You see him walk into the club and all eyes are on him. You know the type—a class A player. Here are 10 ways to beat a player before they can play for you.
He’s beautiful, charming, rich and fancy, and he speaks five languages. He’s like Barney. Stinson in real life There is simply a way to look better and irresistible. but instead is deceitful
He walks towards you and his glowing eyes alone make you kneel. He might just be the perfect man you’ve been waiting for. Or have you just been caught in the crosshairs of a prowler?
How to beat players in your own game
Before you fall prey to a charismatic predator whose sole purpose is to get into your pants. Check out the following list for the best ways to master your A-game and beat players before they play you:
#1 Play hardwood. if he plays with you at your own expense You wouldn’t want to make it easy for him, right? That’s right. Nothing challenges a player more than the idea of conquering. If you want to get his attention and let him chase you. Lets start with indifference. Or better ignore him.
if he comes close to you Keep yourself cool and put him down. If he’s trying to get your attention, avert his gaze, staring at your drink as if the most interesting thing in the room. or disappeared in the girl’s room Pretending that you didn’t notice him or didn’t care in the slightest would challenge his confidence. And he might want to prove you wrong. [Read: How to play hard to get with a guy]
#2 Accept him, but don’t be overly enthusiastic. Players are familiar with women who flirt above them. If you bump into each other in the same club and they are still following you. You know you have him where you want.
Get to know him enough to make him curious and teasing his appetite for the food you care about. Smile at him, nod at him from across the room. and have him buy you a drink. However, this is not a reason for you to sleep with him the same night. Let him get to know you a little to keep him more interested. Say his name over and over like a hypnotic and touch his arm when he tells a joke you know he uses on almost every woman in the room. But before the night is over, walk away [Read: 14 ways to show a guy you like him and still be a tease]
#3 Show him you’re having a good time. whether you work well Enjoy exercising with your girlfriend. or enjoy shopping alone Show him that you’re living your life even if you’re single. Nothing makes any man appreciate a woman more than seeing her confident and happy in her own skin. This also shows players that you’ve got some good stuff. many come into life And you still have much better things to do than with him. Actually you don’t need him in your life
#4 Get the attention of other men and make sure players see this. Looking good, feeling good, having confidence, and getting the attention of other men. Indicates that you are fine by yourself. go out with another man And if another guy comes up to you in a bar, smile, laugh, and giggle. Seeing the match will increase his interest. Because he saw this as another challenge he wanted to overcome. [Read: How to make a guy jealous and get his attention]
#5 Practice the art of flirting. The ball has started rolling and of course you have to get ready. You wouldn’t go to the battlefield without weapons, would you? So if you don’t even know a little bit about flirting. It’s time to start
Look into his eyes from across the room and give him a seductive smile. when he comes to you Talk to him quickly and flirt. And maybe even sarcasm here and there. laugh at his jokes but don’t flatter him Make it clear that while you flirt with him You will not be fooled by his good tricks. make everything light and fun and he will want to be closer to you [Read: 30 sexy flirting tips for girls]
#6 maintain an atmosphere of mystery It’s not enough to be incomprehensible. be mysterious In addition to the glances and smiles Don’t give too much information about yourself. If he asks about your date Instead, shrug and smile reluctantly and ask. he about his day Don’t talk about your ex. your hopes and fears what do you like in men or how you burned your tongue that morning by sipping coffee too quickly.
Make him guess what you’re thinking by speaking vaguely. Let him know who you are and what you are about. And he will want to find you like a jigsaw puzzle. [Read: How to be mysterious without being too distant]
#7 Don’t be too busy for him. Players are accustomed to having all the women calling. They’re also used to texting women and calling them all the time. Different, wait for him to take over. and if he texts you Don’t reply to him right away. Even waiting a few days for a reply. or if he calls and doesn’t pick up right away Show him that you have more things to do than sit by the phone and wait for him. The same is true for your social media accounts. Don’t waste time stalking him on Facebook or Instagram. [Read: 8 social media users that make you want to scream]
#8 Check Your Jealousy Meter If he’s a really good player The lack of interest in him will not frustrate him. He might be trying to change your subject by hanging out with other girls and making sure you see him. Well, guess what… this won’t come to you because you won’t be jealous.
In fact, show him that you don’t care at all. And you shouldn’t! This is what he wants And you’ll look the most outstanding if you don’t play the game in his mind. And if he’s really ruthless and starts hitting your friend? Be nice to her and not look at her as a competitor.
#9 Keep your options open do you know that “There are many fish in the sea”? Hold on because it’s true You always have a choice—if not now or later. It was already like that. And if you don’t see anyone else now Instead, find something different, like your job, your friends, or your hobbies. It’s important to keep yourself from getting too emotional so that if he leaves you high and dry. You will know that you will be fine. [Read: How to stop obsessing over a guy you’re interested in]
#10 Play him before he plays you. If you really want to play as a player You must know this game better than he knows. and most importantly You must be a better player. The first and foremost rule of playing is not to fall in love with that person. Remember it’s just a game. and unless he really steps up He’s not worth your time. your interests or your love[Read: 10 signs he’s not playing hard to get–he’s playing you]
If you don’t know what a player is Chances are you’ll be able to walk the next morning. Like any other woman before you, you’ll be part of the stats. Another number on his list So arm yourself with these tips to avoid playing around. most important Remember that the best man for you is the one who never forces you to play games.