They say good friends are rare. So how do you spot a bad friend? Real friends vs fake friends let’s fight!
What’s the difference between real friends and fake friends? It’s not that hard, all you have to do is pay attention to their actions. Eventually, someone’s true intentions will show. However, you have to catch them early. This way, you can remove this person from your life. you can You don’t need it! They weren’t your true friends in the first place.
So if you’re wondering about the true intentions of the two people around you, That’s already a signal. But if you want a more concrete answer. Here’s how to differentiate between real and fake. [Read: The signs telling you you have a toxic friend]
Real Friends vs Fake Friends – 21 Ways to Remember Real Friends
Growing up, we tend to have a lot of friends around us. and it’s great You have people to hang out with. let’s laugh too But as you get older, things change. Your friends seem to disappear and take their own lives. This is just part of life. You can’t be friends with everyone. But sometimes the friends we choose are not around us with our fullest intentions.
They might just be using you for a good time. or to help them score The point is, they really don’t care about you. There will always be fake people trying to follow.
1. You feel it in you.
Your gut is telling you something for a reason, and what it’s telling you is that this person is untrustworthy. If you feel uncomfortable talking to someone who claims to be your friend. That’s probably why you’re not careful. Don’t overlook it because it’s right. If you feel that someone is fake show that it is fake [Read: The shallow traits a superficial friend just can’t hide]
2. A true friend will be there when you hit the bottom.
Your life will not always be high. Sure, you’re going to have a great time. But there were also lows. Now any of your friends were there to celebrate. But if you’ve reached the bottom and they’re not there. That’s not a true friend.
A true friend will go through bad times with you, by your side. [Read: Good friends are like stars: How to build last friendships]
3Fake friends treat you differently around certain people.
They might be nice to you when you’re alone. but when others join They will be completely different. That’s a sign of a fake friend. They shouldn’t treat you differently if they’re around people or not because they shouldn’t care. Fake friends will be nice to you when they want something.
4. They talk behind your back.
Okay, we all tend to do this. If we are angry with friends we will talk to other people that’s normal But what if someone is talking about you in a negative light with the intent to spread rumors and have others change their attitude towards you? that’s not a friend If you care about someone You’ll never say bad things about him.
5. Fake friends will envy your success.
Of course, unless it benefits them. But if you get a new job with a higher pay. They will talk badly about it. Of course they will celebrate. if you pay But they are not very satisfied with the success you have made. If you’re trying to figure out the difference between a real friend and a fake friend. Always remember that true friends are truly happy for you. [Read: 13 signs of bad envy you’ll see when someone is jealous of you]
6. True friends are kept secret.
If you tell someone a secret The point is that they shouldn’t be disclosed to anyone else. Fake friends will take that secret and use it for their personal gain. While true friends will shut up and respect the fact that you share personal things with them.
7. A true friend accepts you for who you are.
Real friends don’t care about what you wear or wear. They love you for who you are. You don’t have to show up or dress up in any way to impress them. Because that’s not the meaning of friendship.
8. Fake friends call you when they need you.
Calling someone to see how they are and then calling someone when you only need something are two different things. Fake friends may socialize with you on Facebook or Instagram, but they only want to see you when they want something from you. [Read: How to end a friendship like a grown-up]
9. A true friend forgives you.
Everyone makes mistakes, and yes, maybe you made a big mistake. But a true friend will forgive you. They are not interested in tormenting you or using your guilt as a weapon against you. A true friend will accept your apology and stay by your side.
10. Fake friends don’t like the word no.
Now, who likes to hear the word ‘no’? But that’s not the point. Fake friends will take the extra step not to hang out with you if you don’t give them what they want. True friends may not like hearing the word ‘no’, but they will continue to hang out with you.
11. Real friends give you time.
Listen, you may have 2 thousand Facebook friends, but how many of them can you call when you want to go to the movies or have coffee? maybe two or three True friends have time for each other. Yes, we all lead busy lives. But you can always find time to drink coffee. [Read: 14 ways to instantly recognize fake people and stay away]
12. A true friend respects your opinion.
We all have our own opinions. whether it is political or religious beliefs But that doesn’t mean you can’t be friends with people who think differently than you. If anything, it adds more excitement to the friendship. True friends respect your opinion, even if they disagree with you. The world is full of different opinions and ideas. [Read: 15 ways to get yourself the friends you want]
13. Fake friends don’t care what you say.
They don’t care because they don’t respect your opinion. If they hang out with you but never really listen to what you have to say. It’s because they don’t appreciate you. We all have friends who don’t seem to listen at all. whether they are zoning or talking on the phone. This is because they don’t care.
14. A true friend believes in your thoughts.
A true friend will listen to your ideas, support you, and constructively critique if needed. They won’t tarnish your shine or tell you that your idea isn’t worth it. However, fake friends will. Even if the idea is great. They don’t want you to stand out from them. [Read: Bad friends: 25 types of friends you MUST unfriend from your life]
15. Fake friends will seduce you realistically.
The reason why arguments between fake and real friends resonate is that it is sometimes difficult to differentiate. That’s because fake friends are very good at manipulating. They will give you a cold shoulder and you won’t know why. Maybe they won’t reply to your messages for days and it makes you worry about what you said that offended them. A fake friend can go as far as setting a fire. [Read: What does it mean when someone ignores texts on purpose?]
16. Fake friends always make excuses.
We know that a true friend is always by your side as much as possible. But a fake friend will be an excuse handler. Sick dog. I’m so tired. my cat is gone I have to work late *And later you see them tagged in social media bar* You can’t rely on fake friends. [Read: 15 signs you have shitty friends and need to get some new ones]
17. A true friend makes you feel comfortable with yourself.
When you are close to true friends You’ll know you’re supported and feel comfortable. When you’re with a fake friend You tend to guess yourself repeatedly. and feel that you want to be someone else That’s one of the best ways to find out if you’re dealing with good or bad.
18. When you’re with real friends You can’t do anything and still enjoy it.
Fake friends are on the agenda. They want or need something from you. You can sit in comfy clothes, watch TV, and still laugh and talk about fun things. [Read: 32 crazy things to do with friends: life is short, live it up!]
19. You don’t know your fake friend at all.
Fake friends don’t always show their true self. That’s because they put the front around you, so you don’t know the little details about them. You don’t know what their mother’s name is or where they went to school. True friendship isn’t all about the details. But at least it happened in the conversation.
20. A true friend has no problem looking stupid to cheer you up.
This might sound weird, but bear with me. True friends don’t care what other people think of them or what they look like if they know you need encouragement. They will happily fool themselves when they see the smile on your face, fake friend? Not so much! [Read: How to cheer someone up: 18 ways to help them feel awesome again]
21. Your real friends will automatically know who is fake.
If you have a close friend who doesn’t immediately like a new person in your life, trust him. Of course, sometimes people don’t click. But it’s usually someone beyond our awareness who can tell what really happened. Good friends don’t care if you have more friends than them. So if they tell you that someone isn’t right for you. to listen to them[Read: How to enrich your life and build real friendships]
when you meet real friends keep them close to you but before that You have to figure out who your real friends are and who your fake friends are.