Lesbians don’t wear badges or dress or behave the same if your BFF is too close. She might have a secret. And she’s a lesbian?
True story. After my husband died. I have a friend who is my stone. If it wasn’t for her, I wouldn’t have survived. I could call her at any time of the day or night to pick me up – both literally and figuratively.
She knows how to speak how to comfort me and how to help me through the darkest times in my life She is the perfect girlfriend. Only I can’t see
People like my mother, my husband and other friends will say to me “Did you know that Julie? she is hitting you She loves you!”
Now I would not consider myself completely oblivious. but sometimes I was able to look back at things put together and finally see what was in front of me.
Needless to say When my husband and I got serious, she didn’t hear my “woman’s words.” She didn’t really care about people like me. And she really stopped talking to me.
I think it’s my fault Of course it was because I blown you away because I was overshadowed by love. So I started an apology tour which made people deaf. She doesn’t want anything with me anymore – period.
Later I found out that when I left the city She moved in with another “best friend.” It’s ironic that I was married when I was there and didn’t care about my relationship with Susan.
I think when it comes to judging bisexuals from homosexuality, I am crazy. It seems like everyone around me can see lesbians, but am I? Not much. I was her best friend and missed every sign. And I never asked myself, “Is she a lesbian?” [Read: How to tell if a woman is attracted to another woman]
I think I should have seen some signs. that you have for me being by my side And she’s angry at my relationship. But I know what, she’s divorced, and for me, that’s spelled “straight.”
since then I started to miss other women. In a life that is very close to me And I was very surprised to find that *after the fact* that they are gay not ready to admit it It takes a lot of courage and fear to be rejected – more than a heterosexual relationship.
20 Signs That Might Make You Ask “Is she a lesbian?”
If you have a girlfriend and suspect that she may have ulterior motives. I think I finally narrowed the 20 signals to find out if you were wondering. “Are you a lesbian who secretly likes me?”
The problem is that we tend to look for stereotypes like a woman’s dress, her hairstyle, her body shape. or her athleticism The truth is that what happens in a person’s brain chemistry doesn’t always appear in character or behavior. [Read: 15 common lesbian stereotypes we hear all the time]
#1 She insults you too much. You know how it feels when you’re friends with someone and you feel like a school girl with a crush – but do you miss the likes?
You like to laugh together and want to hang out together. But if she can’t do anything without you Think of you as a ‘dabom’ and want you to go to breakfast, lunch and dinner 24/7 that is too close for comfort. There was a friend’s nervousness, and there was too much creepy nervousness.
#2 She commented positively on your appearance. and make you feel a little uncomfortable I remember when I was driving home with a friend and she said, “I think you have the nicest ass in the neighborhood.” That’s not what a straight woman would say to another woman… Why look at a woman’s ass and admit it! [Read: 20 unmistakable signs your friend is crushing on you]
#3 She meets a ridiculous man. But you’ve never met them. Susan always had a “Pedro” or “Man” she met at random bars. But there was never a man in her life. She wants to pretend to be the opposite sex. in case I didn’t receive the message.
Obviously a good idea because I didn’t. If she doesn’t have a man and you’ve known her for a while. And all she talks about is casual sex, which you know didn’t happen. She is probably a lesbian. [Read: What is it really like to have a lesbian experience?]
#4 She grew up in a family where being gay was not acceptable.. “Susan” is the sister of three brothers and an Irish Catholic. If you are one, you can get it.
For some people, if they come out of the closet It will destroy their families, their jobs, or anything else nearby. And if you feel like they like you more than they should? Show that they are probably lesbians.
#5 She quickly became friends with you.. If you start dating someone and suddenly It’s like you never really existed. That was strange. And it’s not the case that she’s mad at you as a cheerleader for always leaving her friends to be footballers.
You’re not in high school anymore if she suddenly ignores you because you’re dating someone. Show that you close her when you open your heart.
#6 She doesn’t want to talk about your man. If you can talk about everything But when it comes to men it has no limit It means you’re with someone who doesn’t want to hear that you like someone else. Wondering? Yes. And that might mean she likes you more than a friend. [Read: How to tell if two girls are actually more than just friends]
#7 She hates every guy you’re attracted to.If she finds something wrong with every guy you raise, even the nice guys, then something isn’t right. We all carry our luggage with us. But if you notice that she doesn’t have a problem with men in general. but only the man you are with You may want to reconsider which team she plays for.
