Men can be weird sometimes. What should you do when a guy friend acts weird out of the blue? First of all—don’t panic!
When your guy friends act weird around you, there are a few possible reasons. However, it could be that he’s just thinking about something and he’s distracted by everyone.
Think back to when you were stressed at work or had millions of articles written due in a matter of days. It’s easy to be less used, distant, and in some cases bizarre. Being distracted can do that to you.
When a close friend becomes a little distant or they show a little manners. It’s normal to panic and wonder if it’s something you’ve done. Fortunately, that doesn’t have to be the case.
When your guy friend acts weird There is another possible cause. In fact, there are two reasons.
[Read: How to just be friends with a guy when he wants more]When guy friends act weird: Two possible reasons why.
First of all, did you do something to upset him? Have you been less free lately? Have you ever said something unconsciously? Of course, men are not as emotional as women when it comes to their opinions. But the man still had feelings. If you’ve ever said something that hurts him. Whether you intend or not That might be why all of a sudden Your guy friends are acting weird.
Look back and think carefully. Of course, chances are it won’t be because you’re a good friend and won’t hurt your friends, right?
However, remember that we are all human beings. Sometimes we are extravagant without meaning at all. If this is the case, sit down, apologize, buy his favorite chocolate or treat to say ‘sorry’ and let it go.
[Read: How to make up with a friend when you don’t want to lose them]So what is the second option?
This is an entirely more worrisome reason.
Brace yourself.
His feelings changed.
When your guy friend acts weird Of course, probably not for this reason. But could it be that he’s starting to like you a little bit?
may. [Read: 28 hush-hush signs someone has a really big crush on you]
Because of this, his behavior changed slightly because he felt uncomfortable. He wasn’t sure what to do with this new development.
Do you remember that episode? friend When Joey suddenly started having feelings for Rachel? He told himself that nothing, it would disappear, but it affected his behavior around her. Finally had to clear.
[Read: How to know if your guy friend is crushing on you without directly asking him]Now, I’m not suggesting that this is the exact reason why your friend is starting to act a little weird, but it could be a possible reason. Don’t jump straight in. and tell him that you already know his important secret. Can you imagine that you were wrong? Oh, terrifying! But it is something that should be considered and seen as possible.
Of course, it all depends on how long he’s been acting like this. And the way he behaves weirdly, has he avoided touching you all of a sudden when he was a bit naughty before? Does he have any additional excuses to touch you? Is his behavior flirtatious or is he cold?
Of course, he might as well have completely forgotten about it.
I just dropped a bomb on you. You are now examining the friendship in your heart and looking for clues. But it could be that he didn’t even know that he was acting impolitely.
This development doesn’t really make this puzzle easier to solve, right? You see, humans are complex and men in particular. men in general *Although I don’t want to be totally implied*, like most women, I’m not open to their feelings. The result is that you might have to guess a little as to what’s going on under the surface. [Read: How to tell if a friend likes you romantically even if he’s hiding it]
The probability is that there will be no bad feelings. occur under the surface It might be as simple as With his team losing a couple of bounce games and he’s not happy with it, or his PlayStation is broken and he wonders how he’ll pay to fix this.
Again, I’m summarizing, but these are absolute possibilities.
If you’re really worried about what’s going on and notice that your boyfriend has been acting weird for a long time now. to sit and talk to him Don’t make announcements now. “We have to talk” all because that would surprise him.
Instead, wait until when they both feel cold and the atmosphere relaxes. Then say something like, “Hey, tell me your own business if you want. But is everything okay?” He should have said he was fine. Then add that you notice that he’s acting a little differently and want to check in with him. [Read: How to get someone to open up so you can really connect]
If he says he’s fine again, just let it go. Sow the seeds You have taken it away that you notice. In this case, he will find it in himself to wash away what bothers him. Or will he try to stop acting weird? You’re done, guys don’t *have that word again* like they’re pushed.
Just let him know you’re there if he needs anything. That’s all you have to do. What do you do with it? Again, don’t jump to conclusions. If you really doubt this Think in advance how you feel. lest you be caught if a confession occurs.
Is it something you’re open to, or is it a crossing of friendship that you’re not happy to cross in your own mind? At least it’s something worth checking out.
[Read: See a friendship, not fireworks? Here’s how to friendzone a guy]Important things to remember don’t panic
When your guy friend is acting weird, don’t panic. Really? It’s easy to say it. When all kinds of friends start sending you weird feelings in your own way, you naturally ask questions. but wait As long as you let him know that you notice and are by his side. That’s all you can really do. It is likely that he will pull himself out of it. Then everything will return to normal. Or at least in life it is possible.
There may be times in your friendship when you feel weird without realizing it. Again, this is caused by stress or simply being distracted by something else. Don’t go looking for big reasons when they shouldn’t. However, I have to mention people who might like it because it might be the reason. It doesn’t have to be a reason
It’s normal to want to be your friend. But if he doesn’t want to open up about what’s wrong and you just get the “I’m fine” call all the time, no matter how hard it is, accept it.
[Read: How to make someone feel better and help a sad friend]When your guy friend acts weird You may be analyzing too much. Although it is possible that there is a deeper reason. But the chance of it being something serious is low.
