Sleeping with someone for the first time can be a hit or miss. But follow these tips for carefree fun. It will be a hit every time
Don’t try to have the same level of sex life as the scenes you see in the movies. It’s not true. First of all, your focus is on the gender you have with someone new. you want it they want it It should be good… right? I’ll give you these tips and rules. which you can follow when you first sleep with someone new These tips will help you smooth the path and help you have good sex with your new lover in no time.
Sleep with someone new for the first time
When you’re having sex with someone for the first time, it can be difficult. Of course, there are moments when you meet someone. And everything seemed to be in place. Sometimes it’s really awkward and uncomfortable.
I can think of an experience or two that I have forgotten until now. Thanks for the reminder Except for all the jokes I know the first time you sleep with someone will not be like in a Hollywood movie.
Sex doesn’t have to be intimidating. But the first time can be quite confusing at times!
#1 relax. I know you’re nervous, trust me, everyone is a little nervous when sleeping with someone new for the first time. You want to impress them. You want them to enjoy the experience. It’s a normal feeling to have But if you are stressed and tense It will be uncomfortable for both you and your partner. Just take a deep breath and relax. [Read: How to free your mind and relax during sex]
#2 Don’t drink heavily. Listen to me and listen to me. Yes, you can drink to relax. But five or six drinks won’t do you justice. When you drink, it affects your sexual performance.
You probably know in Hollywood movies that people drink too much and go unconscious while having sex. Okay, that’s pretty accurate. So stay away from alcohol. [Read: Alcohols effects on sex and libido]
#3 Underwear that you feel sexy This goes for both men and women. I’m not sure if men have underwear that makes them feel sexy. But if there is, put it on. This is not necessary for the person you are sleeping with. but it’s up to you If you feel sexy for what you are You’ll feel more confident. Relax. Remember how I said relaxation was important? So wear your favorite underwear.
#4 Basic hygiene is cool. This is something that never goes out of style. Basic hygiene will go a long way in your life, trust me, if you want to have good sex. You have to feel and smell fresh. Take a quick shower if you can. Point perfume or cologne.
Do whatever you want to freshen up. Just do it. I know in some cases. You can’t and it’s okay.
#5 take care of your penis what i mean is Keep it neat and tidy below. I don’t care if you like to shave, not shave, or wax, whatever is convenient for you, do it. It’s important to treat your hair in a way that makes you feel sexy and clean.
#6 bring protection Do not whine at this trick! It’s really important, it’s me. need to emphasize the importance of prevention as it is especially important to the person you are having sex with for the first time. Make sure you bring protection just in case, otherwise you’ll have to stop and go to the store and that’s just a lot of buzz. [Read: How to be a condom know-it-all in 5 minutes]
#7 get to know them You want to get to know them sexually, so spend all your time in the world kissing them, fighting them. You can do this with clothes piece by piece. Take off each piece of clothing. This will drive your partner crazy if he’s in the mood. But that’s better, don’t rush, don’t have to.
#8 Focus on foreplay. If you’re sleeping with someone new for the first time, slow down. This is your first time with this person. So you want this experience to last forever. You don’t have to rush to have sex. Even though I know you want Take the time to build up the sexual tension. Get out, catch them, grab them, bite them. I know you can. Don’t worry about me now! [Read: 17 sexy foreplay moves to get anyone hot and horny]
#9 Go slowly. You have to go slow. Okay, you don’t. need sorry i look like mom But you should go slow Why do you have to rush? Many people complain that sex always happens very quickly. So be the one who slows it down. just take your time enjoy foreplay enjoy making it out and as it goes with the flow
#10 Communicate. If you don’t like what your partner does, tell them, I know it sounds weird. But you don’t have to tell them and sound like an idiot. Move your hand to the desired point. Show them what you like. Or ask them if they can try something else. This is the first time you guys don’t know what the other person is interested in.
#11 Don’t compare sex with your former partner. Really, that’s a bad move. When sex is over, don’t talk about your ex while cuddling. Nobody likes being compared to someone else’s partner. It was just word of mouth and disgusting. it will kill the moment [Read: Queefs, and 19 other embarrassing things that can go wrong while having sex]
#12 Forget what you look like. Look, when it comes to sex Don’t focus on your looks. Your partner doesn’t care what you look like right now. They are focusing on other things. The minute you start caring about your thighs or belly. You will lose yourself and disappear from that moment. [Read: How to get back your body confidence in the bedroom]
#13 Orgasm relief. Everyone wants an orgasm. And there are more egos involved in making your partner orgasm on the first try. But don’t mind that. Chances are it won’t happen. At least it’s not your first time sleeping with them. Now your goal is to connect with them and see what they want. Don’t focus on the big ‘O’.
[Read: First time naked with a lover? The common fears we all experience]Sex can be intimidating. If you’re sleeping with someone new for the first time. The pressure will blow your mind. But don’t worry, just relax. It will be great.