These movies and series always come up about searching for “The One”?? But how can you be sure you’ve found yours? Here are 18 ways to find out! by Lianne Choo
They say love at first sight is in beautiful love songs, chick movies, and lively novels. In today’s era with soaring divorce rates fast paced lifestyle and most of human communication online. It would be much better to consider it in more detail.
In fact, many experts agree that this is a smart thing to do. According to a blog published on economist, “Love at first sight really exists. But it’s not common for long-term relationships.”?? That quote shows that initial attraction doesn’t always lead to long-term coexistence.
The post also cited research conducted by Israeli psychologist Ayala Malack-Pines, saying that “a minority (11%) of people in long-term relationships said they started with love in the first place. see”?? That’s a very small number compared to 89% of other couples.
Even though it’s impossible to fall in love in the blink of an eye But it’s important to know the person inside and out before committing yourself to them. [Read: 14 most common reasons relationships fail]
One of the reasons divorce rates have skyrocketed in recent decades is because people today rush to get married without even thinking about it. Your future goals, personality, family life, career, etc. come into play in deciding who to spend the rest of your life with.
How do I know that our relationship will last forever?
Of course, you have to think about whether the person you’re with now is someone you can spend the rest of your life with. Still not sure which signal you should look for? Here are the top 18 things that tell you that your partner could truly be “The One”??
#1 you have been together for a long time They say that the longest lasting relationship is the one that gets the most attention. Decide if your partner is “The One” or not?? It becomes obvious if you’ve been together for a long time. The longer you know someone You’ll be more likely to identify if you’re together. [Read: 11 tips for a happily ever after]
#2 Your gut tells you so. Emotions aren’t the smartest way to determine if you’ve met “The One”, though. It plays an important role in the grand scheme of things. You will have an inexplicable feeling in your heart that you have found the perfect one for you. You’ll know that when all the pieces are in place.
#3 perfect time You’ve heard stories about perfect relationships that don’t work out of time. Don’t underestimate the importance of time to be with that special someone. Find the “right person” ?? hard enough and even when you do The timing has to be right. For example, he might be preparing to move around the world in his career when you first met, or she might be out of a bad relationship and not ready to commit. Going through a relationship that had a difficult start can ruin your relationship.
#4 you are at peace When you’re in a happy, healthy relationship. You should feel total happiness and peace. The stress of everyday life should be backed up by the positive emotions you feel with “The One”?? Although you may have to face a difficult problem. But you still feel comfortable in the fact that you’re in a relationship with someone you’re willing to fight through everything.
#5 You want what you didn’t expect. People with our hearts have a mysterious power to change our minds. Stay with “one” ?? It will change your mind in many ways. For example, you might see yourself as someone who never wants to have children but when you meet “The One” ?? There is a very high chance that you will change your mind. Especially if your partner wants to have children. Stability and security tend to do that with the most cynical. as well as those who never believed in marriage.
When you find the perfect person for you Long-term commitments seem like a natural thing to do and not something to fear. The same can be said for doing things you never thought you’d try, like backpacking to India or trekking the Andes.
#6 You like their flaws Did you know that you have met “The One”?? When you can say with certainty that you still love this person despite your flaws. It’s a two-way street, and if your partner can say the same about you, who’s to say you didn’t mean it?
#7 You are not together because of loneliness. As is the case with any relationship It’s important to consider why you’re with your partner in the first place. If you can say with certainty that you are together Not just out of fear of being alone Show that you are on the right track. Many people mistakenly think that they have found their soulmate. Just because they can’t stand the thought of being alone. [Read: Are you lonely in your relationship? Here are 7 ways to fix that!]
#8 have mutual respect Love and respect go hand in hand. And you have to realize that one thing cannot work without the other. If your relationship has a deep sense of mutual respect. You can confidently say that you have found the very important feature “The One”?? should possess [Read: 9 unspoken relationship rules all couples need to follow]
#9 You trust each other completely. If you can’t trust each other You might end up breaking up immediately. There’s no point in tricking yourself into believing that both of you can fix it without trust. Being able to trust your partner wholeheartedly is one of the key factors in deciding whether you’ve found the “right person” or not. [Read: How to get over trust issues in your relationship]
#10 You will never change anything. Many people go through difficult times hoping that they will do something different. However, you can be sure that you have found the right person. If you can say with certainty that even after many hardships and sorrows You won’t change anything. You are willing to go through those difficult times. If it means in the end you will be with your partner
#11 You are like yin and yang. Having a good relationship is about fulfilling and bringing out the best in each other. If you get along well with the other half that is famous despite that you are different You know you’ve found your perfect match.
#12 You can never imagine another life. Finding your soulmate is all about wanting to build a life together. and other options Unrelated to this person is something that cannot be imagined. If you want to know if the person you are with is really “The One” or not?? Then take a moment to imagine what life would be like without him. If the thought of not seeing this person every day of your life hurts you too much to believe? Show that you have found a healer.
#13 Being together is important. Saying “Where there is a will, there is a way” ?? It definitely applies to relationships. When you met “The One”?? You will do whatever it takes to keep your relationship. No matter how impossible it seems Either they traveled far enough to find ways to get back together or moved abroad to support their spouse’s career. Being together is the most important thing. Even if you know life will be horribly different. But you wouldn’t mind taking the risk if it meant being with your partner.
#14 Sacrifice Made Easy No one wants to sacrifice for someone they don’t care about. Even if people do it for the people they love. But that doesn’t change the fact that giving up isn’t easy. But if you’re sure you’ve found The One?? Some sacrifices are easy to make. In fact, what was previously impossible to give up will seem much easier if you make it for the people you love.
#15 You have the same goals. Being with someone special is not looking into each other’s eyes, but looking in the same direction. Once you’ve decided that you all have the same goals. This person is probably the perfect person for you. Either one day moving to Australia for a year out in the outback. or buying a home in the country and raising a family. If you and your partner have the same goals. You write it as a sign that you have found it. “One and only”??
#16 Physical attraction is prevalent. Think of quality instead of quantity. It may be true that people in new relationships have more sex than long-term relationships. Real life and responsibilities often interfere with daily romping between sheets. Shows that you may have found the right person for you. [Read: 10 naughty games to spice up your sex life]
#17 You want to share everything. Having that special someone in your life means having someone you can share everything with. From your darkest fears to detailed descriptions of what you ate for lunch. If you can open up and share everything with this person. You will be able to say with certainty that you have revealed your soul to your soulmate. You want to share your past, present and future with others. this for a lifetime [Read: 13 unique ways to build intimacy with your partner]
#18 You are completely yourself. This is probably the most important point in determining if you’ve found the right partner. If you can be completely yourself You will surely find a home run in the love department. There is no longer any need to defend yourself or try to impress your partner. What matters is that you love each other despite your quirks and minor flaws.
It may take years of different life experiences to know if your partner is “first” or not?? But if you open your eyes and look for these signs You will learn whether your relationship is worth maintaining or not. When you see all these signs in your relationship Let us congratulate you on finding “The One!”