You just exchanged numbers with your crush—great! But before you start texting him. Here are some rules for texting a guy.
You finally exchange numbers with the guy you have a crush on. It’s a pretty big step. Who knows what will happen! when you like someone doing things Being too serious and putting unnecessary pressure on yourself is easy. These men texting rules will help you navigate and get the answers you need!
i love this man so much And texting him tortured me. I would re-read my message a thousand times and double-check with my friends if what I said was funny or witty. It was exhausting. If I was more self-assured and didn’t put my crush on a podium, what? will disappear a lot smoother[Read: How to be emotionally independent and stop using others for happiness]
13 rules of texting men that make a difference
you have his number But that’s just the beginning. However, your experience doesn’t have to end like mine. I hope it doesn’t. So I’ve included a few rules for texting a guy to help you text him successfully. You don’t have to strictly follow them. But it’s a good guideline to follow when you feel like you’re in your head.
Just remember that he is human. he is just like you Don’t assume that he is above you. Because he’s not. Let’s go. [Read: Totally crushing? Must-know secrets to text a guy you like]
#1 Remember he’s just a man. You’re here for help. I get it. I do the same thing when I’m single. I need advice and help when it comes to men. but you have to remember he’s just a man
Don’t assume that he is above you. You don’t have to be too serious, just be comfortable and considerate. [Read: How to stop being shy around your crush and get their attention]
#2 Send him a message based on his efforts. This is something that tends to do more than what other people do when it comes to texting. If we like someone We will try to text them in the morning and ask them how they are doing. It’s not a bad thing But he must meet you halfway.
If he doesn’t text you Just don’t text him. If he gave a one-word answer Why are you asking him questions to get to know him? give what he gives you
#3 Do you enjoy chatting? This is something you should check for yourself. You are talking to the guy you like. But do you really enjoy the conversation? It’s easy to become obsessed with this guy’s thoughts without you realizing it. Then you don’t like him as much as you think. Is there a connection? be honest with yourself [Read: Falling for someone? The biggest signs of an emotional connection]
#4 You don’t have to text him eight hours later. I know you want to look like you’re so busy. So you text him later. You really don’t need to do that. You don’t have to text him 30 seconds after he texts you.
Text him when you feel like texting him. There are no rules in this regard. do what feels right Not because you want him to think that you… so unavailable.
#5 Don’t think too much about your message. I know you want to text him. perfect message, but that doesn’t mean you should sit on the message for 20 minutes before sending it. Whatever you want to say, just say it. The point is, what you want to say must be true to you. If he doesn’t understand the joke or doesn’t agree with what you’re saying, that’s fine.
#6 You don’t need to play games. We are taught that playing games is the only way to get a guy to like us. But that’s not true. You don’t have to play games to get a guy to like you. If he likes you for you I don’t have to play games [Read: Why playing hard to get with a guy is pointless]
#7 don’t be impatient You want to hang out with him and that’s great. If you invite him out and he can’t go, that’s fine. Don’t rush and pressure him to do something. If he chooses to go on a date with you, that’s great. If he doesn’t want it, don’t waste your time.
#8 you don’t always need to talk Yesss, can you say it again for the people behind you? You don’t have to talk to each other all the time. It’s okay to talk every other day or every three days. Constant communication doesn’t always mean you’ll be more connected. The disappearance caused the heart to swell. It’s slashing, but it’s true. [Read: How guys text when they like you – 15 things they do differently]
#9 Know when to end a conversation You don’t have to talk to him day and night. It’s okay to end the conversation and move on with your life. If you feel like the conversation is about to run out. end the conversation You can start the conversation again that day or the next day. That’s fine; Silence is not a bad thing.
#10 Focus on your tone. When it comes to texting Miscommunication is easy because we cannot see the other person’s face while they are speaking. So it’s easy to mistake a sentence for something other than what it is. Read your message out loud to double check if there’s a chance he’s misunderstood.
#11 Go easy on emojis. everyone likes emojis But you don’t need to have your message be an entire emoji. When someone sees a message like that… it didn’t open at all Use emojis to express sarcasm or jokes. But don’t be crazy about them. use it reasonably Whether the message is for the guy you like or not.
#12 Don’t keep relationships by text. If you like this guy You wouldn’t want to keep this relationship solely on the message. You want the relationship to develop and grow into something. So after a while Focus on trying to meet up for coffee or dinner. If you like him, it’s not wrong to ask him out on a date. [Read: How to ask a guy out over text and get the answer you want]
#13 If you don’t like him, let him know. You might even text him and realize that he’s not really the right person for you. this is normal; You don’t have to fall in love with every guy you talk to. But the sign of your maturity is letting him know how you feel. It’s hard to tell someone that you’re not interested in them. But it reduces the chances of the game being played.[Read: Why you shouldn’t ghost someone and the 5 situations where it is okay]
When it comes to knowing the rules for texting a guy. There are really no concrete rules. But there are some things you can do to help you get where you want to go.