Maybe you’re the one who’s obsessed with you, or maybe they’re obsessed with you. until you know the signs of obsession You won’t even know
Sometimes love and obsession turn into a blur. You have to understand the signs of obsession to know how you feel. Of course, if you said you loved Justin Bieber, that would be more of an obsession. *Excuse me believers* And it’s pretty easy to understand. You can’t love someone you don’t know. Unless you meet Justin and have dinner with him—I’m sorry.
However, sometimes when we get to know someone and start to like them. Our feelings are starting to… intense… too, Edward Cullen, if you understand me. Being obsessed with someone or having someone obsessed with you is amazing. like being in a teen drama But is that what love is? Of course it is not
Signs of obsession to watch out for
Maybe you don’t think you’re obsessed. Maybe you thought it was normal to call them 50 times a day—no. If you think the approval for what you’re wearing tonight is that they use styling techniques—no, so whether you’re obsessed or someone is obsessed with you. You need to know the signs
Obsession is picture perfect… at first. Pay attention to these signs of obsession and take care of your heart.
#1 you feel that something is wrong If you read this You already know that something isn’t right. You feel bad about the whole relationship, which is great. if you can feel You’ll know it’s happening right now. All you have to do is get yourself out of it because this feeling won’t go away. [Read: How to let go of a relationship that’s bad for you]
#2 You don’t have any personal space. in a good relationship You don’t have to see him every day. Sometimes you just want to go to the beach alone or read a book in the bathtub. but to be near you all the time They need to know everything you do and make sure it doesn’t go against their plans. [Read: 7 secret and revealing signs of a bad relationship]
#3 privacy? What privacy? They have passwords for your social media and email. Because they need to know what you’re doing all the time. They have to make sure that you are not cheating on them. You don’t have any privacy anymore. they own you Your privacy, if you’re lucky, go to the bathroom alone.
#4 Jealousy to the extreme Jealousy is an exaggeration of how they feel. They don’t like it when people look at you. They don’t like if you’re dressed too sexy. To be honest, they want you to lock you in a potato sack at home. If you have friends of the opposite sex That just doesn’t work for them. They are insecure and unable to deal with any threats.
#5 They pull you away from your friends and family. They look cool with your friends and family at first. But after a while They will begin to pull you away from them. They don’t like your friends. Your family is bothering them. Or they feel that your parents don’t like them. All this is action. They are just playing victims to make you feel bad and stand by them. This means giving up friendship for them.
#6 They assume you cheated on them. If you don’t reply after fifteen minutes show that you cheat on him If you call back one hour after work show that you are cheating They don’t really believe what you say.
At first they were cool. everything is fine But after a while They started asking for your password. Start questioning who you talk to. They don’t trust you [Read: 20 things happy couples don’t do in a perfect relationship]
#7 They say “I love you” too soon. Oh yes of course they’re in love, it’s a day, but they know, they feel this is true love. You don’t even know how much they like their eggs in the morning. but they love you
If they pop this phrase out of nothing, that’s a problem. Some people really feel in love. It might not be true love.
#8 It’s all about protecting you. All they want to do is protect you. They don’t want you to go out with your friends tonight because they want you to be safe. They have to go to the mall with you because they don’t want you to be harassed. It all sounds sweet. But it’s nonsense. You can do whatever you want. And you don’t need to be protected unless you ask them for help.
#9 You are perfect…but There is always, but they tell you all the time how perfect you are. but also criticizes you for the little things, maybe you are beautiful But you should lose ten pounds. These types of people look for your weaknesses. by searching them They use it against you to control you and make you insecure so that you don’t leave them. [Read: 18 signs you’re being coerced into a controlling relationship]
#10 You feel like you are going crazy. This shows you that they are trying to control you and control you. If you feel like you’re not yourself anymore That’s because you are not. They try to suck everything out of you and turn you into your personal slave.
#11 They will “never let you go.” A guy sent me this message when I first met him. He said, “I’ll never let you go.” I met him twenty minutes earlier. After all, he was completely obsessed with me after one date. You might think this phrase is sweet, and it certainly is. But not after one date, believe me.
#12 Their dating history is blurry. Usually when you ask them about their dating history. They always talk about the way their ex is crazy. Don’t fall in love with that I mean, they might as well be mad because this person literally drives them crazy with their manipulative behavior. If this was the only word they would use to describe their partner. This is a big red flag. In other words… run.
#13 They stalk you. on social media They know everything about you. They know who commented on your profile picture. Who likes your picture the most? what you post When you post things they know everything This is one of the signs of obsession that you can’t ignore.
personally They go to the class you are in. Eat where they know you’re going. You see them everywhere, even if you never tell them. [Read: How to know if your relationship is toxic so you can get out fast]
#14 They intimidate you or yourself. because they are not safe So they feel that they can’t do anything without you. If you try to break up with this person, instead of saying, “Okay, I understand,” they’ll take turns and say how they want to kill themselves. Otherwise they won’t let you break up with him. that’s not love If so, of course, they will be sad and confused. but they will let you go[Read: The unhealthy effects of falling madly in obsessive love]
Now you know the signs of obsession. Are you obsessed or in love? Is your partner obsessed or in love? If you or a loved one is obsessed You have to take steps to leave a relationship because this won’t end well for everyone.