It’s hard to have a narcissist in your life. You may be trying to get revenge on the pain and wondering what is the worst thing you can do to a narcissist.
If you have a relationship with a narcissist, I have sympathy for you. You may come to a point in a relationship where you wonder what is the worst thing you can do with a narcissist because you want revenge.
The pain and confusion caused by this kind of relationship go unspoken. I know this because I’ve been there.
I’m not an advisory columnist trying to give you basic advice on what to do and what not to do. And I’m not the one who tries to say ‘it’s okay’ to you. There are a million things you shouldn’t do. But what if you want to find peace and comfort in this type of relationship? There is only one answer – get out.
Easier said than done, right?[Read: How to handle a narcissist without losing yourself]
When you love a narcissist
You might love a narcissist. I do. It’s hard to explain how you can love someone who treats you so badly, but that’s a hoax. Filling up gas makes you overlook the bad because you question them deeply. You think you’re building it in your head. that you are toxic By avoiding seeing the advantages in your partner. [Read: 16 signs your lover is gaslighting and messing with your head]
It couldn’t be further from the truth.
Most importantly, if you want to try and deal with this relationship. You got into that situation. Accept that you are in that situation. understand that there is no future when you do that You can find a way to get away from it all. but in the meantime Avoid the worst thing you can do to a narcissist – seek revenge.
The hard reason is because you want to make them feel the same pain it causes you. It’s impossible because they don’t feel the same way as you. and even if they feel that way They wouldn’t sit and watch their actions and think, ‘Well, maybe I shouldn’t have done that to them. Maybe I’m wrong.’ Those words and thoughts like that did not arise in the brain of a narcissist.[Read: Why do narcissists ignore texts and do the selfish things they do?]
The worst thing you can do with a narcissist is to try and even score.
Revenge doesn’t work You have to understand deeply about narcissism.
You can think of many things. Narcissists are suffering from narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) and there is no cure. Of course they can handle it. But it means they have to admit that something was wrong in the first place. That’s something a narcissist won’t do.
As a result, they stay with it. And you’re on the worst side of it all.[Read: The clear and chilling signs you’re in a narcissistic relationship]
When someone hurts you over and over again When someone tortures you and makes you feel less than yourself. You’ll wonder what’s really going on. At first, you’ll think it’s you and believe the scam they’ve sent you. Then slowly unpack it and realize, ‘Hey, I didn’t think this was all. I’
The more you question and analyze it, the more The more you realize you don’t want to feel this way anymore. That’s the moment we all need in this situation!
So you need a way to get out of the situation. But the most natural thing in the world is trying to get revenge on those who hurt you and make you feel less.
When you try this with a narcissist They won’t know what you’re doing. They are very confused and they will not understand that this is revenge. As a result, they will throw it all back at you and make your life more miserable than it should be. [Read: Narcissistic rage and how to handle it]
Your actions will not work. It will come back to you ten times worse. As a result, you will wonder why you wasted your time and energy. In a positive way, it will help you know that you are doing the right thing by leaving. So at least that cloud had a very tight silver lining.
Also, the worst thing you can do with a narcissist is to try to make them feel guilty or sorry for their actions. All of this is part of the revenge mission. But they don’t feel the same way as you and me. They have no sympathy. Empathy is at the heart of every human feeling we have. When you have no sympathy you don’t care about other people You are selfish and selfish. You don’t know when you hurt someone. And even if you do, you don’t care.
So when you realize this You understand that seeking revenge is a waste of your own time. It’s a much better time to escape.[Read: How to find your way out of the mess if you have narcissistic victim syndrome]
Hurting the ego, hurting the narcissist.
Of course, if we’re talking about the worst thing you can do to a narcissist in terms of trying to react. That was definitely their ego. If you hurt their ego in any way They will respond hard and fast.
You see, narcissism is all about the ego. that’s what they are what they do what they believe and the image they want to show the world When you question your ego You are questioning the foundation on which they have created the image they want to show.
Remember that under everything A narcissist has a very questionable self-confidence. They rely on other people’s scrutiny to feel good. They wear fake masks and search by building ego bricks one by one. [Read: Narcissistic supply – How to stop giving the attention they crave]
when you ask questions You are questioning its existence and its value. As a result, they have a tendency to slash and spoil everything around you. Because you are the one who will end up suffering.
The best course of action is to understand your truth and know that you need to leave and focus on yourself. no doubt You’ve spent a lot of time focusing on this person up to this point. Because that’s what a narcissist makes you do. As a result, you lack confidence. They don’t have any self-worth and need very little TLC. The best person to give to you is yourself. [Read: How to make a narcissist regret leaving you]
Is a narcissist an obnoxious person? This is the eternal question. Remember that narcissists have a personality disorder, in fact they can’t help with certain actions. But it didn’t get it right. You don’t have to stay and deal with it or be their verbal behaviour. set yourself free Spend time with people who really deserve you. by yourself[Read: How to get a narcissist to walk away from your life for good]
The worst thing you can do with a narcissist is seek revenge or attack their ego. But in the end, what’s the point? Focus on yourself and the life you want to lead. Then plan your escape!