Being in a loving relationship is a good feeling. But how can you be sure it’s real and not just a relationship of comfort?
when you are really in love You’ll feel like you’re floating in the air. In fact, you really never know. what is the intention of others You might be in a relationship with someone who tells you they love you. But how do you know they really love you? Is it possible to be in a relationship of comfort and ignorance?
I don’t want to make you paranoid here. Trust me that’s the last thing I want. But I’m just pointing out that for some people A relationship of comfort is what your partner needs at this time in their lives. It could be true. [Read: How to know when you’re in love: 50 signs you can’t ignore]
A unilateral relationship of comfort is not a strong union. I should point out that if both of them are enjoying a casual relationship, That is, there is no determination for the future and you get what you both want from it, so go for it.
If you are planning a future of happiness and contentment And your partner doesn’t look any further than the next few days. You may be heading towards heartache in the long run. [Read: Signs of indifference in a relationship that could point to a real drift] If you think you’ve found someone you can really build your future with. And they’re just in it for the company or anything else. It won’t be what you want. And you will be wasting your time in vain.
What is the relationship of comfort?
There are several types of relationships that fall under this category. A relationship of comfort can be a legal issue, for example, when someone wants to marry a citizen of a particular country to stay there. * I am not a valid advocate. I’m just pointing out that it happened!* [Read: How to tell if you’re n a low key relationship or a secret affair]
A relationship of comfort may be because two people don’t want to be alone. They don’t want to be together long term. But now they need someone who can do activities together, such as going out and sexually fulfilling.
Again, keep both sides on the same page. Communication is important! [Read: The 12 new relationship boundaries all new couples should draw]
Pros and Cons of Comfort Relationships
Everything in life has its pros and cons. For some, the idea of being in a relationship like this isn’t something they want to entertain. For others, the idea can be totally interesting. It’s a personal deal and something that requires careful consideration.
The advantages of being in this type of relationship are:
– Someone to relate to
– No obligation and no obligation No specific future plans you just live in the present [Read: 11 delightful things I learned from no strings attached]
– lack of loneliness
– A support network with no relationship requirements
– Suitable for those who do not want a serious relationship at this time in their life.
– How to achieve the sexual desires of both parties
The downsides of being in a comfort relationship are:
– Develop feelings for your partner
– Relationships like this are not meant to last forever.
– You missed meeting someone who might want a real relationship with you.
The biggest problem is the lack of real communication. Both parties must really be on the same page. If anyone changes their mind or if a feeling arises The conversation had to take place. This can be difficult. And partners who develop those feelings may feel embarrassed or afraid to “shake the boat” if this happens. pain on the horizon [Read: Lack of communication in a relationship & why it signals the end]
If two people really don’t want to be in a relationship It’s okay to marry like this. If there must be regular communication in that matter. But relationships have creeping habits, especially when it comes to sex.
In the end, whenever one partner starts to feel more than the other. and if the other party does not want the same relationship in the future It’s time to leave no matter how painful it is. [Read: The steps to better communication in a relationship]
Is the relationship of comfort healthy?
Relationships never fall under constant rules. What suits one person does not suit another. And there is no clear explanation about ‘normal’ being normal for one person. It’s definitely not normal for another person. And it’s totally unacceptable! This fact is what makes the world interesting in many ways. We are all different and have very different perspectives because of this.
Consider what you really need. and where you see yourself in the future you want a long term relationship Is it a true bilateral relationship based on love and respect? In that case, is the relationship of comfort right now something you should be involved in? Will it block the way for The One to come to you? [Read: How to find the right person for you when you’ve given up hope]
Of course, maybe you don’t want to be in any relationship at all. Maybe you’re perfectly happy to be single, and you’ve never seen yourself with someone else. 2.4 children and white picket fence All of them are perfect too. If the other party thinks the same Relationships of comfort may give you benefits, such as sexual satisfaction and companionship. that you may be missing while maintaining your independence
Is it healthy? This varies from person to person.
Signs that you are in a relationship of comfort
How do you know if you’re in a convenient relationship? Let’s say you’re someone who doesn’t want a half-hearted relationship, you’ll want to know the signs so you can figure it out and get out before you get too entangled. [Read: 13 signs you’re emotionally attached and falling hard for someone]
#1 You have the feeling that something isn’t right. listen to your gut It won’t get you too wrong! If you just feel like they’re looking for something other than love. You have the right to doubt
#2 They’re not there when you need them. A partner who truly cares for you will be there for you when you need it. You must be wondering why
#3 You weren’t introduced to their family and friends. There are many reasons you may not have known their closest and dearest ones before. But if it’s been a while and nothing has changed It could be a sign of a comfortable relationship.
#4 They don’t seem completely connected to you. When someone is completely disinterested and they are in a relationship for something else. They are totally never going to ‘click’ on you. you can feel it [Read: How to recognize a soul connection when they walk into your life]
#5 They tend to talk about one thing a lot. If they talk a lot about money Could it be that they are with you for financial gain? Not always, but it is possible! If they talk about sex a lot, is that what they want? When it comes to social status? The list goes on
#6 open and close relationships many relationships hiccup But you often don’t notice other signs along the way. a couple of things and this signal too That’s a pretty clear indicator of the comfort relationship.
#7 You’re not really talking about the future. A relationship like this really doesn’t have a future, and if it did, it wouldn’t be true. If you’re not talking months and years to come, it’s because you didn’t see it happen, right? [Read: How to fall out of love when you see no future]
#8 They don’t care what you say/what you think. If your partner really doesn’t care about your opinions, feelings, or thoughts. Is that because they are not investing for the right reasons?
#9 Your relationship is not going anywhere. All relationships move at different speeds. But what if your relationship doesn’t seem to be going anywhere? Will there be movement?
#10 There is a clear lack of passion. When there is no emotional connection Passion is not alive and well. In this case, what is the point of staying?
#11 You basically live separately. couples grow up together That doesn’t mean they’re always there for each other. But there is some unity. If you are living separately Maybe because it’s a relationship of comfort. [Read: 12 real reasons why couples drift apart over time]
#12 You tend to be cold. in a convenient relationship One party is mostly cold. That could be emotional or sexual. How full do you feel?
#13 People have questioned your relationship before. Okay, people talk and it doesn’t always mean anything. But what if more than one person says they think you’re being used? You have to be serious
red flag relationship
There is one anomaly that I have to mention here, which is actually a huge red flag. What if you had a relationship that wasn’t supposed to be for convenience? But in the end it’s like that for you. What if you used to love this person but you’ve been together for so long that you don’t feel the same? Your needs and wants in life change. In that case, are you around for convenience? [Read: Stagnant relationship: Has your relationship come to a standstill?]
That’s a completely different situation. and situations that need to be corrected
Don’t be in a relationship just because it’s comfortable. Just stay because it’s what you really need. Whether it’s a ‘normal’ type or a convenient relationship. Stick to the origin and be true to yourself.[Read: Why you shouldn’t ignore these 17 relationship red flags]
A comfort relationship can be a good choice for some couples. And it’s a bad choice for others. It all depends on personal choice. Communication is an important step in ensuring that you both understand each other.