Is she playing hard to get it or is she not interested in you? Women and their mysterious ways can be hard to read. in this feature We share it all for you.
People may be difficult to read Has your mother ever told you that bullies are jealous of you? Maybe you want to believe it. But you’re never really sure The situation is similar when people say “She’s just playing hard to get it.” Really?
In this feature, we delve into the hearts of women to learn why women play so hard to get them. Is the girl you’re chasing after you? If not, these signs will help you see the truth. If she’s interested and wants you to pursue her more. You will know that you should keep trying.[Read: How to pursue a woman the right way and win her over]
Why do women play hard to get it?
“Chasing” can be one of the most exciting parts of a new relationship. Uncertainty back and forth – can make everything more exciting. One of the common reasons why women play hard to get them is because it’s fun!
But playing hard to get it can also be a test. Especially if you’re dealing with a woman who is serious about herself.
If she is testing you She’ll want to make sure you’re genuinely interested in her. And you’re not chasing after her just because you’re bored or want to sleep with her. Then she’ll put you through the test – and you’ll only date her if you show flexibility. [Read: Why do girls play games and test guys in the early stages of dating]
This is also true if she is quite serious about you. She wouldn’t risk catching feelings if it wasn’t for you. really Get into her, testing you is a way to make you worth it.
Another reason women play hard to get it is because of social judgment. Maybe she really wants to date you. But she fears that she will be judged if she does it too quickly, so she may think she has to offer resistance before giving up. In this case, she will make you work for it. No one can say that she is “easy”. [Read: 18 stereotypical things girls do that makes guys think she’s an easy lay]
Don’t confuse lack of interest with playing hard to earn.
A girl who plays hard to get it will make you hard. But she won’t make it impossible.
You should accept the possibility that she doesn’t like you. Don’t just assume that she is trying to test you and wants you to try harder. Her behavior will eventually tell you the truth.
Therefore, it is very important that you learn to read her sensitive signals to see if she is playing hard. Learning this skill will give you the confidence to keep trying or giving up before you turn into a creepy guy.
If you think she likes you Keep an eye out for these. 15 Signs That A Woman Really Wants Your Attention And Likes YouIf she likes you, you’ll be able to notice these signs even if she doesn’t make it clear that she’s interested in you.
Is it hard to play? Signs you need to know
So you’re confused by the behavior of women towards you. Is it hard to play? Or is she just taking the time to get to know you better?
Here you can definitely know the answer to your question if she plays hard to get it. Do you find many of these signs in her behavior? Then it might be time to stop chasing her and treat her as a friend or walk away from her life. [Read: 12 signs she wants you to chase her and is being a tease]
1. Not replying to your messages
There are informal dating rules about when or how often to text someone. So it’s normal for her to be in no hurry to reply to your messages. But what if you text her and don’t get a reply for a day or two? She wasn’t just playing hard to get it. It might mean that she’s not interested in you.
People have their own lives to take care of. Whether it’s work, family, social work, but when women are interested She will never forget that you texted her. She will take into account how long she responds to your messages. And she’ll also take note of how long it took you to respond to her.
So if she just ignores your message and felt that she didn’t want to text back. Shows that she may not play hard to get it. she just doesn’t care [Read: When she doesn’t text back – Why girls do this and what you need to do next]
2. Her answers are always short.
Maybe she won’t disappoint you. Maybe she’ll take that sweet time back to you. But her response to your message is also something you should pay attention to.
If she waits for days and gives you a one-word answer. That was her conscience that spoke. she doesn’t want to hurt you But she doesn’t want to take you along. She’s just trying to be polite.
On the other hand, if she responds within an hour or two, asks questions and makes it easy to continue the conversation. Show that she might just let you work for it. big difference [Read: How to tell if a girl likes you over text – 28 big signs you just can’t miss]
3. Not trying to foster conversation
whether by text or face to face Talking to her shouldn’t feel like a struggle.
If you play hard to get it She might answer briefly. On the other hand, if she likes you, she may pretend to ignore you. But she may still find ways to keep the conversation going with you by using open-ended answers.
if she doesn’t like you You may find yourself scrambling to find a topic of conversation all the time. And she won’t make it easy for you.
