In a world that seems to glorify relationships I can’t help but feel alienated, you ask. Why? because I don’t want a relationship
Being in a relationship was really the focus of my teens. I’m not completely alone in this either. Most of my friends have had boyfriends since the age of 13. This is normal in today’s society.
In fact, if you’re single and aren’t searching for a significant other to post pictures online and brag about your friends. assume you are strange The idea that someone doesn’t want to be in a committed relationship is elusive for some.
current expected relationship
To be honest, I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been to friends and family parties. And someone asked me who I was dating. It’s not that I’m dating anyone. But who are you dating? As if they just expected me to always have someone.
because they expected that from me because society expects me to date Because I can’t be a woman in my early 20s and I can’t date anyone. It is expected that if you are of a certain age. You should have someone by your side. Otherwise you will be alone.
Well, I don’t want a relationship right now.
That might sound unusual to a young girl like me. But it’s true Of course there are good reasons. So many people want to have a relationship with. But I just found more reasons why I don’t want to be in a relationship. And this is the real reason
#1 I have to focus on my career. This sounds a little cliché. But now it’s more true than ever. I couldn’t be related and focused on my career at the same time, because one of them might take too much time and destroy the other. Being single has given me career advancement. in order to be in a good place before finding a partner [Read: Love or career? How to make the right choice]#2 I don’t have time for a relationship When my career began and every As it goes well with being a woman in my early 20s, I don’t have time to cuddle and watch movies with anyone. Almost every minute of the day there is something that will take me or make me happy.
#3 I want to improve myself now. I don’t think I’m fully happy with the way things are. So I don’t think I can be happy with anyone else. as I said I don’t want a relationship because I want to make sure I’m the best I can before giving myself up for someone else. [Read: 11 tips to fall in love with yourself and be a better you]#4 I’ve never really been single…ever. And you know I must be You can learn a lot in a relationship. But sometimes you can learn more when you spend time single. And now that’s what I want.
#5 There is no one I see for myself in the long run. How about being in a relationship with someone I saw myself dating for a short time? What will be the benefit? If no one is nearby that I think will have a relationship with I wouldn’t stay just to say I was taken away. [Read: 8 very obvious signs you’re a serial monogamist]#6 I don’t care about it emotionally. I have other things There’s a lot more to worry about than having a boyfriend. I’m just not in the mood to be around anyone and call 24/7. It doesn’t sound like fun to me.
#7 I am happy with the life I am. Why should I find someone to “Make me happy” when I’m completely happy with my life? Sure, couples can make me happy. But I’m not trying to make it happen when I’m satisfied with my life right now.
#8 I don’t want anyone to influence my life choices. when a girl I have a lot of life-changing decisions in the next year or so. If I’m in a relationship I will have to think about what other people want. Not only the best for me
If I’m in a relationship I can’t work cross-country or even travel the world without taking other people’s feelings seriously. I don’t want to have that kind of constraint with all my options for my possible future. [Read: 10 decisions you should never let your partner make]#9 Relationships are too much work. i mean If you’ve ever been in a serious relationship You know what I mean. Plan a date. Make sure you spend enough time with them. Talking to them all day, it’s tiring! I’m always tired And I don’t have the strength to make a relationship right now.
#10 I don’t think I can fully commit to someone right now. Being in a relationship is more than just changing your relationship status on Facebook. You are now responsible for other people’s happiness. And I can’t take that responsibility. Even if society tells me [Read: 12 obvious signs you have big commitment issues]#11 I am too selfish. I just don’t add sugar. I’m selfish. I love watching the shows I want to watch on Netflix. I like spending a lot of money on a single piece of clothing. I prefer to have time for myself instead of being forced to pay for other people to build relationships, and now it’s okay for me to be selfish.
#12 I’m not even close to being ready to settle down with someone. And because a relationship means a disruption in anything else I’ve been with with someone. so i don’t want it I’m not ready to settle down with someone and start a new life. I’ve also had too much of my life to do on my own. [Read: 16 signs you’re not ready for a serious relationship]#13 I love having a bed all to myself. In fact, I need a whole bed for myself. I spread out like no one does when I sleep, and I can’t get a good night’s sleep when I sleep with other people. Maybe a little reason But it’s also an important reason… at least for now
#14 Random connections are still fun. And until picking up a hot guy at a bar and taking him home to some amazing drunk sex isn’t fun anymore. I’m going to be single. I’m not ready to give up this part of my life just because society says I should break up and Get married soon. I just don’t want to. [Read: Dating your one-night stand: Easy or sleazy?]#15 I like my freedom. I know you have some freedom when you’re in a relationship. But not as much as when you were single. I can wear what I want do what you want I can see whoever I want. and do not have to report to anyone
I don’t necessarily make sure my partner is okay with the fact that I want to go camping for a week because I don’t have one! [Read: 15 reasons why being single can be a lot of fun, too!]Although I can understand people who want to be in a relationship, at this point in my life. it’s not for me These are just some of the reasons I don’t want to be in a relationship right now. And I’m satisfied!