Why Ghosters Always Come Back: Understand the Mind of a Ghoster

You don’t know why you’re haunted by ghosts. When it’s time for you to leave, the ghost is back, what the heck? Why do ghosters always come back?

Why did the ghost come back?

If being ghosted isn’t confusing enough. It was even more puzzling. Why do ghosters always come back? I mean, being ghosted is a one-sided breakup with no cover. What will you do when they come back? if no answer It can be difficult to move on and even harder to rebuild yourself.

But when you realize that you deserve better and move on, boom! You received a message from your ghoster.

It could be anything from get up?” “I see you got promoted. Congratulations, you deserve it.” But never an apology, explanation, or even acknowledgment or mention of any wrongdoing.

What if someone wants to end the relationship or flirt with you to the point where they can’t explain to you the reason why they got back together? According to the article from psychology todayGhosts often choose that path because it’s not a permanent breakup. Do they always plan to come back?

When wondering why ghost ghosts always come back The answer is not as easy as you might think. This person is very afraid of your reaction to them. until all communication was interrupted But now they’re back. Why? [Read: Why being ghosted hurts so much and what you need to do about it]

What will it be called when ghosters return?

We know what a ghost is But when the ghost comes back, what is that? It’s definitely not a haunt as it’s much more annoying and subtle. Is it resurrected? No, that’s too good. I think this word is a zombie.

Yes, zombies. That’s the correct description for the returning ghoster. This is not someone who yearns for a second chance. But someone secretly came back to eat your brain. Or more, it truly hurts your soul. [Read: How to handle the zombies of dating]

Why do ghosts always come back?

same as me I hope your first reaction to the returning ghoster was F*** OFF, but not all of us can shut up like ghosters can. Many were too kind for that and felt they deserved an explanation. while others Just wanted to see what they would say.

Either you want to know why your ghoster came back or you want to know for research purposes. This is why ghosters always come back. [Read: 15 ways to ghostbust a ghost like a badass]

1. They are bored

This is probably the most common. When the ghost is bored or bored Now that they were bored with something else, they reached out.

You’ll know this is the reason if they reach out with little effort. They might just say ‘hey’ and see if you respond.

2. They want to increase their ego.

This is something the ghosts will never accept. But you’d be surprised how many ghosts come back. The person who haunts you is feeling bad. Or maybe they’re just being fooled by someone else.

Even if they don’t really care, they reach out to see if you’ll respond. If you are They will feel that the vague warmth is still in your heart. do not give them satisfaction [Read: The unassuming signs you’re dating a jerk]

3. Ghosts are narcissistic.

Some of the ghosts are really narcissistic. who believe that the world revolves around them They know what they are doing when they haunt you. They know it will drive you crazy. But they still do well.

So when the ghost comes back They don’t even care about the idea that you’re ignoring them. They assume you think about them all the time. Whether it’s a week or a year, if you don’t answer, they’ll probably reach out again. [Read: Why do narcissists ignore texts and do the selfish things they do?]

4. They are forgetful

This is the most stupid and immature ghost. They really didn’t know that they weren’t good people. They think ignoring you for weeks or months is awesome. [Read: What does it mean when someone’s ignoring your texts on purpose?]

5. Ghost sees your lovely Instagram post.

yes this is what If ghosts still follow you online Also known as a haunt They might reach out because they just saw your hot Instagram post. Instead of letting you live your best life away from them and their bad past. They decide to hit you.

6. They hurt

They want a response, even if they don’t plan to meet you or talk to you for more than a night. When something doesn’t work for the ghoster, they crawl back into the lives of the people they ruined. [Read: 16 signs you’re his rebound girl and nothing more]

7. curious ghost

When it comes to ghosting, it’s all about the head game, whether ghosters are aware of it or not. The ghost wants to see where you are. Of course, he made a mistake before. But want to see if you have a grudge or want to play Netflix?

8. lazy

The ghost who returned to look like a ’90s man called a woman in his little black book. Instead of meeting someone new and build relationships He wants to light what you had before.

Who knows if his intentions were so high? *Probably not* but he seemed to be wasting energy by any means. [Read: Why do guys ghost? 15 reasons why they turn into cowardly pricks]

9. Ghosts have the right to be cocky or stupid.

Self-delusion is a valid move that proves that some people are selfish, careless, and immature. But when the ghost returns They’re just showing you again how they think their feelings are more important than yours.

10. Convenience

Ghosting is generally a convenient act. Instead of finishing the story or pausing them, the ghoster doesn’t need to plan what to say or when to say it. Ghoster does what is convenient for them. The same goes for when ghosters return.

They are lonely or curious or bored and contacting you is the most convenient way for them. [Read: 10 consequences of ghosting]

11. They really miss you.

This is the rarest opportunity. I don’t want you to have any hopes or beliefs just because they sent you a message saying, “I miss you” after ignoring you for weeks they really mean it.

But few people really feel bad. for being an idiot and asking for your forgiveness But this is only the case, if they really say or type this, they have to accept what they do. They should apologize. Otherwise it’s not worth the risk. [Read: How to handle the guys who ghost and come back]

What to do when ghosters come back?

When the ghost returns, it can be very infuriating. If you are calmer than me It might not be very satisfying. you go on And are they ready to give you a second chance now? I don’t think so

your last message *Which you can both see in the conversation* can literally say, “WTF, how to haunt me? You’re underage,” and they even dared to text you “hey cutie ;)” at 2 a.m. four months later.

Returning ghosts usually take no responsibility for leading you, cutting you off, and driving you crazy. They never explain your goodbyes. So they didn’t feel the need to explain why they came back. [Read: When someone stops texting you – The sad, mad and pissed off girl’s guide]

I also asked the ghost that came back why. A smart way to avoid their answers is a psychological miracle.

As I said, I think that in 9/10 Ghost Situations If ghosts come back, you should block them and continue your amazing life. There are quite a few times when the spirit feels bad and needs a second chance.

If they are really responsible for this. Proceed with extreme caution, otherwise don’t give them any time each day, of course, unless you’re witty and posting information online.

[Read: Haunting vs ghosting: Why haunting is so much worse]

Now you know why ghosts always come back. It might not make you feel better. But at least you know how to move forward.

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