You should be comfortable Or ready to show some serious love? Use these 16 signs to see if you’re ready for a serious relationship.
It’s not always your fault if you feel like you’re not ready for a serious relationship.
You may be dating someone who truly loves you, but as much as you try. There may be situations where you cannot truly fall in love with him. Even if you really like them and love dating them!
Have you ever been there?
Have you ever dated someone who looks perfect to you but you can’t see him or her as a long-term partner?[Read: 15 reasons why you may be getting bored with your relationship]
A serious commitment to love is not something you can force yourself to feel.
Sometimes it can be a clear case of cold feet before jumping. And at times, you may not be with the person who is the perfect other half of your puzzle.
But if you’re serious about romance, you have to learn to end up at some point.
Of course, you may encounter failures and bad relationships. But you have to remember You will not have any new lessons or experiences. about love If you’re too shy to give your heart to someone who wants to spend the rest of your life with you.
Are you just looking for excuses?
Why are you blocking yourself from falling in love, right? Do you tell people you’re not ready just because you have a checklist of secret likes and dislikes in mind when you’re looking for a mate?
and instead of looking ridiculous and cocky and reveal that you haven’t found the right person for you. Do you find it easier to tell everyone that you’re not ready to make serious commitments? [Read: The real reason behind why YOU can’t find love when everyone else can!]
If you secretly feel that way Don’t be fooled and convince yourself that you’re not really ready for love. The mind can be silly at times. And it can be very easy to fool! If you are looking for love But you haven’t found it yet. It’s not wrong, as long as you don’t close the door of love.
Do you fall in love all the time?
Although there were some people who held back all the time. But there are others who succumb to love within the first week or so. They are obsessed with new lovers. Driving up the wall thinking about the time we spent together. And fall in love in no time! [Read: 10 reasons why saying ‘I love you’ too soon sucks!]
It’s not fair to stay protective in a new relationship. but vice versa Being in love with each other early not good until you can’t differentiate between right and wrong until you are on the right track Go through the passion phase because it will only hurt you more! [Read: 9 easy tips – New relationship advice for that perfect start]
Are you ready for a serious relationship?
You can’t always predict whether your heart is ready for love or that your mind will be happier to immerse yourself in something that has been swinging for a while. But here are a few questions you can ask yourself to find out what your heart and mind desires. [Read: 50 relationship questions to test the compatibility of a new relationship instantly!]
16 Signs You’re Not Ready For Serious Love
Are you confused whether you are happier in love or happier just by short-term flipping from one lover to another? Here are 16 signs that can help you decode your mind better in no time.
#1 You think you’re not dating enough people. Do you feel it’s too early to commit to a special relationship? If you think you are too inexperienced to “pay” ?? in a serious relationship because you still have a lot of fun keep it simple Maybe you’re not ready for true love. [Confession: I want to be single again!]
#2 you are a fake in a new relationship Many people do not reveal their true selves and true thoughts because they fear that they may not like their true self? Are you one of these people? If you are not yourself around the people who love you. Just to please him with your perfect behavior. Both were not ready for serious commitment.
#3 Past disaster. You still have feelings for your ex. You are trying to move on. But you’re still tormented by the memories of your ex and the good times. that you both have in common If your ex dominates your current lover in your heart You have an old problem that needs to be fixed before you can move on. [Read: 13 secret signs your lover isn’t over their ex yet!]
#4 you did not develop in past relationships Have you learned a lesson or made a mistake about yourself? Even if mistakes in love only happen on one side But there are always lessons for both to learn, develop and improve themselves.
If you’ve always believed that you’ve always been right and that you’ve never been wrong in your past relationships. Shows that you still have a lot to learn. When you’re not reviewing your past relationships And correct yourself while learning about past romances. You’ll find yourself in one place all the time. [Read: 10 signs your past relationship is holding you back]
#5 You don’t feel compatible You like the person you’re dating, but there are some things that make you feel bad. And you both look too different to get past the love phase. [Read: The 9 relationship stages all couples go through]
#6 distraction Are you using the relationship just to distract you to ignore or overcome the big problems that are bothering you? A rebound relationship might work well here. As long as you show your intentions clearly from the beginning. [Read: 15 signs you’re in a rebound relationship and not a real one!]
#7 you are too free You don’t like the idea of having to *report* to someone every single day. A few hours about your address on the phone. You don’t like the feeling of having to meet someone or spend time with them. Even if you really enjoy being with them. You just love your independence. And when you’re dating someone You feel that your freedom is being taken away from you.
#8 serial dating You are a person who likes to go on dates. and really like it! You like the idea of falling in love. But it doesn’t seem like you’ll ever get past your infatuation with whoever you’re dating. The relationship started out perfectly. But when infatuation starts to leave the door you are the same! [Read: Is serial monogamy easier on the heart for many of us?]
#9 Two hearts. You’re dating someone you really like. But your mind is still attached to other people. And that seriously makes you feel guilty for having a new relationship. You might just come out of a relationship, or maybe you’re still in a flickering relationship with someone else.
If your mind confuses two people at once, wait a moment to decide on the right course before you commit to a serious relationship with one of them. [Read: Love triangles and its confusing complications]
#10 Rescue mission. You wouldn’t want to date someone just because they’re awesome. You want to date someone so you can save them from their problems! you are dating someone Not for living with that person. Instead, feel good about yourself as you save them from adversity or pain.
#11 No mood. You don’t feel the need to emotionally connect with someone. You stay calm when it comes to how you feel. And even if something hurts you or bothers you You should deal with it your own way. Instead of facing the situation with the people involved
If you are not in the mood It doesn’t matter who you fall in love with. But most of your relationships will fail. Because you will let everyone around you get offended because they don’t understand you for the people you love.
#12 That gaping gap. Do you fall in love with this person because you love them? Or are you dating this person in the hope that they will fill the emptiness you feel inside?
This is a lesson you must remember. You cannot truly love someone or appreciate them. unless you love yourself first Only when you feel complete from within You will see the good in others, otherwise you will only see the missing part of your own life in others. [Read: How your negative thinking is ruining your life for you]
#13 Pressure. You’re being forced into a relationship by friends or family who worry too much about you. Everyone around you probably thinks this person is right for you. And they might convince you that dating this person is the best decision you’ve ever made! Somehow, you don’t feel the same way about that person even if you’re in a relationship with them! [Read: 13 signs your friends are ruining your love life]
#14 You don’t follow them. You like a person, you flirt with him and even date them. But as long as you admire or desire them. You didn’t choose to try to pursue them. You don’t mind dating them if they’re chasing you. But you don’t really care to pursue them back It looks like you’re playing hard to get it. But chances are, you might not be too interested in them.
#15 Trust issues. You like this person, but no matter how hard you try You find him unreliable. Trust is the foundation of a perfect relationship, so if you can’t learn to trust them Show that you are not ready for a serious relationship with them. [Read: How to get over trust issues in your romance]
#16 Love isn’t important to you. You have nothing against the idea of having a serious relationship. But there are other things in life that are more important to you right now.
Even if your partner accepts the idea now that they’re not a high priority on your list of priorities. But they’ll change their minds over the next few months because no couple wants to be at the bottom of their partner’s priority list.[Read: 10 sure signs you’ve got the fear of commitment]
There is a fine line between casual relationships. with a serious relationship And if you see these 16 signs that you are not ready for the serious relationship in your life, to step back for a while At least until you feel like you’re ready to take the next step in love, otherwise you’ll hurt your partner and yourself!