Remember that conversations should be a two-way street. If not Shows that she’s not playing hard to get it.
4. She is always busy
Does she constantly decline invitations to hang out? This is a huge red flag that tells you she’s not playing hard. Especially if she says she’s busy but doesn’t offer another day.
No woman in you can make you work that hard. She might make you do all the hard work yourself by inviting her out. but at some point she will accept the invitation Or suggest another time that suits her better.
If she seems interested in you but refuses to date you often. Try using the magic law of “three” to get her out. 3 When you say you’re busy If she’s flirting with you but still isn’t interested in dating. Give up and move on [Read: The biggest signs she only wants your attention and isn’t interested in dating you]
5. Don’t try to plan.
Another red flag for knowing she wasn’t playing hard to get it was that she never tried to plan on her own. If you play hard to get it She’ll be waiting for you to invite her over. or she will invite you herself If you don’t care That thought would never enter her head.
Did she decline your invitation without getting back to you with a different date and time? Maybe it’s time to move in with someone else. [Read: 22 ways to move on when your feelings aren’t reciprocated]
6. She disappoints you.
Maybe she’s joking and having fun at your expense. She rejected you once or twice. But flirt and make you believe that everything has not gone away. But if it happens more than that though She’s not playing hard she is playing you
The end of playing hard to get is getting people to appreciate you and respect you enough to be serious about you. If she likes you, she won’t want to deny your progress or block you out entirely. If she disappoints you Show that she’s not looking for you to be her number one priority. It’s more straightforward to assume she’s not right for you and enjoy using you because she’s bored. [Read: 10 sure signs the girl you like is just using you]
If she likes you, soon she wants you to meet her friends. At least she’ll start telling stories that involve people in her circle in your regular conversation. But what if she doesn’t reveal anything personal to you? It’s possible that she doesn’t look at you that way.
8. She plays a matchmaker.
She introduces you to her friends. But it almost feels like she’s setting you up with one of them!
if this is the case Let’s be serious! A woman who is crazy about you never advises you to date her friends. Are you hard to play? This is definitely the end here.
If she pushes you out of her way Show that she is texting you to look elsewhere. She tries to find a partner for you because she knows she doesn’t want to lose you. [Read: 18 clear signs you’re in a girl’s friend zone]
9. She tells you that she is not ready for commitment.
Often when we like someone We assume that his words are not their intention. If she tells you that she’s not ready to commit to or have a serious relationship. She didn’t play hard to get it. Especially if she followed up by going out with other men.
And if you think that one day she will wake up and be yours Show that you are fooling yourself If she’s busy with other people but won’t make time for you. she doesn’t like you [Read: Are you her main man or just one of her extras?]
10. She flirts with your friends.
It’s important to note how she behaves with your friends as well. If she likes you, she may be interested in getting to know your friends or impressing them to get to know you better through them.
If she seems too interested in them – more than she cares about you – be careful.
This should not be ignored. Especially if it’s a signal in combination with other signals, in that case it could happen that she’s interested in someone. but someone is not you [Read: 15 signs she’s just leading you on and taking you nowhere]
11. Avoid touching your body.
A woman who plays hard to get it will always try to tease you. Often this comes in the form of a subtle touch.
Feel it while laughing at your jokes. touch the arm lightly Every time you stand close to each other… It’s part of the flirting game. Because touching you will let you know that she likes you. while other behaviors Her might say otherwise. And that makes you chase
If she doesn’t find a reason to touch you or get close to you. she doesn’t like you [Read: 15 body language cues a girl can’t hide if she really likes you]
12. “I like you like a friend.”
Yes, you have gained a friend zone. Do you know how many people have left the friend zone? That’s my friend zero. *Unless you step up your game and let her know you’re the catch, that is!*
The reason she tells you that she thinks of you as a friend isn’t to make you work harder. She tries to tell you “no” without hurting your feelings.
Don’t mistake her kindness and generosity with playing cool. She tries not to lead you. And that’s good for you, but move on. [Read: 13 naughty ways to get out of the friend zone in no time]
13. She likes other people.
If a girl tells you that she likes other people or says how cute or interesting the other guy is. Take a step back, to be honest, if a girl likes you or is interested in dating you from a distance. She won’t ask for your advice to impress other guys.
