It’s tempting to stay in touch with an ex you still love. But here are 12 reasons why you need to remember the no-contact rule and follow it.
Friendship can become love
But can love become friendship?
Someone said they could
and it is true But all you have to do is avoid your ex for a few years![Read: Things to know before becoming friends with your ex]
Breakups always confuse us.
On the one hand, we hurt because we lost a large piece of our heart to someone else.
and vice versa We still want to connect with the same broken hearted person and walk over it!
No wonder it is said that love is a sweet misery.
We want something bad, even though we know what it will do is hurt us more.
It’s understandable that you always want to keep in touch with your ex.
But sometimes it’s best to avoid contact with your ex. Staying connected, though, feels like a great consolation prize to win after a breakup.[Read: I miss him but I don’t think he misses me]
What is the no-contact rule?
The no-contact rule is a good rule that has been passed down through the ages. or more i believe
As a rule, exes are still exes and are never friends.
The former couples who were once completely in love now avoid each other on purpose and greet each other with awkward smiles like distant acquaintances as they regularly bump into each other.
It sounds harsh, but that’s what the no-contact rule is all about.
Why is the no-contact rule a smart choice?
Every relationship has an ending. 2 Types are happy endings and sad ones.
If both of you decide to split up because there is no more true love in romance. It ended happily *wow, irony!*
If you still love your boyfriend But your partner’s arms cause you to break up because they no longer care about you or are dating someone else. That is a sad ending for you and possibly a happy ending for you soon to be in the past.
If the breakup ended in a happy ending for you, The no-contact rule means nothing to you. Because you may be in a different relationship or are already happy with your single life. [Read: 16 signs your ex still loves you and wants you back]
But if you’re the only one caring for your broken heart in your lonely room As your current girlfriend jumps from the happy Facebook photo to the next one. The no-contact rule will definitely apply to you.
How to follow the no contact rules
You know, people who care enough about their desperate attempts to be friends with their ex only want to be friends because they still love their ex. [Read: Are you still in love with your ex?]
If you’re having a hard time moving on from the breakup, You have to realize that the only reason you’re still hurting and miserable is because you want your ex back in your arms. Even if you don’t want to date your ex again. Being in pain means that you feel empty in your heart and want more love in your life.
The more you keep in touch with your ex, the better. The more you realize how empty your heart is when there is no love in it.
The best way to get rid of your emotions and heal the hole in your heart is to avoid your ex altogether. This will help you keep moving forward without having to constantly remember how lonely you are every time you see your ex flirting with someone else.
Resist the temptation to get in touch or call your ex to say hi. Don’t spend your free time frantically searching for new pictures or news of their new relationship status online. and for crying out loud Avoid looking for a way to bump into them just so you can shake hands or exchange warm but awkward hugs. [Read: Things to know before you google your ex’s name]
If you feel pain inside after the breakup You must follow the no-contact rule and avoid your current ex entirely. It’s the only way you can bring a natural smile back to your face again.
12 reasons why the no-contact rule is the best choice
Are you still unsure about the fact that the no-contact rule is the best way to win over your ex? Here are 12 good reasons why contact rules don’t have to be your best friend right now.
#1 you can’t go on You can’t move on if you’re stuck at the same point in your love life. As long as you are near your ex. You will always remember how much you miss your relationship. Only when you step out emotionally You will be able to look around and find new things to fill the emptiness you feel in your heart.
#2 Your feelings will always be renewed. If you’ve been dumped by someone you love or even if you’ve split up. Relationship status will change overnight. But your feelings towards your ex won’t catch up. If you see your ex all the time There is a high chance that you will fall in love with him even after they have broken up. [Read: 10 things to do after a break up to feel better immediately]
#3 Focus on treatment. It’s easier to focus on healing when you don’t have to bother staring at your perfect ex. Memories have a sneaky way to crop up every time you see your ex. The more you see your ex. It’s even harder to stop loving him.
#4 you will forgive more Your ex may be a selfish person who only cares about himself. If your ex cheated on you or dumped you for another date, and all of a sudden, they decided to come back to you. You won’t be able to stop yourself from accepting their apology when you’re constantly in touch with them.
after the breakup Your heart needs someone to fill the void in it. Don’t be around a selfish ex, or you’ll hurt yourself again the other day.
#5 You can’t fall in love with someone else. When you ignore the rules, do not contact and contact with your ex. You will feel that dating other people is immoral. And even if you’re trying to find someone or something else that will bother you. The thought of breaking up will always be in your mind. It makes you feel uncomfortable and sad all the time. [Read: How to use a rebound relationship to get over a breakup]
#6 Your life is full of broken memories. You want new memories and experiences. unrelated to your ex If you want to stand up and experience happiness again. The more you meet your ex. The more you remember the old only get more
#7 A frightening opening and closing relationship When two ex-girlfriends ignore the no-contact rule and keep in touch most of the time. They will get back together because they are both lonely and need the relationship to feel complete.
before you know it The two of you may be reunited in the heat of your personal time when no one is around. And if the relationship doesn’t happen because of so many different expectations? You may be dealing with open relationships that will hurt you more. and make you feel worse than ever [Read: Questions to ask yourself to find out if you should date your ex again]
#8 You can never be yourself around you again…ever. let’s face A breakup changes everything about a relationship. You can’t hold your ex in your arms or kiss him goodbye when you feel that way. There will always be some awkwardness in the air unless the two of you are completely together. Can you deal with frustration all the time? Is being friends with your ex worth more than comfort?
#9 The touch of the past makes you weaker than ever. When you’re in a relationship with someone A relationship must have a lot of sexual chemistry. But after you broke up with them What you can do with them is totally limited. whether it’s sex or romance
and when any activity becomes prohibited or restricted That activity becomes an addiction because you want it worse than you used to. If you still love your ex Every touch or hug can cause a tense, sexual atmosphere. And you will feel more pain with every touch. [Read: Do you want to have sex with your ex again?]
#10 You will get hurt if you keep in touch. Especially if your ex has moved. Every time you try to keep warm with them or try to remind them of the special moments you both share. Your ex might just call you a nasty name or walk away with an annoyed expression. and you will be there Standing alone with a broken heart full of helpless humiliation.
#11 Sad disappointment. Even watching your ex flirt with someone. Or looking at the happy pictures of your ex on Facebook hugging someone else can annoy you. And worst of all, no one in the world truly understands what you’re feeling at that moment. You are alone and in trouble All because you decided to keep in touch and bypass the no contact rules. [Read: How to let go of someone you love by hating them]
#12 You lack your heart. A piece of your heart is lost because you gave it to your ex. let’s face after the breakup You can’t get it back.
You need your space for your heart to heal or be filled with the love of another person. Staying connected will remind you of the space within you. And it won’t be cured as long as you’re around the person who took it from you in the first place. [Read: 10 steps to get over your romance with a happy memory]
believe no contact rule
you love your ex And you can’t imagine not talking to them or seeing them every day. Your heart hurts and feels lost without them in your arms. but you know what? bad luck for you You really have no choice here.
You can’t heal your heart. unless you walk away It was a miserable and pathetic feeling. But your broken heart will heal faster than you think. All you have to do is give your heart a safe chance to heal itself by avoiding people who break your heart every time you walk into your life.[Read: How to love again after being hurt by someone]
The no contact rule is very difficult to follow. but for your own happiness You have to learn to deal with addiction. It’s not easy to avoid someone you love this much. But over the next few months, that love was lost. And you will know that this is the best decision.