when talking about men Winning their hearts may not be as easy as you might think. Especially when your boyfriend is mad at you. Here’s what to do
Every relationship goes through tough times. There will be times when one of you makes a mistake and makes the other angry. As a woman, you may want your man to make amends to make you feel better right away. But most men are not the same.
Maybe you can’t stand the rage to go to bed. but for your man Sleep was all he needed to clear his head. no matter the case If you are mad and make you mad You need a different approach.
When Your Girlfriend Is Angry With You: 15 Things You Can Do
If your boyfriend is annoyed or if the two of you just got into an argument over something you might have done. Here are some things you need to keep in mind to get things going smoothly in no time.
#1 Do not fight fire with fire If you just got into a fight Both of your nerves could be shot. He might get angry because of what you did. But that doesn’t mean you have to be angry. Even if you have the right point But it won’t help your case if you add a power point to the argument. Choose your fight and let him speak one last time. even this time
#2 give him space Although you might want to fix things. immediately after the fight But your man can’t say the same thing. Men need their space to think things through. So you might want to step back for a while. Even if you feel the urge to approach him and make things better, when your boyfriend is mad at you. He always wanted some much-needed personal time. [Read: 10 obvious hints guys give when they want more space]#3 don’t push the point If he ignores you or tries to avoid problems, let him go. This is part of his need for some space. If you quarrel with something You can’t force him to reconcile and talk about it right away. Most men do not face each other. So you should wait until both of you are in a better mood before you start talking.
#4 Give it time. give it a few days If you’ve done something terrible or have had a big fight. It’s possible that both will still be at a disadvantage. He may want to separate himself from the situation a little and look at things in perspective. After you see that he may have time to think things over, that’s when you start to raise issues to settle or make some compromises. type [Read: How taking a break in a relationship works]#5 Let him know that you still care. As you give him time and distance Let him know that you are by his side. Let him see that you are giving him space. But don’t isolate yourself so much that he can’t get to you if he has his own problems or wants to talk about your latest riff.
#6 not personal If your guy doesn’t seem to want to talk to you, ignores you, or doesn’t answer your calls, don’t take it personally. as we said before Men need time and space to process what’s going on. It’s not your fault that he still doesn’t want to talk to you. *Although it might be your fault that he’s maddeningly mad*
#7 respect his privacy So I need some space He doesn’t talk to you. He doesn’t meet. Not just your usual afternoon coffee. That doesn’t mean you should hack into his Facebook and Twitter accounts just to see if he’s looking for another woman or mentions you to his friends. It won’t help if you’re snooping around. Just let it go and let him come to you. [Read: 6 big reasons to stop cyber stalking your guy’s ex]#8 Don’t gossip about your battles. Okay, you might feel bad about the fight and think you’re right. But don’t mess with your boyfriend about that. Even if a small talk is okay. So you can release your emotions and have something to cry about. Please do not betray and gossip about your man. Now he’s angry The last thing he wants is to hear from other people how you and they fight.
#9 wait for the right time When you think he’s ready to talk Choose the right time and place to chat. avoid public places And always think of the worst situations *for example, you might cry and kneel. Or he might roar in anger.* These things are better done in private and out of distraction.
#10 Apologize… and mean it. It is useless to prolong your battle and keep your ego satisfied. Especially if it was your fault in the first place. If your relationship means a lot to you To admit that you really made a mistake. and sorry for hurting his feelings and making him angry when you start talking Make a sincere apology and stop wanting to subside, reason, or turn the blame on your boyfriend. [Read: How to apologize and say sorry to a lover]#11 Truly listen. when you start talking Avoid switching to one-way conversations. If you really want to apologize to your guy So that he doesn’t get angry anymore, let him talk. Let him talk to you about what he feels or how you make him feel. Listen carefully to what he has to say and avoid interrupting him. [Read: 10 ways to be a better listener in your relationship]#12 You don’t need the last word. Relationships are a matter of compromise. Although there are inevitable misunderstandings. But you should be able to choose your battle. You don’t have to be right all the time. Just as he doesn’t always have to feel right. When your boyfriend is mad at you about what you’ve done. Be humble enough to accept responsibility and never make excuses.
#13 Show your love for him. Show him that you continue to love him even if he is angry with you. This is the perfect time for you to speak sweetly to him. kiss anger away to speak You can use hugs and kisses to win his heart. so that he no longer gets angry—end of conversation.
#14 Compensate for Everything When you admit your mistakes and talk about what went wrong. You don’t have to compensate for what happened. If he’s mad at you for texting your ex, don’t do it again, better than deleting him from your contacts and social media accounts. This time, don’t give your man a reason to be jealous anymore and take all your attention and affection from now on. [Read: How to fight fair in a relationship and grow closer]#15 Don’t do it again *or at least do your best*. When your boyfriend is mad at you, just saying “I’m sorry” isn’t enough. but also prevent it from happening again in the future. Apologizing for something one day and then turning around and making the same mistake the next will make him wary of accepting your apology in the future. [Read: Breakup to makeup: 10 ways to give love a second chance]Following the advice above will give you some good options for reconciliation and compensation when your boyfriend is mad at you. Who knows, you might end up having hot sex!