#8 She finds a reason to be alone with you.. If every time you want to bring someone else to a party and she finds a reason to go it alone. Maybe it’s because she’s jealous of your time.
Being alone with your crush isn’t just what heterosexuals want. Just because you don’t know why she wants to spend time alone with you. It didn’t mean that she didn’t get the real wish from this intimate moment.
#9 I felt strangely dressed in front of her.. We all have that girl you don’t want in the dressing room. It’s not that she’s looking straight at you. But there are some things that make you feel uncomfortable about her.
If you think twice before stripping to change clothes and never think about it. That’s your inner voice telling you something happened. [Read: What it means to have a lesbian fantasy as a straight woman]
#10 She is obsessed with texting you.. Texting is fun But if she’s angry when you’re not over *Especially when she knows you’re dating* shows that she needs your attention all the time.
Girlfriends can be quite obsessed with other girls without a crush. But if it’s something a little more than that You should collect the signs and see what you can find.
#11 She wants all your attention. If she keeps flashing the “look at me” sign and doesn’t want you to give anything to anyone else. Show that you are the target she desires.
If she just wants to be with you, talk to you, hang out with you. Maybe it’s because she’s lonely and having trouble making new friends. Or is she just having fun with you that much?
#12 She sits in the wings waiting for you.. It’s normal for friends to want to be with you. especially if you get along well. But what if she can’t do anything without you, waiting for you, or always waiting for you at the door? You may open your eyes slightly. [Read: Are you more than friends or just friends?]
#13 She comments on other women.. It’s normal for women to think that other women are beautiful. We all notice when a woman is truly beautiful.
But if you notice that she is almost obsessed with another woman and keeps going on about her body or appearance. That’s thinking too much about other women. At least it’s not a sign of being bisexual. [Read: 9 sure ways to tell if someone is bi-curious]
#14 She has Her past “experiment” If she’s told you about her “crazy” experiments in the past, she’s probably still trying to figure out which team she plays for.
We all do things just to give it a try. But in general, being with other women is not something you experiment with. Unless you may be prone to feelings or them. It’s definitely a fashion. But if she seems infatuated with you She might also want to experiment with you.
#15 She tries to show off you.. If you notice that when you are alone She still does things to show off to you, so she might be trying to make you see the side of her that would make you uncomfortable.
Women are just like men who try to impress your crush. If she’s always doing things to make you think she’s a ‘dabom’, that’s too much of an effort for a friend. [Read: Help! My gay friend is coming on to me]
#16 She reveals herself too much. Even with our best friends We have a norm to keep our private matters a secret. If she’s always telling you things that are too close for comfort She may be trying to connect with you on an emotional level that’s closer than you should be.
#17 She loses her shit when you don’t answer. If she’s like a jealous boyfriend when you don’t answer right away to think She is your jealous girlfriend.
#18 She buys you things.I don’t like seeing cute things and thinking about friends and buying them. But if she buys an expensive gift or something for you nearby. She’s probably trying to buy your love, not a “friend” way.
#19 Suddenly she changes.. If you’re starting to be super fun and friendly, and she’s suddenly acting in a completely different way. Show that something happened That doesn’t mean she crosses the line into your infatuation. But if she acts like she has a crush on you she might be [Read: 10 signs you’re dating your friend already and just don’t know it]
#20 Your inner voice is telling you something is wrong.. There’s a reason we have an inner voice. And, unfortunately, it is almost always correct. whether we want it to be or not
If your inner voice is telling you that she’s getting too close for you to be comfortable with. listen to that sound You don’t want to send the wrong signal back if it’s quite obvious. And you didn’t make your intentions clear by following it.
I’m a very ignorant person when it comes to knowing the difference between bisexual and lesbian friends. It’s hard when we have good friends who want more. Especially if you can’t see it and other people can.
If you have a strange feeling that there’s more to the friendship than that Step back and check her behavior to see if she might have a crush on you.[Read: Are you lesbian or bisexual? How to understand your secret desires]
If you are wondering Then these 20 signs will help you understand, but remember, the last thing you want to do is send her the wrong message and make her feel that you feel the same way. That can lead to a real feeling of pain.