You like her… a lot and you guys had a great time together, but now you keep scratching your head because she doesn’t text back. Why, why, why?
Ahhh. Mysterious love, isn’t it? When you think you two are really close She grimaces and confuses you. Is it what you say? Is she pretending or not? Does she have a boyfriend? All of these questions must be on your mind when she doesn’t text back.
Or maybe she did in the first place. But then she stopped texting back, so what?
when you stay long enough You will find that humans are fickle. And sometimes it’s really flaky too. The old saying “You always want what you can’t have” is sometimes very true, it shouldn’t, but it is.
Humans are simply unpredictable. It drives us crazy. but it’s true Some people are more reliable and predictable than others. but even so You still don’t know what they will do next.
20 Reasons She Doesn’t Text Back
I don’t have a wand or innate ability to read minds. But I’ve been around for a while So I have some insider information about women. And that means I know everything about the dating game.
It’s not supposed to be a “game”, but unfortunately many people make it one. So whether you like it or not. There may be a reason she doesn’t text back, and here are 20 possible reasons. [Read: Should I text her? What to know before you touch your phone]
#1 things change Yes, I know the word “stuff” is really vague. But I use that word because there can be a lot of situations that have changed. Or maybe she was drunk when you met. Or maybe she moved abroad and didn’t tell you. The possibilities of change are endless.
#2 Her feelings had changed. Well, yes, we’ve all been there. Maybe you met at a bar and she was drunk or very drunk. You know the whole “beer glass” phenomenon, right?
I don’t mean you are ugly. But maybe she’s just feeling a different “moment” from how you guys met. And now you’ve changed your mind
#3 She was just polite when she gave her number. let’s face Most women don’t like hurting other people’s feelings. *Even if some people don’t have a problem with it* But most normal humans have hearts.
So even if she doesn’t like you But she doesn’t want to make you feel bad by saying you can’t have her number. Brutal, I know, but she’s kinder in her head. [Read: 10 clear signs you should back off when pursuing a girl]
#4 You seem too selfish to her. Okay, the whole “bad boy” personality doesn’t always work. bad boy will stand Women like to know that men like her. But if you act cool and distant *Even if you ask her for her number*, she probably doesn’t like that.
#5 You seem like an overly soft-spoken person. Now we have all the stereotypes of the players. Do you know the type… Someone who will say anything to get a woman to bed, compliments, touches, body language…you know what it’s like. Maybe she thinks all your moves are just fake actions.
#6 She doesn’t like what you text her. If you just text “hey,” she might think it’s boring and lacking in effort. or if you compliment her beautiful butt She might think it’s inappropriate. Think about what you said to her. and see if you think it might be inconsistent with what she wants to hear. [Read: What to text a girl – Dos, don’ts and all the secrets to know]
#7 You are too sexually aroused. Please guys, no dick pics, really?! it’s disgusting I mean maybe if you have a committed relationship. It might be different But if you don’t really know women That doesn’t make her think! it turns her off
And even just talking about sex is inappropriate. And that’s a big reason she doesn’t text back. so don’t just do it make it level
#8 you are too needy If you’re always asking when you’ll see her again. Or you text her all day, every day… um… yes… necessary. The needy is a miser. And that’s why she doesn’t text back. There is a difference between being interested in someone and being in need. Sometimes less is more [Read: 10 needy signs you’re too available for the one you like]
#9 you compliment her too much Believe it or not, some people don’t like compliments. It made them feel uncomfortable. Or even if they like it when you compliment them. If you talk too much, it sounds fake. Compliments are great when they are unique and authentic. But if you’re doing it on every message, wait, it’s too much.
#10 You will never leave her alone. she lives you know And if you’re not dating her You’re not at the center of it. She has a job. She has friends. She has other responsibilities besides texting you back. it will turn off her
#11 You ask or say something inappropriate. You ask her what her favorite sex position is? Or how many men has she slept with? Or maybe you say you can’t wait to give her your sweet love. whatever is inappropriate all in interpretation
So err on the side of caution. Think about what you really say. Before you send a message Again, keep it classy. [Read: 18 casual things to text a girl and leave her addicted to you]
#12 She already has a boyfriend. This isn’t a luxury on the part of HER, but it does happen. she must like you very much So she acted like she was single. She went with it because she enjoyed the moment. Selfish? Yes. Did it happen? Absolutely. It’s a bummer and unethical. But it’s true… and it’s a good reason she doesn’t text back. [Read: Is a girl with a boyfriend flirting with you?]
#13 She thinks you are not special. Maybe you could use the same sentence as the last 10 men she talked to. Or do you recommend dinner and a movie? Then she thinks it “worth yawning.” Women like men who are different but in a good way.
#14 She only likes you as a friend. Ah… the scary friend zone. It might be a big reason she didn’t text back. no one wants to be there But most of us have been at some point in our lives, but listen, being friends is great too. It doesn’t mean you’re not beautiful. But it means that she doesn’t think you are right for her. [Read: 18 clear signs you’re in a girl’s friend zone]
#15 She talks to a lot of guys and can’t be honest. She’s not very classy or ethical, but girls do it a lot. She makes you think you’re the only one she talks to. You’re actually just part of the crowd.
#16 She is rude. in my opinion You should treat others the way you want to be treated. And no one wants to be ignored, right? So she might just be a rude person who doesn’t care to hurt your feelings or make you feel insignificant. In this case, goodbye her! You don’t want her anyway.
#17 She intentionally ignores you. Again, not really a nice person, but maybe she’s trying to hint you. Women don’t like to be honest. So if she doesn’t mean to text you. She might say, “Slow down,” or “Stop being needy,” or “Please don’t text me again.” Women are the queen of indirect messages. [Read: 15 signs she’s leading you on and taking you nowhere]
#18 She thinks you are boring. Do you only talk to her about sports? Or telling the same story over and over again? A woman has to find you attractive, so if you don’t stimulate her, She may have intentionally left you.
#19 She is busy. I know you want to think this is #1 And the only reason she didn’t text back and possibly but not likely If she really likes you She will always find time to communicate with you even when she is busy. But still, it’s still possible. [Read: What you need to do when a girl is playing hard to get]
#20 She plays hard to get it. Maybe she wants you to work harder to catch her. She thinks that if she “ignores” you, you will raise your game. Women like it when men chase them. and in order to do that Sometimes they play hard to get it.[Read: How to get a girl to like you again – 10 effortless steps]
If she doesn’t text back It won’t be fun And here are some reasons that might happen. but wait Don’t let it disappoint you. if she doesn’t like you Just change to the right person.