If she talks about falling in love with another man Even though she knows you like her She wasn’t mocking anyone. She makes it very clear that she doesn’t see you as more than a friend.
14. She was never jealous.
You like her, but you haven’t dated her yet. It’s possible that you’re spending time with other women as well. If a girl sees you as a friend She is happy to hear stories about other women. in your life She may even encourage you to pursue them or share tips on how to impress them.
but if she likes you She might not be honest. But she might be yelling at you or just getting a little annoyed or annoyed at you. If a woman is jealous of the time you spend with other people. It is possible that she likes you. [Read: How to make a girl jealous and leave her begging for your attention]
15. She looks irritated when you are stubborn.
You find it funny and cute when you repeatedly invite her on dates. Or try to flirt with her every chance you get. But does she thoroughly support you? Did she laugh and flirt back during that time? Or is she annoyed when you try to flirt with her?
If a woman is playing hard to get it she might reject you But she won’t stop you from flirting with her. She might flirt with her just to vent her hot and cold emotions. and let you guess But what if she’s not interested in dating you? She’ll go cold with you the minute you try to flirt with her.
16. There’s no such thing as a date.
You might ask her to hang out with you a few times. Friends do this all the time. So there’s nothing wrong with that. But every time you invite her on a date The answer is always the same answer. She is busy or she has other plans.
Is she playing too hard? If a girl doesn’t want to hang out with you alone, hint, she sees you as a friend. and don’t want you to misunderstand. And she doesn’t want to encourage you to pursue her.
she doesn’t care about you And it’s possible that she’s doing her best to disappoint you without hurting your feelings. Use a hint. [Read: How to tell if a girl doesn’t like you – 25 signs you should never ignore]
17. She never flirted.
Even friends can flirt sometimes. If only there was a slight hint of the sexual chemistry between the two people. Flirting is inevitable! If a girl is playing a joke on you There will be teasing at the buck. funny comeback and sexual innuendo between the two of you
But if she sees you as a friend and nothing more. You can clearly express flirtatious opinions. And she continues to respond with polite, boring words because she doesn’t know you’re flirting with her *or she doesn’t want to encourage you*.
18. You’re a Friend
Has she ever introduced you to someone else? what does she say about you If she likes you or is thinking of dating you for a minute. She may introduce you by name without elaborating on your relationship status. Unconsciously, she wanted to open up her options.
But if you are in the friend zone safely She’ll highlight the word “friend” as she introduces you. even if there is no reason whatsoever [Read: She rejected you but still acts interested? Here’s how to read her mind]
19. Use you for attention.
This is the part that can be confusing for any guy. Do you guys make it out or are you clearly stepping out of your friend zone by sleeping together? She seems interested, right? Not always!
when you sleep with someone This does not guarantee that the person will be interested in a real relationship with you. Maybe she wants a casual relationship. or friends with benefits Or maybe she’s bored, horny, and just wants someone to sleep with.
Don’t assume that women like you or play hard to sleep with you. Especially if you see many of these signs. It might be something she regrets doing. or worse She might even do it for attention. So beware of this sign. unless you want to be heartbroken [Read: 15 signs she’s leading you on and taking you nowhere]
20. She tells you that she doesn’t care about you.
Is it hard to play? If a girl tells you that she’s not interested in you, accept it. She may tease you or respond vaguely when you invite her over. But if a woman clearly tells you that she has absolutely no interest in dating you. That is a denial. and you should accept that
The difference between playing hard to get hit and being rejected
Hard play is a fun and interesting game for girls and boys too. but as a man Don’t assume that a woman is playing hard to win her heart. When she makes it clear that she isn’t interested in being with you.
To be honest, if a girl is playing hard on you. you will know for sure You will enjoy the chase. You will feel the thrill of chasing a flirtatious girl. and you will see the progress And you will love every moment of the game.
On the other hand, if she doesn’t play hard and doesn’t care about you in the slightest. You will find yourself frustrated and annoyed and very confused.
learn to tell the difference Then you will know for sure every time. Is she playing too hard? if you feel overwhelmed Maybe it’s time to find someone who likes you and isn’t afraid to show it off.