Just because two people are in a relationship doesn’t mean there is a valid reason. Are there any signs of a relationship of comfort or true love?
People enter relationships for a variety of reasons. Of course, we all want to experience a feeling of true love for one another. Sometimes that’s not the case. People feel lonely and just want someone. Others want marital status. Do you see any signs of a relationship of comfort in your life?
I’m not judging because I think we all have moments when we just want to be with someone regardless of who the other person is. In high school, I really wanted a boyfriend. I didn’t care who the guy was. Just want to know how you feel about someone. Like I said, I didn’t date anyone until I was eighteen.
13 Relationship Signs of Comfort
There are moments when you have to be true to yourself and dig deep to find out what you want out of your life. Okay, of course, you can date a guy or a girl. Finding someone to be with is not difficult. [Read: How to start living life on your terms]
But you don’t just want anyone. You want someone you can contact with. The people you love and love you in return, so I think it’s time to start figuring out if you’re in a relationship for the right reasons. In the long run, if you’re with someone to kill time and vice versa. It’s not worth it
Let’s take a look at the signs of a relationship of comfort. This way, you can decide if the relationship you have is right for you.
#1 You feel that something is off. you know when you love someone Can you describe the feeling? That’s a good question, it’s hard to answer. Okay, yes, there’s something scientific that you feel when you’re in love. but vice versa You just know it’s love The most obvious sign of a comfortable relationship is that you don’t feel that way. You feel empty and that’s not love. [Read: How to split the casual from real love]
#2 You don’t pay attention to each other. Of course you spend time together But you didn’t go out to meet them. And they won’t go out of their way to meet you if you have a plan. might Ask you too, they probably won’t. And when it comes to your plans You won’t change anything to make time to look at those plans.
#3 You’ve broken up before. You’ve had a break before, and maybe you know dating sucks. So what will happen? You get back together, however, not because you really miss each other. Just because you don’t like dating You don’t want to be single and have to deal with small talks. Plus having sex is normal. So why are you giving up on that? [Read: Why you shouldn’t invest time in an on-off relationship]
#4 All your friends were taken away. Sometimes we feel pressured when all our friends are in a relationship. You and your partner both have friends that are already in a relationship. And being together makes things easier. Friday nights there’s no wandering around looking for someone to go out with. You don’t have to be the third wheel. everything is going well
#5 no future talk when you are in love You are planning the future together for the next twenty years. That’s what love makes you do. It makes you do crazy things. You don’t plan what to eat for dinner, are you getting married? Moved in together? Yes, those subjects had never been thought of before.
#6 You don’t see their family or friends. They don’t see you either. basically You keep your personal life separate. You don’t see their family. They don’t see your family. If you can avoid having dinner at your parents’ house You should do that, but why? if it is love Do you want to be by your lover’s side? You don’t want to support? [Read: 16 signs you’re clearly not ready for a serious relationship]
#7 Your partner doesn’t go out of your way for you. miss you too You don’t seem to sacrifice for each other, and I’m sorry, but when have you ever heard of a love that isn’t about sacrifice? If it’s true love, you must be willing to sacrifice!
#8 relationship not moving didn’t back down Just don’t move It becomes stagnant, you have a routine, comfortable, but no progress. A good relationship should progress. There is often a time when relationships reach a plateau. but mostly Couples often make plans for the future to keep things going. [Read: The 9 relationship stages all couples go through]
#9 everything is easy Too easy, no frills, no chases, nothing. You give them a bare minimum. They give you the bare minimum. Everyone just invests the basics in the relationship. This is not something you do if you are serious about someone. If you want someone, you have to give everything, no 1%.
#10 You don’t say three magic words. You haven’t told each other ‘I love you’ even after being together for a while. Those words never come out of your mouth. Maybe it’s because you never thought about your partner that way. You don’t love your lover. If you love, you won’t be able to keep those words. [Read: When should you say ‘I love you’ for the first time]
#11 No compromises. when you are in a relationship There are many compromises. You and your partner are the exception and manage not to compromise on anything. Sounds good at first, but it’s not. You might be single if you’re not willing to compromise. If so, then you’re not in a relationship for the right reasons.
#12 You decide for yourself. your partner too You don’t sit down and talk about things, make decisions together. This is what healthy couples do. They sit down, talk about serious things. and decide together Of course, they might argue along the way. but the point is They are making decisions together and respecting each other’s feelings. [Read: The signs it’s time to say goodbye – even if it’s hard]
#13 Cheating doesn’t look so bad. When you hear about people cheating on each other you won’t feel bad At first you will be shocked and saddened. Now you don’t see it as a bad thing. And that’s not a sign of love. That’s the signal you need to move on.[Read: How to recognize true love when you feel it]
No one wants to see these signs of a relationship of comfort in their lives. You want to be with someone because you really love them and they love you. What about your relationship status? True love or just a waste of time?