More fun! Threesomes are awesome. But that invitation can seem awkward. Here’s how to bring guests to your bedroom to triple the fun.
If you’ve never had three sexes You won’t know what you’re missing. Whatever one person can do, two people can do better. That’s what teamwork is all about. Think about how good one mouth makes you feel. Now imagine another pair of lips blended together.
But how to get there… Your bedroom is your private space. Unless you have regular threesomes. In which case you don’t need any instructions. Usually, your bed can accommodate up to two people. Extending an invitation can be extremely awkward for everyone involved. But that doesn’t mean it’s not worth it. [Read: 20 things you need to know about threesomes]
How to invite a third person to a threesome
Three sexes are at high risk. If it’s bad, it can put your relationship in jeopardy. And if your third is a friend There was also a friendship in the line. But nothing worth doing is easy. And no big reward can be obtained without risk. Follow our guide and your ménage à trois experience will be unforgettable.
#1 scoping So you agreed as a couple to try to bring three people. Before you start looking for candidates You have to set clear rules for what you want for your partner. And how satisfied are you with your partner doing with the third?
There is no correct way to do this. Every couple has their own preferences and genres that can’t be crossed. Bi- and bi-curious women always want to invite other women. but was not comfortable with her man touching another woman. Or maybe have sex with the other person but don’t kiss.
Couples bringing in a second man should be clear on whether they will have threesomes or whether the two gentlemen will focus exclusively on women. Another consideration is whether she wants to feel overwhelmed. A typical porn scene where two guys have sex with a girl isn’t what every woman is looking for. She may be, but you should know in advance if your girlfriend will want to double her face or she’s looking for something that. not more polite [Read: How to set up your threesome boundaries]
#2 Be a true friend. Threesomes are quite intimate. Therefore, it is common for many couples to turn to friends when looking for a third. Having someone you know you can trust helps build confidence. But it might be embarrassing to ask. And if everything doesn’t go well Friendships can become complicated or even end. The best way to approach a friend about dating you is to do it slowly and carefully.
Alcohol is a good social lubricant. So if you all drink Go out for a few drinks or better. Invite them over for dinner and serve them more wine, play a game of “never have” ?? It’s a great way to get people to open up about themselves. having a small party And inviting a group of people made it feel less uncomfortable. You may know from play that the person you’re interested in inviting is already having threesomes. [Read: 10 naughty drinking games to set the mood]
Try to ask your friend slowly. Give a hint and if you feel like you’re making them uncomfortable. To step back and keep the friendship. But if you feel like they’re open-minded, take a risk and ask. If you are inviting a woman A woman in a relationship might be easier to ask personally. The same is true for inviting men: have the male partner complete the request.
#3 Direct approach. If you’re thinking of inviting someone you don’t know very well as your third party. You can say it straight more than this no friendship on line So the worst case is they refuse. and you go on But you have to be more careful when bringing in strangers.
People often imagine meeting three people at a bar or club. And although it’s not easy But it’s not easy either. It will take a little luck. Increase your odds by going to a swinger night or at least a solo event. If you want to have a threesome The gay club is a great place to look. But it’s best to be a place where men and women go often.
And of course there is internet. Avoid sites where most people are looking for a serious relationship. Related and casual sex sites might work, but there are so many creeps and weirdos that it can be hard to find someone that won’t surprise you both. The best solution is a website like ok cupid Where most people are not looking for a one-time connection. But there are many that are open to more casual arrangements.
Whenever you meet someone online Take some time to get to know them. Make it clear what you want and make sure it fits the bill. Check who they are by video chat before you meet. and when you meet set in public Finding your third-person third may seem daunting, but it’s fun, and the results are worth it. [Read: How to find yourself a f*ck buddy]
#4 start slowly Even if you think you’ve met someone You don’t have to dive into three-way sex. Slowing down means being able to back off at any time. If anyone is uncomfortable Threesome with a reluctant partner is not a good experience for anyone. Only when everyone is on board is a wonderful time.
The first step can be to talk about sex. Tell a potential third person about your sex life and what interests both of you. This can be done in person or online. Take photos or videos of yourself having sex and showing them off. Do it manually only on your own phone or tablet. Do not send these digitally.
If talking about sex and showing off your dance moves gets everyone hot and intrigued. But you still don’t know if you’re ready or not. Invite them to look at it from a distance, speaking in a chair in the corner. Let them watch you make love This can be hot in itself. and if not uncomfortable Show that you’re ready for the real thing. Plus, they can join at any time when everyone agrees.
#5 Threesome fun for everyone Just as you have to set boundaries between you and your partner. It’s important that your third person knows these things as well. Take some time before you start telling them exactly what you want and what you don’t want. The only way it works is if everyone is enjoying themselves and no one feels uncomfortable. When that happens, congratulations, you’ve found three happiness! [Read: The basic rules of having the perfect threesome]
Threesomes are not easy to pull off. They use planning, preparation, and most importantly, trust. But the dedication to getting the job done right is worth it. A great threesome is an unforgettable experience. Start your planning today
