposite sex. Inside because you want more than just sex. and the other is satisfied with what is. It doesn’t seem like the best situation anymore.
But you may feel trapped and unable to look for love elsewhere because you are so attached to him. at the same time You may feel like you can’t let the one-way street be equally unhealthy. The good news is that there are some strategies that can help wake him up and make him think you’re his girlfriend. If you move properly and refrain from undermining your chances with him. You may be on the path to a relationship you’ve been secretly hoping for. [Read: 16 signs you’re not yet ready for a serious relationship]
The way to go from friends with benefits to committed partners.
The following tips will keep you ahead of the game. And make him think that he loves you all the time but still doesn’t know.
#1 check signal The first thing you need to figure out is whether he likes you in some way or if he just sweats with a new girl every night. You want to make sure he likes you on another level.
He may want the same things as you. But he’s not sure if you are a) too promiscuous b) don’t like him that way c) crazy about sex and he’s the first to come in? d) use him to win someone or make other people jealous. When men approach their friends with more benefits than benefits He will show it in different ways.
If he introduces you to a few friends. Voluntarily tell you that he doesn’t see anyone else. Spending time with you before or after sex and never mentioned any other woman. This is a good indicator. As a bonus if he puts you in tense plans for the future, for example, suggesting to take you somewhere in the distant future.
Although these signs definitely don’t mean he wants to be in a relationship with you. But it can also signal that he misses you more than just your partner. He might just follow the trend to see how things grow between the two of you before inviting you out. [Read: 20 signs that say he’s in love with you]
#2 Go to MIA at the right time Shake him a little here and there and just slightly fall off the map. You can do this by replying to his message the day after it was sent. This tactic makes it look like you’re obsessed with something other than him.
In his mind, you might be sleeping with someone else. back to old friends or meet new people you want to date. All of the above might make him terrified of getting closer to you for fear that you’ll lose interest in other men.
#3 don’t be too busy Being too busy makes you look easy. Being a friend with benefits puts you at a slight disadvantage from being seen as promiscuous anyway. But being always ready will make you look like a sex toy that keeps coming back for more. That’s not what you’re going to do here if you want him to be your boyfriend in the future. [Read: Flirting like crazy then going completely cold]
#4 Fairly share meaningful conversations. Non-sexual conversations are a great way to let a guy know that he really is. and who are you besides how you are in bed Having a deep conversation or talking about life can help you bond on a deeper level. And it will help keep the relationship from being just about sex.
#5 reveal your true color Show him that you are a good person and that you have standards. Don’t let him think you’re hopeless or insecure. Or do you want sex to fill the emotional void? Instead, show him that you’re caring. But it’s a lustful woman who isn’t afraid to get what she wants. This will allow you to look in control.
#6 A detailed hint on your wife’s side. Don’t start offering to do the laundry or prepare him a five-course meal when he says he’s coming over for dinner, laying out hints like, “Oh, oh, I forgot to call, I just made lasagna”?? or tell him you’re cleaning and have to call back
This will show him that you have a typical wifey side that he cannot reach. If he knew the other man had been treated to the fullest. but he can’t This will enable him to compete. He’ll want to be treated the same way your ex did. [Read: 15 qualities men secretly crave in women]
#7 It was the best he had ever had. When it comes to sex Remember if he wants to continue having sex while in a relationship with you. You have to do the best he’s ever had, or at least get close, take action, show your full potential, don’t be lazy, and try to get what you want out of it.
causing him to make as much effort together in making you satisfied If he’s not worried about whether you’re breaking up with him, too. He wasn’t worthy of being in a relationship.
#8 Don’t look like you’re trying too hard. Don’t let him think you’re trying too hard to please him. Or that you care too much about what he thinks of you? The more you seem less interested in him. The more he wants you, the more he wants you. Give him the feeling that you don’t need him and he will always try to win your heart. [Read: 15 effortlessly simple ways to stay sexy at any age]
#9 Practice saying no to things you’re uncomfortable with. Don’t feel compelled to do anything that you find embarrassing or offensive. Often times, men will lose respect for you. If you are willing to engage in derogatory, offensive, discriminatory or coercive sexual acts without your consent.
Learn to deny it steadfastly and consider walking away if you feel insulted in one way or another. You will gain more respect by making it clear what you will and will not tolerate.
#10 Don’t make him think you’re promiscuous. Don’t make him feel like you’re having sex with multiple guys, as he might call you a prostitute. And your chances with him might be gone from the outside world. If he asks, let him know you’re just sleeping with him. But that doesn’t mean there isn’t another person you might have a crush on. This can instill jealousy and make him fall in love with you.
#11 Always wear confidence on your sleeve. Always. Men can’t help but fall in love with a confident woman. So don’t let him think you’re not safe enough to put up with anything. just for him to stay
#12 Be mysterious and unpredictable. Send messages back randomly, for example: 90:00 the next day or 3 p.m. the next day, you want to look unpredictable. When he asked what you were doing Be vague enough to provoke an emotional response from him. If you’re sitting at home and he asks, “Hey, are you home?”?? The answer is “not now” ??
The vague response seemed incredibly mysterious. He’ll spend more time thinking about where you are and what you’re going to do. instead of going with his friends Brag about how good you are in bed. You want him to miss you as much as possible. It’s not just about sex.
#13 Build friendships If you form a friendship with him where he feels he can ignore you. It will create a good foundation for the relationship. You can joking and laughing, not tying, not arguing, nagging, or considering his opinion. He will want to have a boyfriend like that by his side for a long time.
#14 Show your uniqueness. He must think you are one in a million. And he’s very lucky to have you by his side. If he feels that you are different from other women. in any way It will keep him interested and he will want to win your heart. [Read: 8 things you should never do to get him to like you]
Giving your friend the benefit of being your girlfriend depends on how willing you are to play the game and make him fall in love with you. Just make sure he’s worth all this effort!