When you open up and fall in love You think you’re falling in love with a man. But what if he turns out to be an underage child?
The last thing I want when I start dating someone is to end up being a babysitter and not a girlfriend. but for some reason This has happened to me time and time again. I don’t know if it’s due to maternal qualities or just attracting needy and childish men. But I seem to be very attached to them.
Now don’t get me wrong I’m not a spoiled woman who thinks that a guy who knows how to have fun is automatically considered a man, but only if ‘fun’ is taken to that level. 8 First year would be fun and I’m definitely in trouble.
What is a man?
as well as Urban Dictionary The definition of a man is a man who is immature to the point of being considered a child. By ‘underage’, I mean that this man cannot take care of himself in any form or form.
For some reason, it seems that there is an epidemic of manhood that is threatening the world. Since our generations don’t emphasize the need to grow up and become ‘male’, some people seem to never really age anymore, while older generations need to act together before they turn 16 and grow. climb [Read: Avoid them like the plague – 16 types of guys who are just not worth dating]Are you dating a man?
for the sake of women everywhere You should act when you know you’re dating a guy. Don’t let him invade your life and continue with childish antics. If you’re not sure if your guy’s manly qualities are annoying or not. Here are some signs to be aware of and what you can do to fix them.
#1 He never cleans himself. Just like in EVER, the guy who threw dirty dishes in the sink without even washing them. and let it rot there for several days until you finally have enough food. Nothing more than your average man.
#2 He didn’t even know how to clean himself. And if he doesn’t clean himself not because he is lazy but because he doesn’t know how to wash the dishes or even a sink He is still a man. [Read: Is you boyfriend lazy and boring? Fix him up for good!]#3 He expects you to do ‘girl’ stuff. If your boyfriend plays the harp for you to cook, clean, do the laundry, and other ‘girls should do’ tasks that he’s not under the age of.
#4 He’s freaked out if he doesn’t get in the way. Like a toddler will throw everything they are holding and lie on the floor and scream until you give them what they want. He couldn’t cope when life in general didn’t meet all of his needs.
#5 He could not cope with constructive criticism. A man can’t take it when people tell them how they can do better. In an immature mind They are the best at everything. So he collapsed for a while after constructive criticism.
#6 he was never wrong If arguing with your boyfriend is completely useless because he never sees your side, he is always right. Shows that you might be dating a guy. [Read: Annoying boyfriend habits that most girls experience in a relationship]#7 Any kind of game brings out his ugly side. Forget booze, board games, and even a good game of Frisbee, because if he loses or even win He will be a painful loser. or is a victor who is insulted
#8 He only thinks about himself. Selfishness is an important characteristic of a man. Their inability to think of anyone in any given situation is just proof that they are immature. [Read: Selfishness in relationships and 15 ways to deal with it the right way]#9 He didn’t know how to deal with his finances. If he spends money left and right without tracking or even able to pay. Show that you are dating a man
#10 He lets his mom treat him like a child. To be honest, I have to say about 50% of the responsibility for a man to become a man. It’s the way his mother treats him.
#11 He cannot be held accountable for his actions. A man is someone who always has a scapegoat for everything. They are never wrong and cannot be wrong. Either they blame others or even some technology for malfunctions. He wasn’t the one who made a mess. [Read: 16 abusive relationship signs of a devious lover]#12 His friends and hobbies prevail over you. If you’re the last when it comes to his friends and hobbies. It shows that you are dating a man who is clearly too immature to deal with the reality of the relationship.
#13 He talks big games… and almost never follows. He may speak rudely. He may promise you great things. But what if he never or rarely did what he intended? he is a man
#14 He never plans for his future. Does he have a retirement plan? Does he have a spare savings account for emergencies? He even knew what he wanted to accomplish next time. 5 Year? if not then It shows that he is too young to realize that these things are important to adults to be supervised.
#15 He puts you in front of you and his friends. If your boyfriend really insults you and puts you in front of your friends – especially your friends – he does it to make himself look better. This is the trait most commonly seen among the 10-year-old bullies. Good luck with your son. [Read: 21 subtle signs of emotional abuse you may be overlooking]#16 His friends have the qualities of being a man. Do his friends have the same personality? The more people’s friends How much is one man? The more likely he was to be one. [Read: Your man’s annoying friends and how to deal with them]#17 If he gets sick, it’s the end of the world. Does he really act like a child when he is sick? He might just have a cold. but in his eyes It was the worst thing to hit the world since the bubonic plague.
#18 He expects you to handle all the ‘adult’ affairs. Paying bills, getting dressed, going shopping, etc., if your boyfriend will do anything for you to take care of. He was clearly a man who couldn’t deal with aspects. of adult life
#19 He is not sensitive in bad situations. No matter what the situation or the level of violence He didn’t care if it didn’t affect him or not. Boys are not compassionate people. So it doesn’t matter if hundreds of people die from mass shootings or explosions every year or not.
#20 He cannot do stable jobs. Does your boyfriend have to constantly find work because he will be fired or quit in just a few months? if so It could be a sign that he is manly because he is unable to follow the rules and maintain a stable job. [Read: 10 types of guys you need to stop dating if you want real love]The Fix – Turn your man into a man.
Manly repairs are not easy. It can take a long time for them to grow into true adults, however, there are some ways to hurry.
#1 patient I say this first because mending can be a long and frustrating process. Use it every day and remember to stay calm. If you really care about him and want to be with him Be patient with his changes. [Read: The 3 big reasons why a man feels emasculated and behaves like a manchild]#2 communicate with them You have to tell them what they are doing and how it affects you. They don’t even realize they’re underage. Make sure they know how you feel and tell them often. So they are always reminded that they need to change something.
#3 Use incentives for change If talking to them is not enough You might need to be serious about them. Now, they might not accept this at first. but you will have to try Tell them if they can’t grow and work together. You may need to move on. It’s a cruel incentive. but also sincere to its core
[Read: 25 signs and qualities that make a guy a really good boyfriend]If you are dating a man I am really sorry They are difficult to manage and even more difficult to fix. But with these signs You are dating a man and how to solve that problem. You may soon be free from the attitude that hinders them.
