You really like this guy, but deep down, something signals trouble. can he use you It’s time to find out the signs you’re being used by men.
You probably know the saying that “Love is blind” while the cliché is true. Being in love is a miracle and everyone should have experience with it. But you want to share your love with people who appreciate and love you in return. Otherwise you’ll be in pain—and I swear I’ll go there myself and kick his ass! So please help me and remember these signs that you are being used by men.
How to tell the signs you are being used by men
when you really like a guy You will not always see what is happening in front of you. when talking about love You’ll be surprised at what you ignore or don’t see.
If you feel that something is wrong You might be right you are a woman You have instincts working for you. [Read: How to listen to your gut and give strength to your inner voice]
i am very romantic And you should be So don’t let this prevent you from finding love. You will find different types of men. both good and bad This is just part of life. Learn to immediately recognize these signs that you are being used by a man and discard him.
That way, you’ll feel a little hurt instead of a lot. It’s time to protect yourself. Look at the labels and assemble the puzzle pieces together.
Thank you next.
#1 you can feel You know when someone uses you. You feel that something is off. This feeling is there for a reason. Don’t ignore it. If you do, you’ll only hurt yourself. If you feel uneasy and doubt Your body is telling you something. This guy is lying about something. And if he lied to you now he will continue [Read: The hidden signs of a one-sided relationship we all choose to ignore]
#2 They are good when they want to be. He was very good at first, but now he’s only good when he needs something. If he treats you well and respectfully when he feels that way. Show that he is using you Relationships are not like that. Do you respect that person or not? If you notice that he is kind before asking for help. Show that he is using you
#3 You have a hard time saying no. usually you don’t have a problem but when you are near him You will be hard to deny when you are being used by someone They will use all the tricks in the book to manipulate you. If you find yourself fooling around with their tricks and end up doing whatever they want. they are using you [Read: 15 signs of manipulation you should never ignore]
#4 He likes to beg It’s the only thing you can really talk to him about. He demanded nothing but sex or favor. I know you want to help him because you like him. But if he asks you for help all the time He’s just deceiving you. All you have to do is stop feeling guilty and deny it.
#5 He calls you on time When you text or call him, the radio goes silent, but when he wants to contact you. He’s obsessed with calling or texting you. If he really cares He will answer your calls and texts like a normal person. maybe because he uses you He doesn’t see you as important. until the right time
#6 He doesn’t meet your needs. There are things you want to see or places you want to go. But he doesn’t do what you want. He totally ignores your needs and makes you feel like you’re there to serve him. And that’s because you are Your needs are not important to him. It’s important that you pay attention. his need [Read: 23 signs you’re dating a manchild and an immature prick]
#7 He gets angry when you don’t meet his needs. If you don’t do as he says, he will get angry and he will punish you. He will ignore your calls or messages. post things on social media and make you feel extremely guilty If he feels guilty for making you feel guilty and causing you to do things that you enjoy. It’s time to let him go. he is using you
#8 He calls only at night. This is a classic move and one of the most obvious signs that you are being used by men. He may tell you that he works a lot or that his days are very busy. But that’s nonsense. Unless you’re only asking for the days of the week, there’s no reason for him to call you at night only. In this case, he’s only using you for sex. [Read: 15 signs he just wants sex and is only using you for his enjoyment]
#9 he is hot and cold This is an old trick. but it still works everyone. It works really well in controlling someone’s mood because it makes the person work harder for attention and affection. He will ignore your calls and messages, but just When you think it’s over He’ll text you and ask you to hang out. He doesn’t want to hang out. he is playing games
#10 They use you to move forward. It could be flirting with your best friend or stealing your idea. All of which are signals to the user and the mastermind. You don’t need a guy like this. He will get worse over time. He has to go.
#11 He doesn’t give it back. You could cook him a romantic dinner or buy him a shirt that he wants. But he never did anything for you. He never took you out Buying you something small doesn’t have to be a big gesture. Even the smallest gesture shows that he cares. [Read: How to pull back in a relationship when you’re giving too much]
#12 He shows you what you have. When you are introduced to new people He will always guide you by talking about your things. have, It’s not who you are. You’re kind, funny, and smart… but he doesn’t think about those things. He likes the car you drive. house where you live and the people you know
#13 You pay for everything. Strange, right? whenever you go out He never seemed to have a purse with him. Pay attention to how many times you have to pay for things. because there will be a lot He might pay from time to time to make it seem like he cares. But if he’s smart He will let you do everything.
#14 He can’t remember the details. Your birthday has passed and he hasn’t called to wish you a happy birthday. He doesn’t remember the dentist appointment you had today or that your mother was sick. These are the little details that people who care about will remember. He doesn’t care. He’s just using you. This isn’t information given to him. [Read: How to stop being taken for granted of in your relationship]
#15 You feel that it is one-sided. when you talk to him he is there But he doesn’t really listen to you. I feel like I’m mainly talking to myself. That’s because you are He is not there to solve your problem. He is there for you to solve his problems.[Read: The ways guys will manipulate and control their girlfriends]
You know the signs that you are being used by men. So what do you think? It’s hard to admit that someone is using you. But if you think yes It’s time to say “next”.